if you're a cutter.., click if you dare Options

[*jeanna*]

i feel like im some heroin addict when it comes to cutting. it is like someone trying to stop smoking. i gave my dad all my razors and told him and stuff.. and now i want them back like crazy [in secret], i found an exact-o knife.. and..
well i dont want the little girlies squeeling over it. so if you can relate to me check out my xanga
www.xanga.com/green_bracelet

[mouse_3k]

being ugly and being sexually harassed isnt a fun way to live.

damn i know how tht is. i get sexually harrassed everyday. somehow, ur life is like mine with the no friends thing and ugly and sexual harrassment and abuse and jinx.


hmm when i use to cut alot, i go to this website. its facetheissue.com or something. u can try tht if u like.

[lilxroxy]

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i`ll be yur friend if that can make you stopping hurting yurself.

smile. :]

[krispy_kreme333]

I'm sick of people bashing on cutters as a whole person.
There are many people out there that have legetimate reasons for what they do.
Sure. It's not the best way to handle it, I guess. But it gets them through the day.
Most aren't suicidal. Most just.. have issues, and they feel this is the only way to get rid of their issues, or whatever the reason.

Yeah. A lot of cutters do it for attention.. where they only scrape at themselves for a bit of attention.
I don't feel bad for them.
If they're telling everyone about what they do, then I have no sympathy for them. They brought that upon themselves.

I do have sympathy for those who actually have issues in life. Who actually have been through something heart-wrenching.
Yes. I know. It's not the best way to express what you're feeling, but it's better than them resorting to suicide, right?

i completly agree the people that r doin it 4 attention......they are wrong and should stop cuz they cant really get attention ne other way so ya but then there are people that have reall issues and have had shitty pasts but i completly understand where there comin from and why they do it

[krispy_kreme333]

well now days, people only cut for attention and i hate tht. esp. when people post pics of themselves and tell other people to go *check it out*. idk..maybe it would be ok if it was at a Help Cutters website or somethin and posting pics to see the condition and all.

but with xanga and tell people out of a random place to see it..iurno..kinda sounds like..she wants attention.. 

you need 2 stop judgin them and try and help them instead of just sayin oh that wrong and pathetic..... actually be there adn try 2 help!

[luckyxi3]

you need 2 stop judgin them and try and help them instead of just sayin oh that wrong and pathetic..... actually be there adn try 2 help!

yeah that`s right. you can`t just be going off and saying people who cut themselves are pathetic. i don`t think people have a right to say that especially when they haven`t walked in their shoes. so just help that person out and atleast not to judge that person by what she does. some people have issues that bother them a lot and just take them out on self mutilation.

[highly_evolved]

hm.. again i agree with everyone that people who do it for attention are just wrong. its not something people are proud of when they do it. most of the time they dont think that they will cut themselves till one day they have to. maybe they dont even have to they just dont know what else to do. Its hard to find help, its emabrrasing to tell people, you wonder weather they think your doing ot for attention. Everyone needs somone they ccan tlk to, who they can trust. its very very hard for some ppl to know who to trust and who would lsiten to them.

[Heathasm]

i cut when i was in the 8th grade because of things..i still have the scars
i've come close to doing it again recently but i hope i can get over that
i never took pictures or showed people my scars...even being that young...so i find it very very childish that you've resorted to that

[highly_evolved]

i cut when i was in the 8th grade because of things..i still have the scars
i've come close to doing it again recently but i hope i can get over that
i never took pictures or showed people my scars...even being that young...so i find it very very childish that you've resorted to that

i think the only reason that would be valid for somone to take pictures was to remind themselves of what would happen if they started again..

[Shattered_Hope]

cutting yurself shouldnt be an excuse for any problems.....three words....u need help.

[vivieeeen]

jeanna...



I know that there's probably nothing that people haven't said, but I should say...

I do know how you feel and why you're cutting and why you can't stop.

I sincerely recommend you to the facetheissue.com site. (if you don't enjoy going to clinics)

It helped me. I hope it can help you.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

heh u made 3 topics on this....we all know cutting is hard to stop,well most of us, and u postin ur pictures in ur xanga and such is just making us feel pitty.... if u realize u cut so much why not try to stop comepletely.... u made ur dad give up smoking, and believe me thats really really hard to stop, and hes doing it for u so u can stop cutitng.....

You want pitty? I have none for you.

i have ALOT of pitty for your dad though, i cant imagine how worried he is to leave u alone at home,or let u out of the house, or when ur in the bathroom for too long, or when u feel depressed, You know why i feel that way for your dad? Because my sisters a cutter, and when she wants something she will eventually get it,because if my parents wont shell eventually hurt herself, so my parents are trapt at the momment.... and i sit there....just sitting there...listening to my mom cry and mumble how shes feeling so hopeless and such....and all i can do is listen. When ur cutting urself ur not helping urself, sure it directs the emotional pain into physical, but how long will that last? try to find something more productive and less dangerous to focus ur emotions on..... And just because ur hurting yourself, doesnt mean the people around u arent getting hurt as well.

I pitty your dad , that i do.

-edit-

I reread and i noticed i misread about the quiting smoking part.....well anyways, ignoring the smoking related comments ive said,i mean the rest

i totally agree.

[mr_brigtside]

Maybe you should go get proffesional help!

[sheddingtears]

addicted to cutting?

imagine how your father feels.