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 Oct 14 2004, 10:30 PM
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 hannah the one and only~  Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,080  |
Ok the boy I like lives across the street, we both like each other actually, we are practically "going out"
Ok but I just got a new spa in my backyard, and my sister always invites him to come get in with us. But everytime I know he is going to come over I make up some excuse not to get in the spa with him....I think maybe cuz I dont want him to see me with my bathing suit on... Does n e one have n e tips on how to getrid of this fear? 
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Oct 14 2004, 10:37 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
This is very good topic =]
btw ; Welcome to createblog my name is Sonia ;D ------------------------- I don't know..I don't think you should be shy of your body or anything =] If he truly likes you ..nothing would change his mind!! I don't think that helps 
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Oct 14 2004, 11:30 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(xSonia @ Oct 14 2004, 10:37 PM) This is very good topic =] btw ; Welcome to createblog my name is Sonia ;D ------------------------- I don't know..I don't think you should be shy of your body or anything =] If he truly likes you ..nothing would change his mind!! I don't think that helps ^^that should help. unless the girl is stubborn. if he doesn`t like the way you look, break up with him and get a new guy who will RESPECT your body. 
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Oct 15 2004, 02:36 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
i'm a very self concious person... my boyfriend hates it.. lol. But if this guy really likes you, then he will like you no matter what.. and a bathing suit shouldnt change his mind. Be proud of yourself and dont put yourself down.. I know its hard, but its possible :o) hehe I'm trying. tehe. Just be happy with yourself and confident and he will see straight pass any underlying self concious issues that you may have
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Oct 15 2004, 03:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,258 |
If he really does like you he wouldnt care and nothing would change his mind. Like everyone said before me I agree with them =) SELF CONFIDENCE. +++ Tee
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Oct 15 2004, 03:58 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
u should be confident in ur body.... if u dont then work on it until ur satisfied and then go show it off to him.....
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Oct 15 2004, 04:01 PM
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 Imperfect... Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,064 |
i think by doing this makes him feel like u dont like him nemore...it seems like ur avoiding him..i'm not sure but u shouldnt be afraid of showing ur body
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Oct 15 2004, 05:13 PM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
wat are you woried about...your weight...girl you can see if your heavy even w/o the bathing suit.....and if he likes you it won't matter...hope this helps
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Oct 19 2004, 07:41 PM
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 im going to kill you Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,999 |
at least a guy likes you...
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Oct 20 2004, 12:27 AM
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 I'm The True Reality Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,828 |
just fight the fear until it goes away. Get in there isn't anything to be worrid about
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Oct 21 2004, 06:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just go in the spa with him...look hot in front of him
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Oct 21 2004, 06:55 PM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
woooahh SPAA [ ; dont waste your time not being the spa! besides, you'll be in the spa- and he wont see your body right? but if he does you know, he shouldnt mind. its okay, i know what u mean by like "omg, i cant show my body, its too ugly" i can relate, but you gotta just forget ur outside appearance and just pretend like your the best in the world just being you [= i hooope this helps >___<
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Oct 21 2004, 07:01 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
tell ur sis to stop telling u when hes coming over, so u wont know when to avoid him ~_~
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Oct 21 2004, 07:12 PM
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^^ yeah what that person said...
just spend alot of time in your spa and tell your sister to not tell you about when hes coming over and sooner or later he'll be in the spa when you are and if he doesnt do anything stupid, you know he doesnt think your body is THAT bad... so you can be confrontable around him.. |
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