The Reason Why I'm So Cool., my secret Options

[T00000]

I just realized why I'm so goddamned cool. And why, if anyone tries to start shit with me, I am apt to respond accuratly and devastatingly. My secret: I judge pretty much anyone I come in contact with. I am always judging people. No one can call me a bitch, because if I was a true bitch I would tell basically everyone what I thought of them. However, the reason why no one can say anything to me which would invoke even a hint of a sting is that I don't open myself up in a way in which I'd be judged accurately. For example, someone calls me a slut, which I've been called before on CB but only once in real life (by my mom). Why does this not bother me? Because I'm not. Someone calls me a bitch. Why doesn't this bother me? Because even if I was a bitch, who cares? Does anyone really think I'm about to change who I am to make other people happy? If I'm a bitch to you, I'm a bitch. I'd rather be a bitch than be someone I wasn't. Is there a point to this thread? Yes. Because so many people try to be LIKED that they aren't even themselves. Most people who try to be popular never become popular because they aren't cool enough. So why do they want to be someone they aren't? Because they think that if they're popular they'll 1) get a boyfriend and 2) be liked by everyone and 3) be the envy of everyone. Okay so, the first one in true. You do get a good boyfriend. I have a good boyfriend . The second one is so very not true. I know that a lot of people in my high school don't like me, they're usually the nerdy asian kids sitting in the front of the classrooms with their calculators out 24-7 or the fat jewish girl who gets annoyed because i talk so loudly and so much. But I mean who cares. Not one person is going to be liked by everyone. And the third romanticism of being someone like me is that i'm the envy of everyone. But does anyone want to be like me? Should anyone want to be like me? Or should people just want to be themselves? People start to figure it out as they get older. Anyways, I'm not sure what this topic is about, I typed it at 2am. But it's kind of a rant from me and my main point is that KIDS YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH ME. there will ALWAYS be people like me out there. YOU GUYS NEED TO BE WHO YOU ARE and not worry about people you don't like. I dont know? Seriously if anyone has anything to say about anything I just said feel free to post it here. Or tell me how much you hate me because I want to know. Or tell me how much you like me because I want to know that too.

[RandomHero]

I agree, people try to be liked & are not always being their true selves. I have a piece of advice that my mom told me & i think it makes a lot of sense when you think about it. ::

There will always be someone prettier, smarter and stronger so just be who you are. Don't try and be the smartest, prettiest or strongest.

[dani41790]

yea i agree with you. i respect the fact that you'd rather be a b!tch than someone fake. i really dont like those who act all fake just so people would like them. its so annoying.

[jambaJUICE]

lol. nice rant

and. "bitch" and "slut" are just words these days. it depends on how u throw them out, or how they`re interpretted. some wud take it offensively, other wud take it as a replacement for "friend"

i however, cud care less if someone called me that, they`re just as much as one as i am.

and and.

im cool

har har. and fake people come in all sorts of ways.

[WhiteLotus*]

I'd rather be a bitch thann be fake also.

Nice rant.

"Bitch" and "Slut" are common words these days. Since they are, I dont take them too personally.

[Auktane]

There will always be someone prettier, smarter and stronger so just be who you are. Don't try and be the smartest, prettiest or strongest...soo true...


tboltzbabe, you just gained that much more respect from me...and im not tryin to be stuck up or anything..that fact that is..i came in CB late to realize what you guys got goin..but damn...and i dont want no drama..i didnt join to create some he said she said bullshit....

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

im feelin a bit easy and unsure of my post i was about to post....so im just gonna make it short and simple.

All girls are bitches *gasp* no reall, just some dont show it as much as others.

And all guys are jackasses ... which some like to show more than others.

So u cant really count that as a flaw unless its a normal behaivor...

Being hated for who u are is worse than being liked for who u arent. Living a lie is not a good path to choose ;]

[*[2]Nekked*]

so true lol.. i dunno how many times ive been called a bitch.. im just like.. alright... think what u want, but dont disrespect me about it... if u think im a bitch, theres nothing i can really do about it... you think im gonna change because you said something?...er...no... i'd rather just be me, than change for someone i dont even know because they dont like the way i act.. and just cuz u say im a bitch.. doesnt mean that i AM... i know what kind of person i am, and no one can change that

[x3chrissyx3]

All girls are bitches *gasp* no reall, just some dont show it as much as others.

And all guys are jackasses ... which some like to show more than others.

I completely agree with dreamguy...it's hard to deny that girls are bitches and guys are jackasses...it's an attitude we all have. I agree with you too tboltzbabe, because ya know, no one ever said you HAD to deal with me or sh*t like that, and if you don't like my attitude, don't bother trying to be around me.

