Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
 Mar 8 2004, 07:39 AM
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 jesus freak  Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748  |
 Okai so I'm not sure if this is where this topic should belong buh.. was just browsing the place and the thought came to mind. I was brought up in a conservative home within a conservative community, and well, basically the answer is no for me. Just wanted to see what you guys think ~ ^.^
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Mar 21 2004, 11:10 PM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 17 2004, 7:50 PM) There were many other options as well.. once your older brother has been burned to death at the age of 18 when you're only 14 and in 8th grade, then maybe i'll listen to your comments... 
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Mar 21 2004, 11:58 PM
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QUOTE(chelle @ Mar 21 2004, 11:10 PM) once your older brother has been burned to death at the age of 18 when you're only 14 and in 8th grade, then maybe i'll listen to your comments... Too bad I'm past 14 already, and I don't have an older brother. |
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Mar 22 2004, 03:42 PM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 21 2004, 11:58 PM) Too bad I'm past 14 already, and I don't have an older brother. exactly my point... |
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Mar 22 2004, 05:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,065 |
im really glad most of you guys realize what God wants you to do and why He wants you to live your life that way! awesome guys!
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Mar 22 2004, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(chelle @ Mar 22 2004, 3:42 PM) exactly my point... Too bad you didn't get my point. |
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Mar 22 2004, 10:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 964 |
I'm a Christian and as all you people know, it's against the Bible to have sex before marriage. Well I would say that God would know if premarital sex were good or bad.
There are so many consequenses to having sex before marriage like AIDs, STDs, Pregnancy, etc. Your friends, and people you know could even start thinking about you differently. And how do you know that this person isn't just trying to take advantage of you? And if you get pressured by them, why would you have sex with them in the first place? And if you're aware of all of these things, why WOULD you still have sex before marriage. I strongly believe in saving your virginity to the one and only whom you truly love. |
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Mar 22 2004, 11:20 PM
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QUOTE(Ju_CHaN @ Mar 22 2004, 10:36 PM) There are so many consequenses to having sex before marriage like AIDs, STDs, Pregnancy, etc. I agree with everything you said, but you can still get AIDS, STDs, etc after having sex after marriage. |
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Mar 22 2004, 11:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
yes, but you'll have someone there with you... wont you?
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Mar 22 2004, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(visualfusion @ Mar 22 2004, 11:22 PM) yes, but you'll have someone there with you... wont you? But that doesn't mean just because you get AIDs, STDs or whatever from having permarital sex, that they'll leave you. That's not always the case. |
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Mar 23 2004, 08:30 PM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 22 2004, 11:20 PM) I agree with everything you said, but you can still get AIDS, STDs, etc after having sex after marriage. Yea true, but there's more of a chance that ur spouse would tell you about such things(if they know they have it) then a stranger would... |
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Mar 23 2004, 10:07 PM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 22 2004, 9:08 PM) Too bad you didn't get my point. no i did. you were saying that there were many other ways to deal with my brother's death then sex. but what i was saying was that's easy for you to say since you haven't been through it. don't get me wrong. i do believe it was the wrong thing to do and i could have done something else but i had already typed that. all you did was restate something that i already admitted that i knew. as if you were judging me or something. i hope you never have to experience that... next time just try to put yourself in others' shoes and remember that if you haven't experienced it "personally" then you really have no grounds to tell them what they "should" or "should not" have done... |
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Mar 24 2004, 06:15 PM
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i am member numberr 9000 Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,000 |
i believe in abstinence
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Mar 24 2004, 08:28 PM
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 Moo.. Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,700 |
wth is premlalniebailnt sex?
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Mar 24 2004, 09:54 PM
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 that girl is poison. Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,511 |
i say no. if you wait till your married then it'll be special and worth something. not just like a fling or and action based on a fickle crush~ i guess its highest gift that you can give to your spouse to be ^^ LOL~
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Mar 24 2004, 11:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,939 |
I say its ok, but not smart: getting a girl pregnant is not a good thing before marrige, and STDS are pretty prelevant today
But im not one to judge if one has sex before marrige |
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Mar 25 2004, 09:10 PM
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 Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
If they want to do that then yea
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Mar 25 2004, 09:46 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
If you know what you're getting yourself into and you are comfortable with it and are WARE of the risks, then it's okay. It's a freedom of choice, and if one gets pregnant by having sex with someone, its their own fault for doing it in the first place. It's better to wait because you don't want to give it away to someone you don't love. I know people who really regretted doing it O_o"
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Mar 25 2004, 10:17 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
QUOTE(MaDxCowZ @ Mar 24 2004, 8:28 PM) wth is premlalniebailnt sex? you mean premartial sex? its sex before you get married. 
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Mar 27 2004, 11:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,266 |
I dont believe in sex b4 marriage cuz u shouldnt give up ur virginity to someone who isnt the right one for u
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Mar 28 2004, 01:04 AM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
I believe in it... your choice...
i think sex is overrated. |
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Mar 31 2004, 03:58 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
hmm personally i think no.
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Apr 5 2004, 12:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,489 |
I'm an atheist, but even I believe that intercourse should wait until after marriage. It's only fair to your spouse, that is, if they're still a virgin as well. But either way, I just think it's right to wait.
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Apr 19 2004, 07:54 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
QUOTE(Apr 19 2004 @ 7:52 PM) dam girl, you are my new role model. you put everything in perfect words. I agree. Premarital sex - no. and doing other sexual things to others - no. you do that with your spouse. damm man, keep your hands to yourself. no, omg, ok keep your hands away from others AND yourself. put your hands up. keep em where i can see em. oh and plus. your spouse is gonna be like what?!?!? and he/she is going to have a mad fit for like days, but they wont tell you. you'll know when theres no spooning going on at night. hahaaaaaa  
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Apr 19 2004, 07:55 PM
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 technicolor girl Group: Member Posts: 1,075 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,104 |
i'll have sex when i find my perfect mate...my husband
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Apr 19 2004, 08:37 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 19 2004, 7:54 PM) i like spooning.. |
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