rape, would would u do Options

[aznhunnie6o1]

i would put it up for adoption cause i cant handle a child rite now with school and everything. but abortion is just plain WRONG!!

x3, cindy

[x shootingstar x]

my first post.. but i found this very interesting.

i would keep it. i thought about it once.. and i thought it's either gonna be abortion or keep it. I couldn't decided.. then one night...



..... i got a dream that i was pregnant!!! it was this extraordinary feeling.. i thought it was real.. and it was like.. i got a living soul inside of me.. it was nice.. i cried in dat dream.. i was trying to decide whether or not to abort it.. but later on in that dream.. i felt something touching me inside.. wonderful feeling. so i'll keep that baby.

[lilanglbaby418]

i'd go through with the pregnancy.
and then either adoption or keep him/her.

[eli5e]

this is a tough decision.

[Perfection]

RAPE ME RAPE ME!! See if i'm gonna get pregnant!!

[thaichic192]

Well, I woudln't have an abortion, doesn't matter if I was raped or not. I'd die in labor or something due to my young age, I'm 12, so yeah. But if I didn't, then I'd definitely get all my guy friends to kill the little b*stard who knocked me up. Oh, but if I had one of those birth control pills thing!! Then I wouldn't get pregnant ^_^ ((not saying I take them, because you only get your menstration 4 times a year, that's cool, off topic, so anyways)) If I had one of those I'd take them so IF I got raped, I wouldn't get pregnant. It's possible... If I didn't die then I'd keep the child... 9 months with a fetus inside me, I wouldn't want to give it up.

[yellQuack]

y is it that everyone is sayign abortion is so cruel?
i think u would be cruel if u DONT have abortion.
think about it, all u ppl are saying how u r killing a baby in abortion but wen u let it live and set it for adoption,
1- the child would grow up unhappy not knowing y his or her real parents didnt want them and didnt love them
2- everyone would rather be part of tehir REAL family than an adopted one so...
3- if the child ever found out, they would live their life knowing that their father was a rapist and that was the only reason they were alive

AND how about all those homeless people out there? they all starving to death because of teh over-population. y not jus abort teh baby if your not gonna care for it yourself.

all u people eho say abortion is cruel- well u dunno NOTHING about cruelty

[diezelbabygrl_xo...]

RAPE ME RAPE ME!! See if i'm gonna get pregnant!!

With pleasure.




Seriously, I would keep the baby. I believe that you shouldn't punish the child and let the rapist get away with what he did to you. Let that f*cker know that he has a child as the result of rape.

Don't punish the child for his wrongdoing.

[Oreo_bro]

y is it that everyone is sayign abortion is so cruel?
i think u would be cruel if u DONT have abortion.
think about it, all u ppl are saying how u r killing a baby in abortion but wen u let it live and set it for adoption,
1- the child would grow up unhappy not knowing y his or her real parents didnt want them and didnt love them
2- everyone would rather be part of tehir REAL family than an adopted one so...
3- if the child ever found out, they would live their life knowing that their father was a rapist and that was the only reason they were alive

AND how about all those homeless people out there? they all starving to death because of teh over-population. y not jus abort teh baby if your not gonna care for it yourself.

all u people eho say abortion is cruel- well u dunno NOTHING about cruelty

1- The child would grow up wondering yes, he/she wouldnt grow up unhappy depending on the parents. I know lots of friends who like their foster parents. Infact, i like mine, my real mom gave me up for adoption because she was to young and was raped. I see her every few weeks and i am not angry or sad or anything, and she DOES love me.

2- My best friend is also an adopted child, he is very happy with his foster parents as well. u can not say that everyone would rather be part of their real family, espcaly if their was never a family to begin with, and/or if their mother/father were abusive.

3- I do not care if my father was a rapist, i know who he is and he is in jail. I am much happyer being alive and knowing then possibly being dead and never having a chance at life.

And most of the homeless people on the street did not come from being a production of a rapeist. Most of the homeless people on the street are people who lost their job/were to lazy to do anythign and now they are on the street/and or were born into being homeless style. I would rather live out on the street and have a chance to do somethign with my life, then for my mom to have me killed cause she was "concerned" about my future.

