"I love you", Heaven sent words... Options

[Oreo_bro]

sigh..i dont know why im really making this topic..i just gotta share it.


So lots of u guys in this forum know i was trying for this girl and stuff....yeah well it didnt work out she got back with her ex

but anyways thats not the point.

K i was depressed for a few days u know, knowing that the chance with ehr was so close but was gone. And friday came and went. See theirs this freshman in my class and she keeps staring at me and stuff some times, she asks like shes afraid but shes not. Anyways im a senior and i've known this one girl named sam for 4 years, i use to have a crush on her. Ne ways me and her talk on msn and the freshman i mentioned earlier turned out to be her little cousin *well, shes only 2 years younger*, and they met at fred meyers on day and the freshman *Beth* asked sam for my msn name. she got it and added me.

So i pretty much started out the conversation saying hey and stuff and we just got to talking. Anyways my internet was screw him so she asked me if i would call her. i was confused cause like no girl ever told me to do that before. so i do and we end up talking for like..omg..2 and a half hours? till 1 am. We both hang up but before she did she said "gary...i need to tell u somethin" i said what and she said "i have a crush on you" and quickly turned off the phone. I was like and stuff and it was weird..anyways so we talked more sunday and then monday came around *yesterday since its 12:25* and she just couldnt stop looking at me. to tell the truth i liked her..she was cute and funny and stuff.

so after school we were talkin on msn and she asked if i would go over to her house and walk with her to a park and just talk, i agreed and i drove to her house and we walked along silently for awhile. Then we just started talking and stuff. I found out she had liked me for a few months, and i told her i liked her as well, she smiled and stuff and well things just went on from their. We walked around in the park for like 3 hours talking and laughing *no lovey dovey stuff or close touching stuff*. we were just hanging out. then some @$$hole kids came around and started messing with beth and im like "hey, dont u have anyplace eles to be" and they were all up in my face *kinda funny cause they were like 1 foot and a half shorter then me* and then they push beth, well the little kid did..omg i dunno why but i had that kid with his hand behind his back in like..2 seconds, i was so surprised. he was like "im sorry im sorry dont hurt me pls!" and i let him go and he ran off. Atfer that me and beth walked back to my car in silence, seemed like forever. she looked at me sadly before i left and we huged...it was like 5 mins long.

Well then i went and worked out and went home to study but i couldnt get her outof my mind. so i called her and we talked for 4 HOURS! omg 4 effin hours. we were both emotional, and well i just got off the phone with her, and she ended it with this sweet phrase:

"Gary, thank you so much for standing up for me, you are so sweet i havent met any guy like u before that cares so much about me. Gary..Gary i love you".

And in that split second i relized i felt the same way.


sigh..now i feel all fuzzy inside and strange and i dunno what to do..i really do love her...


anyways..not sure why i made this topic..i..just had to share..later

[dani41790]

awwwwwww thats soooo sweet. u should go out with her =)

[177emories]

damn that is long... just wait, it'll get to your turn..

[silver-rain]

aww, that's so sweet! now, just don't lose her.

[Too Asian To DIE]

go out with her..... she lyks u and u definately lyk her... go out with her

[conster]

aww.... why dont these things happen to me lmao

[jazzydancer9]

hmm.. ok.. so.. umm... what the hell?

[MeanBastard]

Sweet, you fell in love in a matter of days.

[jambaJUICE]

So lots of u guys in this forum know i was trying for this girl and stuff....yeah well it didnt work out she got back with her ex 

aww.. haha

and i dont want to read everything else because.. its too long

BUT. all i got to say is that a gf aint everything. and sadly th5418 is right

EDIT.
okay i read the rest of it.

haha.
I thought it was cute. but uhm

[XaZnX07]

well gald you found the girl take care of her and dont lose her now

[Oreo_bro]

Sweet, you fell in love in a matter of days.

puppy love is one thing, true love is something eles.

i never said which

[lilxroxy]

aww thats so swt. i feel happy for you :]

[Edele]

That's very sweet. You're very lucky.

