Most tragic event you've ever experienced Options

[T00000]

What is the most devastating, tragic event you've ever experienced? If you don't have one, what is the most tragic event someone close to you has experienced?

Here's mine: (it didn't happen to me it happened to my friend lance and casey walker)

Lance was about 11 at the time, and Casey was 15 (and he was extremely hot-- at least my little 13 year old self thought so). They had a mom, Terrie Walker, and a father, Robert Walker. One day, Casey got in a fight with his mom, and ran away. That same night, Lance spent the night at his friend Michael's house (ironically, i saw him that day at church with Michael). While they were gone, Robert informed Terrie that he had been fired from his lucrative job with a six figure salary. They got in a fight, and Terrie threatened to leave him. He pulled out a gun and shot her once in the head. Then he called Lance and told him to stay at Michael's house for the next week, if it was okay. Casey was still gone. Over that week while his children were gone, Robert purchased a refridgerator and a blue tarp, and a chainsaw. He then dismembered his wife, and put her in the incinerator in their backyard. He lit it on fire, and began to burn her body. Neighbors reported seeing flames as high as 20 feet that week from his backyard incinerator, and an awful smell. While his wife was roasting to a crisp, he patched up the bullethole in the kitchen and repainted it, while also carefully cleaning up all blood in the house. Finally they caught him and found the remains, and he was arrested. By then Lance and Casey found out what happened, and they had to stay at Michael's house. It was so sad... and at the memorial service (which was held at my church) Lance was crying so much but Casey just sat there. We later found out that Casey was getting into hardcore drugs like heroin and cocaine. Lance was trying to take care of him, even though he was 4 years younger than him. After about three months, they had to move to Iowa (doesn't that suck?) with their aunt.

Here's the story online:
Aloha Man arrested for murder

So share your stories!

[sweetdreamsx3]

Ooh and another tragic thing that was on TV...

Usually the father's normal routine is just going straight off to work without having to drop his baby son to grandma's house. Anyway, the mom somehow switches routines and left the baby with the dad and the other son with her to take to daycare. The dad is just driving along to work and he completely forgets about the 1 month baby in the car seat because baby was sleeeping..

And so the father went into work leaving no windows open and a baby left inside. An employee saw later on that the baby was in the car and yeah..by then it was too late..

I was crying when I saw that....so yeah...

[T00000]

what kind of woman would marry a guy like that?? haha IDIOT! anyways guys i'd like to remind you that these are about tragedies that happen to you or someone close to you, please try to not include news stories...

[nyCzxfOx]

this is like personal experience that like mentally scarred me for life -_-
but its not even as close as what im reading from you people
okay when i was little my parents always got into a fight all the time and i remember them from when iwas 6-8 and when iwas around 8 i rememebr my mom was screaming and all and it was in the middle of the night and i saw my mom cutting my dads stomach and arm up with a knife and screaming and yelling and it was horrible then my dad really lost his temper because he has a big temper and smashed my mom into the tv which was broken due to my moms shortness and erm.. weak like self -_- well of course the neighbors reported nosies and the cops broke ndown our door forced me to sleep.. thats one -_-

another one i dont remmeber alot but i rememebr waking up in the morning with my mom passed out on the floor and blood marks everywhere.. around age 11

but seriously im happy to live with my dad now.. my parents hate each other so much they are to angry to stay with each other without my mom trying to kill my dad for even 30 minutes -_- my mom isnt a good person.. when i was little she would tell my dad to hit me and beat me and stuff REALLY bad wheni was like 1-4 and then my dad wouldbeat me until my teeth knocked out, bruises,, ect.. and well my mom would come later and tell me my dad is a "bad guy" and i should trust her and stuff.. shes horrible -_-;; and she visits me on tuesdays and make them hell..

and also that arguement between tboltzbabe and jeanna had.. i dont get the fatbastard thing o.0;; tboltzbabe isnt even CLOSE to fat if thats what your saying o.0;; and seriously she has something to show off -_-;; unlike those people who are like.. anorexic and have half naked pictures of themselves and its really gross -_-;; but this is just my own little opinion. and also i think she was trying to be sarcastic in the first place o.0;; maybe...

[T00000]

awww your story is so sad because it actually happened to you.

but about the suicide, of course i was being sarcastic. i guess it isn't something to joke about, i was trying to make light of the umm topic..