Frankly, the statement, "why not abort the baby if your not gonna care for it yourself" is rather selfish and if i say, stupid. Most young people dont have the resourced to care for the child, especally if they were raped. Thats why they give it to a freakin LOVING FAMILY THAT WANTS A CHILD OF THEIR OWN. There are many instances of familys who can not have children of their own, and would love to adopt achild and raise them. I say that abortion is wrong because the mother doesnt care for their child and your not giving it a chance at life. Its like a leader of a dictatership country killing u casue u were black/white/asiasn/native or what ever without him ever seeing what u could do.

Abortion is cruel..i am happy my mother gave me a chance at life, so eff your damn theory.

[shortiiex]

i would NEVER keep that baby
i would put it up for adoption but the baby will feel abandoned

[hannah1019]

Well I obviously dont choose abortion, because I dont believe in it. I dont really wanna give anyone up for adoption.( I mean I would adopt a kid I do belive in adopting).. So I would keep it.

[Shattered_Hope]

every baby deserves a chance.

[gnawxela]

put him/her up for adoption...im against abortion too and keeping it is totally no right now...or even a few years later for that matter

[aiyaiyai]

hmm, abortion is against the catholic law, but i'm too young to have a kid. i might die if i do. i just have to be at the right place at the right time, eh? away from RAPERS!

y is it that everyone is sayign abortion is so cruel? 
i think u would be cruel if u DONT have abortion.
think about it, all u ppl are saying how u r killing a baby in abortion but wen u let it live and set it for adoption,
1- the child would grow up unhappy not knowing y his or her real parents didnt want them and didnt love them
2- everyone would rather be part of tehir REAL family than an adopted one so...
3- if the child ever found out, they would live their life knowing that their father was a rapist and that was the only reason they were alive

AND how about all those homeless people out there? they all starving to death because of teh over-population. y not jus abort teh baby if your not gonna care for it yourself.

all u people eho say abortion is cruel- well u dunno NOTHING about cruelty 

personally, i think that inside of your tummy the baby is already alive. so if you get an abortion, you are murdering someone. i think there's a law against that (sarcasm), but that's me and my goody-goody non-lawbreaking self.

well, you dont HAVE to give it up for adoption, you could just keep it

and about the homeless people. think about why they are out there? i doubt its because they were shunned because of their disablities. bunch of lowlifes who cant get a job or are too lazy to try. went and spent their money on something stupid i bet

[xbladeoffire90x]

i'm only 14...so probably abortion...?

parents will probably end up deciding anyway though

[tinababy143]

if i thought i could take care of it i would keep it..if i didnt think i was ready..i would give it up for adoption

[kiSHBall]

u can't kill innocent lives just like that!! its just wrong. i would put it in adoption.

[jambaJUICE]

Adoption. Every baby deserves a chance.

Exactly.

And i`d sue the guy that raped me. And make him suffer.

[jackizzle]

i think itd b really hard to keep your baby after youd been raped but i would probably either keep it or give it up for adoption... i dont think id have the heart to kill it. it would be kinda hard living with the fact that your baby is a constant reminder or your rape but id probably still keep it

[short_Stuff516]

i couldn't have an abortion-i just couldn't go through with it. and i couldn't take care of the kid so adoption is my only option.

[short_Stuff516]

oh btw, here are serval procedures on how abortion works. Please read the text in red before u reply...it sickens me just reading this stuff..and you think cutting off some ones head is bad..this makes that stuff look..well, it makes it look not as bad! omg..







Spontaneous abortions are usually called miscarriages. Most occur at home with little danger to the mother. There is sometimes excessive bleeding, however, or incomplete emptying of the uterus requiring hospitalization, during which the surgeon must gently tease the rotting remnants of the placenta (afterbirth) from the inside walls of the womb with a blunt instrument. Even when this procedure (called a D&C) is needed, there is rarely damage to the mother because the cervix (womb opening) is already softened and partly opened. Infection is rare. Baby parts are seldom found.