[someflipguy]

Maybe love at first sight is true!

[Too Asian To DIE]

Maybe love at first sight is true!

mabe.... just try to clear ur mind out...

[inthemudhole]

That's cute.
Don't lose her!!

[*krnxswat*]

Okay, from what I see, it's not love.
First you're heart broken because of this one girl, next minute you're saying you like another girl; then the next you say you love her. It just seems like you both are desperate. Even if you guys happen to go out with each other, it seems like it won't even last long.
But yeaaaaah, good luck.

[to-devastate]

this sounds like the movie, "A Cinderella Story ". I think that you should follow your heart to whatever it tells you. It might not be the best advice, but you should just do what feels right.

[mai_z]

oh god, that's so sweet i don't believe it's tru........ you guys should definately go out...i think

[Oreo_bro]

Okay a few words.




1.) If you dont belive in love at first sight then something is wrong with you, it happens all the time, we fall in love with at lest some one before we are 30, just by seeing them.

2.) Yes the other girl broke my heart, and yes i did say i love beth. Again i didnt say what kind of love. You can say "i love you man" to your best bud cause you love him as a friend, u can say "i love you" to a girl that u really care about but not mean it in the "relationship" kind of way.

3.) Am i desperate? No. Is she? No. How long have i actually known her? A few months shes in my guitar class and she i did notice her but i didnt think she noticed me much.

4.) Saying our relationship wont last long is just plain rude no offence you have your oppinion but thats just wrong to say that. You dont know how things will turn out and neither do we, if it works it works if not it doesnt, we like each other a lot, and i love her as a friend definitily, maybe more but she does make me feel special

5.) Thanks to everyone that has faith and knows what its like to have your heart broken so many times that u lock it away, and then some one special comes and find the key.

Later

[*krnxswat*]

Whatver man; whatever you say.

[expoised]

1.) If you dont belive in love at first sight then something is wrong with you, it happens all the time, we fall in love with at lest some one before we are 30, just by seeing them.

no... actually, that's called lust.

you can't know a person just by looking at them for a second, therefore you cannot LOVE the person. even the MOST SHALLOW person can't do it. they would LUST for a person or maybe LIKE the way the person look.. but it isn't LOVE.

for real, dude. *rolls eyes*

[*krnxswat*]

poised,Oct 21 2004, 11:19 PM] no... actually, that's called lust.

you can't know a person just by looking at them for a second, therefore you cannot LOVE the person. even the MOST SHALLOW person can't do it. they would LUST for a person or maybe LIKE the way the person look.. but it isn't LOVE.

for real, dude. *rolls eyes*

Yeah, Melissaaaa. *high five*

[Oreo_bro]

Love at first sigh is possible, it can be classified as a lust but its not always the case.

Take people who dated only one girl and later married her, they may say it was love at first sight, knowing that that was the person for them. Who knows but it happens. Also, u said the same thing in your post, even though u later agreed after being told, that it was indeed an infatuation. I said that it was a puppy love and it could change, never the less u do not know how something will work out in the end so all u can do is let things happen as they do.

Also, lusting after some one would be where u have say...a major crush on them and never really telling them, and never doing anything about it *aka asking them out or something*. When both u and the person in question feel the same its beyond lust.

(also, i did not just meet her, as i said above, i have known her for a few months and this has been something thats been building up)

[expoised]

Also, u said the same thing in your post, even though u later agreed after being told, that it was indeed an infatuation. 

no... not really.

i said right off that i was "in love WITH HIS ACCENT". not HIM.

and i also said right off that "IT WAS INFATUATION, NOT LOVE"

i never said anything about how i thought i was in love WITH HIM. and i didn't "later agree after being told" that it was infatuation. actually, i was the FIRST PERSON to MENTION infatuation in the entire thread... i had it in my very first post.

learn to read, son.

btw. i'm not arguing your point about love and lust, because now i think i understand that you live in a fairytale world.
1)you don't know how to read and deduct
2)you fell in love "at first sight" which is not possible
3)you have no clue what you're talking about