[nyCzxfOx]

i thought the suicide thing was funny maybe some people need erm.. to laugh more -_- and stop being all negative and taking things a negatie way because that was seriously an obivious joke O_O

anyway it is kinda sad but im kinda happy i got through it.. something to be proud of.. -_-;; i actucally experienced something but seriously what you witnessed is just plain scarey O_O;;

i want to say more about my horrible mother so people can appreciate their mothers and not go "omg my mom wont let me go out to the movies shes a beatch"

well right now my mothers ex best friend owes my mom money and my mom has been up her a$$ for a pretty long time and its hard for her to get money so she slapped my mom not even that hard at a club.. (my moms friend is also on drugs thanks to her "boyfriend") well after that my mom has been complaining to my dad to do something about it like to get his friends to do something bu twhatever and my mom was still up her a$$ after my mom got slapped and the lady beat my mom up so badly my mom had her eyes black brusies everywhere teeth knocked out and more -_- and now shes getting her self into a whole bundle of trouble -_-;;
and shes sayign shes poor while i know in her safety desposit box its like.. amazing -.-;; *sigh* also when she comes home she beats me to take out her anger -.- ;; but i let her because shes weak and blah whatever i'd rather have little red marks then seeing her attempting to break down a wall.. again

[emrzz09]

tboltzbabe-you're hilarious, i like you!


and seriously guys, laugh a little!

[T00000]

awww i like you too :) but yeah guys you really should learn to laugh a bit, that's the only way to get through hard times.


although if anyone ugly actually did commit suicide i'd feel extremely bad, and probably delete my post so i couldn't get sued.

[PuRrFeCt GhErRl ...]

My mom used to be an achoholic. So one day when she was drinking at 11:30 at night, out of nowhere, she just burst into my room with a knife in her hand. She just went up to me, started yelling at me (I wasn't able to understand her very much), and she tried to stab me. She kept on trying to stab me and then she finally stabbed me on my stomach. Again, she kept on trying to stab me, but she kept on missing. Then she just dropped on the floor and was knocked out. I was crying and was scared to death. The next day, I told her what happened and she had no idea what I was even talking about. That was truly scary.

[T00000]

wow...did you go to the hospital?!

[PuRrFeCt GhErRl ...]

No. I was just 10 at the time and didn't know any better.

[T00000]

that's horrible that makes me realize how lucky i am! my parents don't really beat me because they can't, and I don't think they would if they could, but if they tried I'd stand up to them cause my mom's only like 5 feet tall...

[mouse_3k]

So far, maybe the death of my friend from my school..It happened maybe 2-3 weeks ago.

Eric Johnson was drag racing with his friend and crashed into a tree at 70 mph. He was killed on impact. His friend got paralyzed from the waist down i think. The guy they were racing against got arrest for about 20+ yrs or so. I heard that, the guy pushed them off the road, making them hit a tree.

Eric Johnson, i knew him last year, i didnt see him this yr. Everyone was crying. It was..horrendous..


RIP Eric Johnson.

[*autumn.*]

So far, maybe the death of my friend from my school..It happened maybe 2-3 weeks ago.

Eric Johnson was drag racing with his friend and crashed into a tree at 70 mph. He was killed on impact. His friend got paralyzed from the waist down i think. The guy they were racing against got arrest for about 20+ yrs or so. I heard that, the guy pushed them off the road, making them hit a tree.

Eric Johnson, i knew him last year, i didnt see him this yr. Everyone was crying. It was..horrendous..


RIP Eric Johnson.

i heard about that. i have my own opinions about the subject so i won't comment.

my friend died from brain cancer a month ago. why is life unfair. ugh.

[x emo screamo x]

Nothing tragic has ever really happened to me...but one of my close friends almost commited suicide....that was probably the scariest thing I've ever been through.

[inquisitive_]

When I was in 8th grade, one of my best friend's father was really sick. He was in the hospital for about a week and my best friend was really sad and scared. After a week of being there, they sent him home. The next day in the morning, when he is laying in bed, my friend hears something and goes to check on him. He had a heart attack or something like that and died. She watched everything and couldn't help him. She called me and told me and I just couldn't believe it. I had no idea what to tell her because I had never been in the situation. I've been very fortunate and haven't lost anyone close to me. All I could do was cry and say I'm sorry and help her get through it.

[PinkTrash]

mmkay, I searched 31 lists of forums here, to find this one, cause I found something tragic, yes. My friend Bjay's cousin.

Her name was Tira. At 16, her parents made her pay their taxes, called her an accident, and made her do all the housework. She was humiliated, raped, and assaulted by her brother. No one seemed to care about her. A few days ago, she hung herself, and left messages on her computer and her diary.. a few of the messages are really sad. She did too much I think, and no one could help her. Tira stated that she felt like she was drowning with no one to rescue her, and she couldnt cry anymore because crying for was losers and wouldnt help anything. After she commited suicide, two close friends also did the same, for loosing her. it just makes me feel bad >.< read about it, in my friend Bjay's blog. its.. down down, look down. here.

[Teesa]

a close family friend of ours passed away this past summer from breast cancer..yeah, thats the most tragic thing thats ever happened to me

[islandkiss]

I was 12. I was in love. but our relationship got out of hand. and he broke my heart. << he was my first bf too. we try to be friends though.