What kind of induced abortions are there?

In the first week there are micro-abortions caused by "contraceptive" drugs and devices (see Chapters 19 and 35). After implantation there are those induced by drugs such as RU 486, Methotrexate and prostaglandins (see Chapter 19).

In the first trimester there are surgical abortions like suction and D&C.

In the second and third trimesters there are instillation types, D&E, intracardiac injections and partial birth abortions.

What are the first trimester surgical ones?

There are several types:

- Menstrual extraction:

This is a very early suction abortion, often done before the pregnancy test is positive.

- Suction-aspiration:

In this method, the abortionist must first paralyze the cervical muscle ring (womb opening) and then stretch it open. This is difficult because it is hard or "green" and not ready to open. [B]He then inserts a hollow plastic tube, which has a knife-like edge on the tip, into the uterus. The suction tears the baby’s body into pieces.[/B] He then cuts the deeply rooted placenta from the inner wall of the uterus. The scraps are sucked out into a bottle (see color photo in back of book). The suction is 29 times more powerful than a home vacuum cleaner.

- Dilatation & Curettage (D&C):

This is similar to the suction procedure except that the abortionist inserts a curette, a loop-shaped steel knife, up into the uterus. With this, he cuts the placenta and baby into pieces and scrapes them out into a basin. Bleeding is usually profuse.[/B]

What are second trimester ones?

In the 1970s and ’80s the most common type was saline amniocentesis, or salt poisoning abortions.

These are not used much anymore because of danger to the mother. These are done after the 16th week. [B]A large needle is inserted through the abdominal wall of the mother and into the baby’s amniotic sac. A concentrated salt solution is injected into the amniotic fluid. The baby breathes and swallows it, is poisoned, struggles, and sometimes convulses. It takes over an hour to kill the baby. When successful, the mother goes into labor about one day later and delivers a dead baby.
Is it actually poisoning?

Yes. The mechanism of death is acute hypernatremia or acute salt poisoning, with development of wide-spread vasodilatation, edema, congestion, hemorrhage, shock, and death. Galen et al., "Fetal Pathology and Mechanism of Death in Saline Abortion, Amer. Jour. of OB&GYN,1974, vol. 120, pp. 347-355

And other methods?

In the ’70s and ’80s, prostaglandin drugs were used to induce violent premature labor and delivery. When used alone, there was: "...a large complication rate (42.6%) is associated with its use. Few risks in obstetrics are more certain than that which occurs to a pregnant woman undergoing abortion after the 14th week of pregnancy." Duenhoelter & Grant, "Complications Following Prostaglandin F-2 Alpha Induced Mid-trimester Abortion." Jour. of OB & GYN, Sept. 1975

Because of these problems, the D&E or Dilatation & Evacuation method was developed and largely replaced the above. It involves the live dismemberment of the baby and piecemeal removal from below.

A pliers-like instrument is used because the baby’s bones are calcified, as is the skull. There is no anesthetic for the baby. The abortionist inserts the instrument up into the uterus, seizes a leg or other part of the body, and, with a twisting motion, tears it from the baby’s body. This is repeated again and again. The spine must be snapped, and the skull crushed to remove them. The nurse’s job is to reassemble the body parts to be sure that all are removed.
This sounds dangerous.

It is, but a report from the U.S. Center for Disease Control, Dept. HEW, stated that it is still safer for the mother than the salt-poisoning or Prostaglandin method. "Comparative Risks of Three Methods of Midtrimester Abortion," Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report, Center for Disease Control, HEW, Nov. 26, 1976

It is reported that every year about 100,000 women are aborted by the D&E method, between 13 and 24 weeks gestation. Of this, 500 have "serious complications." This was still judged to have a "lower risk of morbidity and mortality than the infusion procedures." MacKay et al., "Safety of Local vs General Anesthesia for Second Trimester D&E Abortions" OB-GYN, vol. 66, no. 5, Nov.1985, p. 661

Any new methods?

Yes, intracardiac injections. Since the advent of fertility drugs, multi-fetal pregnancies have become common. "The frequency of triplet and higher pregnancies . . . has increased 200% since the early 1970s."