...and I was always popular in High School, but...even people who arent can get good boyfriends, and be known by everyone and be envied. People hate people in general, not just "popular" ones or "nerdy" ones...every school is like that, no one likes anyone and I'm sorry, but it's the truth. As a High School graduate and a college Junior I've been through enough to understand that's how it is and will always be. People can find a reason to hate everyone. Don't take it personally when people say shit to you...who really needs the drama, and your opinion is neither desired or required.

BUT, still in all I agree with you 110%
...and I think some people on cB can be so rude or say crap about you because of the way you come off. I can't lie...sometimes you come off extremely cocky, but maybe it's not meant to be that way. I wouldn't know. I don't know you...so I can't judge you. You get it...

Great post

[T00000]

oh and i have to add that i seriously dont' know why i made that post, it was just a rant that i made to let out all my anger from that day.

[TinkerBabi3]

I agree with you too. That makes a lot of sense...If only some of the people from school could read that, it'd make the whole school a lot better! I mean at like every school all the girls try to be like the cheerleaders so that they're popular and get a hot boyfriend..when all you really get is a stuck up snobby bitch (and I mean that). And then same with the guys..they all try to be tough and crap..when really they aren't. But anyways, like someone else said, I have a lot of respect for you now. (n not sucking up either)

[xquizit]

For most of my life I've been misjudged and and falsely accussed of a lot of things. I've reached the point in my life where I just don't really give a fcuk because I am very self aware... I know myself well enough to know that all those bitches are wrong so if they want to call me a slut, ho, bitch, stuck up, whatever, I don't really care cuz they never have shit to back it up. And until they have the balls to come and say it to my face, I don't feel the need to really deal with it or say anything about it, I'd rather just ignore it because I don't care about them, they're just air.

And trying to get everyone to like me by pretending to be someone that I'm not and would be too exhausting. If people don't like the real me, they don't need to talk to me or deal with me. Simple as that.

[*tweeak*]

in elementary school, i did try to be cool. i wanted to be liked by all those spoiled little brats who have turned out to be the sluts and pothead just because they didnt think i was as cool as them (which is quite frankly rediculous as we were in elementary school, but still) but then i realized that they were going to be bitches always and that i shouldnt give a fcuk if they like me or not because it really doesnt matter. point of this reply? theres probably less of one than there was to your topic, but oh well. you make a good point

[PinkTrash]

My friends the same way.. a lot of people say that hes mean all this other stuff. truth is, he just tells the truth =/ and he told me, if everyone actually told each other what they really thought of each other everyone would hate each other, so why not just tell the truth.

[juliar]

vinh's right, i mean, if someone stands up to you and starts pissing you off, you're not gonna sit there and say oh i agree, right?
and if you fight back, somethings gonna happen with the word bitch/jackass in it. or something along those lines.

so the words bitch and slut dont mean much to me anyway. the only times it hurts me is if it's actually backed up by something that i don't like being broguht up.

[MrElsewhere]

yes ur rite. everybody is so dayumed fake. i hate it. i'm fake too. but lately i've been trying to be less fake. less and less every day. sure, tons of people at my skool hate me. so? i dun even knoe them. one time i told mai friend wat i thought of her and her family, and she's hated me since. some people cant handle the truth.

[queen]

i'm proud of who i am ';] i don't need anyone else telling me how obviously awesome i am ;X har har... like i said in another thread... i am oblivious to what i am "labelled", and i basically don't care 'cause i love myself as is ;]

...dude, if i had a male clone of myself, i'd marry him ;x

...oh wait, i do ;P his name is bryan niyahaha ;o

[illmizzkim]

Now I could sit here and write long something about this topic, but I'd just keep saying what everyone else is saying.


ps. michelle is hot.

[azn_r4pf4n]

interestin

[T00000]

actually my post makes a lot of points.

[iheartsimba]

your completely right. i dont think your a bitch, because you are very honest and i guess some things just have to be said sometimes. i mean even if someone doesnt like you, its like you still deserve respect and everything because of the way you come out of things. i like how if you are ever honest about something you have reasons backing it up and you dont just say it to piss them off or anything.

[Gypsy Eyes]

very well said. i completely agree.

[expoised]

oh and i have to add that i seriously dont' know why i made that post, it was just a rant that i made to let out all my anger from that day.

you're pms'ing.



heh. j/k. you just reminded me of myself when i'm pmsing. so anyways. i agree with you in so many ways.

[x_babii_gherl_x]

heh i agree.. i was just thinkin about that a couple days ago.. but then again i dont really care what people call me because..yeah..i know who i am n the people i hang out with know that im not a fake. so its all gooood..

[x emo screamo x]

I agree, people try to be liked & are not always being their true selves. I have a piece of advice that my mom told me & i think it makes a lot of sense when you think about it. ::

There will always be someone prettier, smarter and stronger so just be who you are. Don't try and be the smartest, prettiest or strongest.

God. My mom's ALWAYS telling me that too

But she's right.

And I totally understand why you've created this topic. And I agree with you.