[PinkTrash]

:o. well dont worry ^^ love is always tragic .

[starfaerie06]

No one has posted on here for a while but I desided I was going to...

This is my tragic story: This year when school started it started in tragedy. A guy named Brandon was driving drunk and he flipped his car, was thrown from it because he wasn't wearing his seat belt. He died on impact. I didn't know Brandon well but he had been in my History class when we were Sophomores. Me and one of my good friends named Tammy were talkinga about Brandon and she told me that when she died she wanted all of her friends to have a party and then forget about her completely. On October 2, 2004 Tammy turned 18. She invited me to party with her and her brother and a couple of her close friends. I declined because homecoming was the same night and I had a date already. Came back to school Monday and talked to Tammy. She had a wonderful birthday and had plans to go clubbing with her best friend, Melanie, two weekends from then. Mel ended up having to go out of town to see family or something so they moved their plans to the next weekend... But they never happened. Because instead of going clubbing Tammy hung out with a friend, David, on that Saturday night and they went to a park to talk. While they were there they met up with a guy that later David said Tammy seemed to know. David had to go home and change to go to work and asked Tammy if she wanted a ride anywhere. She said she'd be fine and stayed there talking to the guy they had met up with. At about 4 AM Sunday, October 17, 2004 a railroad conducter found Tammy's body laying next to the tracks that run by the park she had been near earlier. She had been stabbed 17 times with a sword by the guy that she seemed to know. It turns out that he was an ex-boyfriend of Mel's who's room mate commited suicide three years ago on the same day that he murdered Tammy. That's what he and Tammy were talking about.

It's still not real... It's been two and a half months now but I keep expecting to see her in the halls and hear her crack jokes and say "Suckers" in that special tone of voice again...

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Rest In Peace
Tamara Elaine Jobes
October 2, 1986
to
October 16, 2004

We'll never forget you, I'm positive...

[SystemDamaged]

These stories are so sad I'm sorry for everyone that has endured such tragedy. The most tragic things thats happened is:

1. When my dad had an asthma attack out of no where, and my older brother who is a first aid medic for the fire station wasn't home and my mother was trying to calm my dad down. I had to call 911 and tell them what was happening. I was about 9 at the time and I was sucessful as the ambulence came in a mtter of minutes with equipment. He was in the hospital for one month, my mom visiting him everyday, me staying with my cousins the whole time since I was underage to enter the rooms. He is now in ok health.
2. When my mom was having her routine moodswings one time, she started yelling at me for something she had already yelled at me for about a year ago. She started and screaming about what a bad daughter I was and kicked me out of the house. It was snowing and I was in a t-shirt and shorts. I was crying and just sat on my front porch, huddled for warmth. She then came outside, dragged me into the garage, and then slammed my head against the side of the car. Iw as knocked out instantly, and woke up inside on the couch in my living room. I had had a concussion and threw up as soon as I woke up. I saw my mom crying by my side and kept apoligizing and saying she would try to control her mood swings.
3. I don't really want to explain this one but my cousin who is a year older tries to rape me whenever I sleep over or fall asleep at his house and stuff. He hasn't actually done it, but he's gotten awfully close. Luckily, I always wake up before he gets to do anything.

[miss barnes]

umm..well this story isnt about me but, my friend..*Chrissy*
Its a lot so ima skip some details

Chrissy's dad was black & mother white. She never knew her father and therefore never knew his side of the family. Chrissy lived w/ her mother & brother all of her life up until our 7th grade year. That year her mother died of cancer. No one at school even knew she had cancer.
So Chrissy & her brother had to go live w/ their grandparents.

So the next year, her brother (who had asthma) died in his sleep in the same room where her mother died. Chrissy was really depressed after this. She liked living w/ her grandparents but, they were soon to die & her grandma did soon after her brother. Her grandfather was sent to a nursing home. Chrissy was scared because she didnt really have anywhere to go. Her white side of the family didnt know her & the black side was basically non-existent. Chrissy ended up living w/ her cousin *Suzy* & her husband who treat her horrible. She always gets into trouble for stupid stuff & threaten to throw her out. She's afraid that if she's thrown out, she'll have nowhere to go...

sry that sound choppy but i hate to type a lot

[shortiiex]

that is so sad.....it must be tough

[demolished]

dam, all you stories-teller are very scary to me. most of them are so abusive, physco, freak, retarted people, and alot of drama. especially wifes, most wifes is a freaking crazy physco bitch.

very sad stories, very tough and harsh events of your life.

[jr0h]

wow seriously thats so sad..this world is crazy im telling you..

nothing really sad happened to me or tragic.

i guess i should be thankful

but yeah all i could think of is this one girl from my school's dad died and she couldnt finish school