Shattered into 1ooo Pieces..., I need advice on what I should do... |
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 Mar 25 2004, 07:53 PM
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Okay... What would you gaiz do if you were going out with a girl for like a long time *off and on relationship* and you really love her... like you would die for her but she doesnt seem to get that?... then what would yooh do?
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Mar 25 2004, 07:57 PM
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im not a guy or anything...
 but...love is such a beautiful thing. true love is never selfish... it can be hurtful, but its just so precious... so... if that gurl doesnt get it or refuses to get it... i guess you should let her go...  i mean, it may hurt, but hey, love isnt for urself... true love should be for that someone. you love her so much you could die for her? well... giving up on her is like dieing for her... its like killing ur heart and feelings for her...  WOAH!!!! that wasnt me right there OMG!! lookit that!! woosh! i amazed mysefl with such a weerd lecture/speech thingymajiggler. hahaha
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Mar 25 2004, 07:59 PM
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Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
haha... thnx for the advice... thats sounds really tru but i try and try time after time to let it go but yea... she always haunts meeh... sometimes when im alone i hear her calling my name... and if i sleep or day dream, couple times i see her...
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Mar 25 2004, 08:07 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,542 |
oh wow that is kinna scary to hear her calling you rname but i agree with xjjajeengx, just try to let her go. If you cant then try other ways, ask your friends what you should do.
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Mar 25 2004, 08:13 PM
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well, i am a girl, but...
if she doesn't get it, and you even show your love and tell her that you love her, try talking to her about the situation and see how she feels and what she has to say. it seems like you really do love her, so maybe don't let her go just yet. find out how she feels first. i hope this is good advice i'm giving... i hope everything works out for you. |
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| *Podomaht* |
Mar 25 2004, 08:20 PM
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QUOTE(KoN_FyOo_aZn @ Mar 25 2004, 7:59 PM) haha... thnx for the advice... thats sounds really tru but i try and try time after time to let it go but yea... she always haunts meeh... sometimes when im alone i hear her calling my name... and if i sleep or day dream, couple times i see her... scary. anyways, you and me are the same. well *except for the hearing voices and stuff* but anyways, i like this girl, but she breaks my heart every time i see her... |
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Mar 25 2004, 08:35 PM
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Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
Hey!!! I found a story... "<i>What I Did for Love</i>"
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Mar 25 2004, 08:41 PM
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advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
hahaha also a good story, located at www.soompi.com/fanfix/index.php
Last Kiss, breath, and tears (or is it the other way?  )It was you all along Corner of the circle Gaurdian Angel |
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Mar 25 2004, 09:08 PM
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Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
I cant find those stories... so sad...
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Mar 25 2004, 10:15 PM
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advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
just sort the fanfics by most rated. then you can find them easily
haha
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Mar 25 2004, 10:49 PM
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Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
thnx... +_+ im shocked... the stories are so sad... T_T
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Mar 26 2004, 02:46 AM
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i am member numberr 9000 Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,000 |
ask her if she loves yoo
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Mar 26 2004, 03:06 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you need to talk to her about this and tell her how you feel .. it's the only way you'll know for sure if she feels the same .. she may have a hard time showing it .. i understand how you feel .. relationships can get really tough like that .. hope all goes well ..
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Mar 26 2004, 12:45 PM
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QUOTE im not a guy or anything... but... hey...if she doesnt believe u...i dun think shes worth going after...  dun listen to me...i mite ruin ur life...
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Mar 26 2004, 02:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,584 |
its time to move on
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Mar 26 2004, 03:02 PM
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Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
Hey everyone... didnt expect to get help that fast but im just gonna stay low for a little while... I've decided to let her have her space and I'll have mine...
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Mar 31 2004, 06:56 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well mayb u should keep tryin to tell her u luv u until she gets it
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Mar 31 2004, 08:27 PM
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haha wow this is funny, im a girl.. and im doubting my bfs love too.... lols well.. i guess my situation is different from urs.. maybe something is happening in ur life that makes ur gf feel insecure?? cuz thats how i felt.. my bf had a best friend (who i knew 5years ago and he knew her*lets call her person A* like last year or even later than that) and like... this other girl i know that doesnt know neither of them, but she knows personA through her friend and my bf through me.. so one day she asks me.. "why are they always together?" wow i jus.. totally didnt know how to answer her.. i felt super insecure and i felt that i wasnt the ONLY person he loved... im sorry lols this should be ur forum and not my story...
i dont know my bf said hes gona try harder to make me feel what he wants me to feel *loved* ... well from a grls view, a worst thing a girl can do is guessing... so assure her that u love her and only her and do romantic things with her that tells her and clarifies that u love her only and ur feelings for her are true  wish u luck!
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Apr 1 2004, 09:10 PM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Actually, putting yourself closer in your own space will make it worse... (At least for me)
Taking a long, serious talk will help. I did that before with my gf, and I do it now with really close friends sometimes (ermm but no sappy stuff there )
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Apr 1 2004, 09:31 PM
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try drugs...that always works!
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Apr 1 2004, 10:42 PM
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QUOTE(Dr_Robotio @ Apr 1 2004, 6:31 PM) try drugs...that always works! lol, you're funny |
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