A Long Distance Relationship, with the guy you know is true....... Options

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Just let everything take its course Don't do anything drastic to the point where like you're wanting things to turn out a certain way, cuz then it just comes back to bite you in the butt later

Well, If he wants to go to the Navy, I say let him. You like him and all, but it's probably for the best..?

[nyctophiliac]

dude he lives all the way in Nevada...for all you know he's some 50 year old guy that likes to molest teenage girls
Steph

[Too Asian To DIE]

we can only give u the possibilities, we cant tell u what to do..... its not our lyf irs yours..... do what u feel is best

[HP and Lm1031]

im in a long distance relationship also. my bf lives in New York i live in Missouri. its hard at times but i always think about the good things. i met my bf for the first time in real life June 11, 2004 and it was the best day of my life. it will b a year for us Oct.31 (yea i know crazy!) but u do need to have AOLT of trust to have a relationship like this. and if he really loves u then he would wait for u if u guys want to get married down the road. but done b scared to follow ur heart! i did and i have never been this happy in my life!! and it really helps if u get to see him and touch him. but never hold back ur feelings tward him. i tryed that and it dosent help any but when i told him how i felt and what i was thinking i found out that he was feeling the same way i was and it has made us love each other more. im only 16 and when i told my bf that i wanted to spend the rest of my life w/ him he started cryin b/c he was wanting the same thing. our familys know that we want to get married and now his mom n dad wants to take me to Italy w/ them next tiem they go so i can meet the rest of the family. i have suffered alot in this expereance also i have lost my best friend b/c she dent like the idea of us dating and my bf and i have also suffered reatialdescrimanation b/c my bf is black/italian and ppl think that we shouldnt b going out b/c im white and hes black but u know what i dont care and he dosent care and the only thing ppl are doing to us is bringing us closer. so dont let ne1 put u down for this its ur life and ur heart so follow it!!
Hannah

[Too Asian To DIE]

im in a long distance relationship also. my bf lives in New York i live in Missouri. its hard at times but i always think about the good things. i met my bf for the first time in real life June 11, 2004 and it was the best day of my life. it will b a year for us Oct.31 (yea i know crazy!) but u do need to have AOLT of trust to have a relationship like this. and if he really loves u then he would wait for u if u guys want to get married down the road. but done b scared to follow ur heart! i did and i have never been this happy in my life!! and it really helps if u get to see him and touch him. but never hold back ur feelings tward him. i tryed that and it dosent help any but when i told him how i felt and what i was thinking i found out that he was feeling the same way i was and it has made us love each other more. im only 16 and when i told my bf that i wanted to spend the rest of my life w/ him he started cryin b/c he was wanting the same thing. our familys know that we want to get married and now his mom n dad wants to take me to Italy w/ them next tiem they go so i can meet the rest of the family. i have suffered alot in this expereance also i have lost my best friend b/c she dent like the idea of us dating and my bf and i have also suffered reatialdescrimanation b/c my bf is black/italian and ppl think that we shouldnt b going out b/c im white and hes black but u know what i dont care and he dosent care and the only thing ppl are doing to us is bringing us closer. so dont let ne1 put u down for this its ur life and ur heart so follow it!!
Hannah

yea listen to hannah..... wow oct. 31st..... its halloween... i luv halloween.... woah im off topic....

[luckyxi3]

hey thanx guys for your advices! and best wishes to HP and Lm1031. hope everything works out for you two!

well i guess i posted this thread a month ago. well next month [nov 24] is when HE`S leaving for the navy. weird `cause that`s also my brother`s birthday. anyways getting off topic, we`ve talked [on the phone and internet several times] and i`ve thought everything through. i`ve decided that... i`m willing to wait for him. i mean if i say he is the right guy for me, then why not wait? since there`s no other guy out there for me. but he told me once that he didn`t want me to be his girl because he didn`t wanna make me wait and endure pain. he`s received so much pain in his life and i could really care less if i get pain from this.. because he`s worth it. i wanna steal his pain away and owe him the happiness he deserves/deserved from the people that hurt him in the past. I WANNA BE THERE FOR HIM. besides, when he gets out i`ll be older and he`ll be able to meet by then. do navy people get little vacations while they`re in the navy? [please answer] and what i want right now is to ask him if he could consider coming here to NY to visit my before he leaves. that`s beyond my dreams lol. well yeah, so anyways i still didn`t tell him what my thoughts are but i will. i don`t know if he`ll approve of this long distance thing because he said he didn`t like em.. but i also don`t know if he`ll change that thought for me. so yeah and i hope that when we talk i can show him this thread so he can know everything. i was thinking of naming a star after him--like in that movie "A Walk to Remember". is it wrong to love him so much now? i know that might seem like a "dumb-girl" thing to say but yeah, i guess it`s true. i`m not blind, i`m not obsessed.. i`m in love

THANX GUYS FOR ALL OF YOUR ADVICES!

[sjlee]

if u haven't seen each other yet, then that's pretty risky... cuz who knows, maybe if u guys meet in person u'll realize he's not really mr right and totally opposite of what u expected even though u've been talking online and stuff

[Edele]

Well, considering the age difference...thats huuge. He's just about to start his life and you're only beginning high school or are in the middle of it. I mean...I'm not against long-distance relationships. I'm totally for them since a special someone of mine lives in NY while I in Illinois. But maybe you should consider dating him but not anything more and see where that leads the both of you. But if you really care about him, you just want to make him happy. And that just might be letting him go in the Navy and live his life.

Ciao!

[luckyxi3]

if u haven't seen each other yet, then that's pretty risky... cuz who knows, maybe if u guys meet in person u'll realize he's not really mr right and totally opposite of what u expected even though u've been talking online and stuff

do you mean like looks? because by now i could care less what he looks like. i think his personality over-ruled his image.

and for edele, yeah that`s a good way to make him happy. but i`m not thinking of making him stop of going to the navy. i mean that`s his decision and i`ll just wait until he`s done with whatever he wants to accomplish over there. i know it`s gonna be hard as hell, but there`s some things in life WORTH waiting for