gettin tired... Options

[thoughtAGITATION]

some time ago i met this girl. it wasnt really love at first sight n we didnt talk a lot. but after she n her bf broke up, my friend told me 2 comfort her...which i did, and when i did i got 2 kno her a bit, and the attraction started. next day i really started likin her and talked 2 her and we could relate with everything the other said. we had the same dreams, wanted 2 go 2 the same college, both liked actin n wut not. then came the choice whether to ask or not. i did. but a lil late. she was already talkin 2 some1..
then comes summer
and now schools back.
shes in 3 of my classes. 2 almost right next 2 me and 1 across the room but by the way my desk is arranged, i'm starring at her whenever i look up from my paper. everyday shes killin me. i'm in her friendzone now and i cant seem 2 get out. shes got a bf...same guy she was talkin 2 before. everytime she smiles at me it kills me.cuz its just like friggin shines. lights up the room.

[thoughtAGITATION]

how do i keep my sanity?

[babiedoll03]

well.. it sounds like you raelly like this girl. The most you can do is wait for her and her BF to break up. I mean, its gonna be hard, but if you really like this girl then it is all worth it! For the mean time... try to find someone else for now and maybe you will like this other person more?! you never know.

[dahding]

if u really like/love this girl to death, the best thing u can do is to step aside for now and just support her in whatever relationship she's having. if her bf just so happens to dump her or they break up or whatever, then don't all of a sudden jump at the chance to ask her out. comfort her and like, wait for a little while. don't make it seem like she's just going out with u on the rebound or whatever.

[Too Asian To DIE]

please dont double post- its considered spamming...

omg thats lyk the same as mai situation.... im in 3 classes with mai crush and i knew him for a long long time but it wasnt love at first sight and i am lyk two seats away frum him in 2 classes and then i have a seat thats across the room frum him but everytime i slightly shift mai head i can see him.... and we are only friends though......

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

U got it bad - usher

Anyways, that sucks man, you really like her dont you.

The best thing u can do now is continue to be a good friend to her and wait till she breaks up with her bf, If she needs time after break ups..u should time it rite b4 u ask her,if not,ask her out rite away. I doubt she will say no . And if she does...well buddy u got some work to do.... Anyways just keep her close to u rite now so u dont lose track

-edit-

yes it is a bitch to put on a happy face when ur really not, u know what, if ur more agressive forget what i told u earlier, just confess how u feel to her, cuz its better than pretending.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Tell her and be there for her when her bf breaks up...Perfect moment to dive right in. Lol.

[conster]

i think u should confess to her.. its not a bad thing, u get that burden off ur back and shes opened to another choice.. but again.. if u really like someone... and that person is happy already.. wut more is there to do? wouldnt u want the person u like to be happy? even if the happiness dont really involve u?..