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 Oct 12 2004, 07:40 PM
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 wanderlust personified.  Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797  |
Ok, so me and my ex were arguing earlier today. We just broke up maybe 2 weeks or so ago and he's upset cuz he thinks I'm "dating" already. I've been going to parties, clubs, movies, and out to dinner with a couple of my guy friends, and I have been before we broke up, mind you. But now he wants to accuse me of dating, when I've been going out with these guys all along.
He thinks when a girl and guy go out and do something together, its a date. I feel like, it's only a date if the two people are attracted to each other and have intentions of possibly taking things further. What do you guys think? |
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Oct 12 2004, 07:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Sounds like he's jealous of you. :P
And yeah, a date is only when you are attracted to the other person and you go out and like kiss or something...Other than that, it's just a friendly friend thing. lol |
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Oct 12 2004, 07:42 PM
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i agree with you. i have a boyfriend and i do stuff with my guy friends and we're both cool with that. he has his girl friends too. "dates" are with someone you see as more than just a friend and such...completely different.
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Oct 12 2004, 07:52 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
no thats not a date in my opinion... that just seems like just chilling with the friends.. i dont find that dating... if so i would be dating my guy friends all the time.. O_O
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Oct 12 2004, 08:14 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 12 2004, 7:42 PM) Sounds like he's jealous of you. :P And yeah, a date is only when you are attracted to the other person and you go out and like kiss or something...Other than that, it's just a friendly friend thing. lol yehh jealousy. as long as you dont like any fo your guy friends then its not date. |
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Oct 12 2004, 08:40 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
i agree with you.
but he sounds jealous. oh, but rox, use your womanly cunning to manipulate him. he's completely vulnerable now. |
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Oct 12 2004, 08:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(rainnydaiis @ Oct 12 2004, 7:52 PM) no thats not a date in my opinion... that just seems like just chilling with the friends.. i dont find that dating... if so i would be dating my guy friends all the time.. O_O  I knew it!!! Sam is gay! :P hahaha jp jp :P
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Oct 12 2004, 08:51 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 12 2004, 5:49 PM) I knew it!!! Sam is gay! :P hahaha jp jp :Pyou know it =P  anyways yeah i agree their jealous just do what u do best =P |
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Oct 12 2004, 09:03 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(rainnydaiis @ Oct 12 2004, 8:51 PM) you know it =P anyways yeah i agree their jealous just do what u do best =P but. but. but... why are you gay?  damn. another guy stealing away all my men.  =]. i have nothing against gay people btw, so i don't want people going "SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE AGAINST THEM". |
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Oct 12 2004, 10:19 PM
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i dont consider that a date unless its only you and him, otherwise i just consider it as chilling regularly with your friends
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Oct 13 2004, 03:05 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
uhh i dont consider that a date, i consider that an outing with ur friends
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Oct 13 2004, 03:16 AM
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 Will write poetry for sex! Group: Member Posts: 1,110 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 600 |
Why should it even matter to him?
He shouldn't be questioning your social life like it's threatening to the non-existing relationship between you two. Anyway, I think a date is basically the first shot in seeing if things can progress into a relationship between two people who are interested in one another. |
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Oct 13 2004, 05:51 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
why does he care if he's your ex?
anyways, i don't think all of them are dates unless... ionno. but ur ex is being paranoid and jealous. |
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Oct 13 2004, 02:34 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
dayumm..he sounds like he's jealous..XP I agree..tha dates are only dates when the two ppl are attracted to each other 'n haf intentions of taking things farther XP =]
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Oct 13 2004, 03:46 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
omg he is soo jealous of u its not funny..... i had a bf and i hang out with a bunch of azn guys and girls and we go to the mall and movies and stuff lyk that..... we r lyk a big group.... lyk a family... and mai bf was getting soo pissed with me hanging out with them more than him...... i guess that he was jealous cause he was not azn and i was azn and i was hanging out with a bunch of hott azn guys and he thought that i would lyk them more and go out with one of them cause one of mai friends did that...... i guess he was too overprotective.... so i said to him.... either u let me hang out with them hott azn guys or u dont get me..... i dont belong to u anymore..... i belong with them.... mai group of friends..... thats how i dumped him....... just tell him that u guys r ova and u can do whateva u want.... he doesnt own u anymore.... u r a free woman.... u have rights
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Oct 13 2004, 04:46 PM
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wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
well, the thing that bothers him is that he thinks it "intimate" since i'm only going out with one guy when i do go out... so he thinks it s a "date"... argg... i don't really see why it matters anymore anyway.
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Oct 13 2004, 05:59 PM
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Will write poetry for sex! Group: Member Posts: 1,110 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 600 |
It shouldn't...Who you date, who you choose to hang out, and what you choose to do with them shouldn't be his problem.
If he bitches, let him...Don't let him stop you from having fun now, especially being single and all. |
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Oct 13 2004, 09:02 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i agree with you. a date is when two people that are attracted to each other go out to spend time together. what you're doing is hanging out with friends. hmm, sounds like your ex is jealous.
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Oct 13 2004, 09:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,043 |
ya i agree. its not a date. gawly! hes definately jealouos.
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Oct 13 2004, 09:31 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
hes jealous and upset cuz he cant have u. its not a date, its just a get together!
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Oct 14 2004, 12:05 AM
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 kelly[changed] 2 liz Group: Member Posts: 525 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,472 |
he's waaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy jealous! you guys brok up, i mean first of all, you have a right to do that, second of all, i agree with you, third of all, he wasn't ready to let you go.
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