Since these are usually born prematurely and some have other problems, a new method has been developed. Assisted Repro. Techniques . . . , L. Wilcox, Fertl. & Sterility, vol. 65, #2, Feb. ’96, pg. 361

At about 4 months a needle is inserted through the mother’s abdomen, into the chest and heart of one of the fetal babies and a poison injected to kill him or her. This is "pregnancy reduction." It is done to reduce the number or to kill a handicapped baby, if such is identified. If successful, the dead baby’s body is absorbed.
Sometimes, however, this method results in the loss of all of the babies.

Are there 3rd trimester abortions?

A more recently developed method here is the partial birth abortion, also called "brain suction" or "D&X" methods.

- These are done after 4 or 5 months.

- 80% of babies are normal.

- Most babies are viable.

This is like a breech delivery. The entire infant is delivered except the head. A scissors is jammed into the base of the skull. A tube is inserted into the skull, and the brain is sucked out. The now-dead infant is pulled out. The drawings illustrate this.



Perhaps it’s her only choice.

"There are no medical circumstances in which a partial-birth abortion is the only safe alternative. We take care of pregnant women who are very sick, and babies who are very sick, and we never perform partial-birth abortions. . . . There are plenty of alternatives. . . . This is clearly a procedure no obstetrician needs to do." F. Boehm, Dr. OB, Vanderbilt U. Med. The Washington Times, May 6, 1966, p. A1

But isn’t it the safest?

To do this was called a "version & breech delivery." This was abandoned decades ago as it was too dangerous. Instead today the much safer Cesarean Section is used. Dr. Warren Hern, author of the late term abortion medical text said, "I would dispute any statement that this is the safest procedure to use. The procedure can cause amniotic fluid embolism or placental abruption." AMA News, Nov. 20, 1995, p. 3

Dr. Pamela Smith, Director of Medical Education, Dept. of Ob-Gyn at Mt. Sinai Hospital in Chicago, has stated: "There are absolutely no obstetrical situations encountered in this country which would require partial- birth abortion to preserve the life or health of the mother." And she adds two more risks: cervical incompetence in subsequent pregnancies caused by three days of forceful dilation of the cervix, and uterine rupture caused by rotating the fetus in the womb. Joseph DeCook, Fellow, Am. Col., Ob/Gyn, founder of PHACT (Physicians Ad Hoc Coalition for Truth), stated: "There is no literature that testifies to the safety of partial birth abortions. It’s a maverick procedure devised by maverick doctors who wish to deliver a dead fetus. Such abortions could lead to infection causing sterility." Also, "Drawing out the baby in breech position is a very dangerous procedure and could tear the uterus. Such a ruptured uterus could cause the mother to bleed to death in ten minutes.".."The puncturing of the child’s skull produces bone shards that could puncture the uterus." (Congressman Charles Canady (R-FL), 7/23).

But why kill the infant?

You’ve said it! Obviously the mother wants to get unpregnant. Even if this is accepted, we must still ask, why kill? Most of these babies are viable. They are only 3 or 4 inches (10 cm) from delivery. One gentle pull and the head will come out. Then the cord could be cut, and the infant given to the nurse to take to the intensive care nursery.

There is absolutely no medical reason to kill the baby except that the mother wants him dead.





i again find myself asking..why so many people wish to have abortions, knowing the procedures.

i think abortion is disgusting and i can't believe someone could go through with it. i think it is murder.

[houjin_himo]

im against abortion, and if i put it up for adoption he//she would just hate me so i think i would keep it...its not my fault neways (scaryy though)

[megan_x3]

maybe u should put it for adoption for someone who really loves dem .. . . . n den when ur older , when u can aford the house n the baby , u can take it back . ..  i dunno , im too young to think about havin a baby rite now ,. 

[*Statistik*]

haha if i was the women, abortion.

[*xcaitlinx*]

id get an abortion [especially if i was young] because it wouldnt be my fault that i got pregnant and i wouldnt be able to take care of it anyway....