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post Mar 21 2004, 02:30 AM
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Should you still love a person, even though he doesn't love you back? i mean, i'm starting to really like this one boy at school, but I'm pretty sure he likes someone else. my mom said you shouldnt like a guy if he doesnt love u back.

What do you all think?
 
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post Mar 21 2004, 02:36 AM
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It really depends if you have the patience you know?

I liked this girl for well over a year and she didn't seem to feel the same way. Then next thing you know, we were going out.
Sure we broke up, but up until now, we're still tight.

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post Mar 21 2004, 03:33 AM
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wow my sisters going thru the same thing at this very moment too!! i mean u can control how u feel for a person...u know theres no on/off switch to liking someone. so i guess its a cliche for me to say this but, "follow ur throb.gif !"

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post Mar 21 2004, 08:49 AM
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you can't say shoulds or shouldnts on these kinda things .. you can't help who you love .. sometimes you fall for someone who doesn't love you the same way back .. it happens =/
 
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post Mar 21 2004, 11:16 AM
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QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ Mar 21 2004, 8:49 AM)
you can't say shoulds or shouldnts on these kinda things .. you can't help who you love .. sometimes you fall for someone who doesn't love you the same way back .. it happens =/

exactly. and sometimes when you love 'em and they don't love you back, you want them to be happy, regardless of if they're with you or not.
 
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post Mar 21 2004, 03:18 PM
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hmm... well it hink it depends on ur stand on the guy/ gurl. i mean, if you truly like this guy SOOO MUCH then you wouldnt be asking this question cause you wouldnt be able to control it...

maybe you shouldnt like this guy tho. cause your uncertain... and its not worth getting hurt if u arent certain if you want to like this guy or not... ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 21 2004, 07:14 PM
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think about it...whats better: to be in love or have someone love you? i say to be in love but everyone is different. if you like being loved better, then yeah its disheartening to love someone u know wont love you back
 
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post Mar 21 2004, 10:05 PM
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i think it's really hard to not like someone, whether or not they like you back. i'm kinda going thru something like this too. i know that the guy i like likes someone else and really only thinks of me as a friend. but i always say that u can't help who u like.

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think about it...whats better: to be in love or have someone love you? i say to be in love but everyone is different. if you like being loved better, then yeah its disheartening to love someone u know wont love you back


i think it would be to be in love too. but at the same time i think that when u love someone who you know doesn't reciprocate the feelings.. it does hurt a lot.. and it makes you feel bad when u know someone loves u but u don't love them back. wow.. i just realized i am both of these people... how sucky is that?!? sad.gif
 
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post Mar 22 2004, 03:58 PM
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i say these things arent under ur control, if u like him then u jus do, what can u do about it? nothing lols whether he likes u bak or not, thats his choice, u should follow ur heart
 
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post Mar 22 2004, 04:08 PM
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Well its a personal thing ya kno....you can love whom ever you wish...whether or not they love you shouldnt matter...but you should let the other person kno you have feelings for them...it might change there mind....its a great thing knowing that you are loved
 
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post Mar 22 2004, 09:01 PM
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well if u love him, then wait for a while but dont wait 4ever, b/c it might never come to pass, or u can tell him how u feel, and take it from there
 
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post Mar 22 2004, 10:55 PM
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This is just my opinion, so you don't have to listen, but this is what i think about Love.

1) It just happens, you need to accept that.
2) You can help who you fall in love with.
3) Loving someone else is okay, even if they don't love you back. You've still got your love for them, right?
4) Love is complicated... there's is no easy solution to any problem dealing with it.
 
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post Mar 22 2004, 11:58 PM
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don't call it love when it isn't...girls got problems, they think everything is love...they see a guy in a movie and go "oooh i love him" CHEAP WORDS is all it comes down to
 
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post Mar 23 2004, 01:25 AM
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don't call it love when it isn't...girls got problems, they think everything is love...they see a guy in a movie and go "oooh i love him" CHEAP WORDS is all it comes down to


LOL I can't stand that .... I'm a girl .... I never loved a celebrity before .... unlike some of my friends who are star-struck with ORLANDOOOOOOOOOO BLOOOOOm .... huh.gif
 
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post Mar 23 2004, 01:51 AM
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HAHAHA ichiban and dr3amer lmao. i do that sometimes... like wen i love anoutfit or something. i'll be like "omg luv the outfit" but it doesnt necessarily mean i love it in that way... LMAO

to me, its a difference between LOVE and LUV
LOVE is like that special feeling lmao
luv is what i use for everything else

but i spell both as LOVE haha ^^ maybe it weerd?
 
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post Mar 25 2004, 02:02 AM
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well, you don't really have any control over who you love.
 
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post Mar 25 2004, 02:17 AM
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Are you in love with this boy? Because you can like him...and like someone else on the side, too, right? tongue.gif
 
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post Mar 25 2004, 04:09 PM
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y would u go and ask ur mutha?? and u should like who eva u want not who ur mom says ta like
 
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post Mar 25 2004, 08:05 PM
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quoted from naughtyneshe (Posted on Mar 25 2004, 4:09 PM)
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y would u go and ask ur mutha?? and u should like who eva u want not who ur mom says ta like


HOLLA!

lol

dont continue liking him....

hes jus a sour butt..

as they say..

there are many fish in da sea..LOL

there are better guys out there!!!

so lets go clubbin!!!

LOL
 
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post Mar 25 2004, 08:09 PM
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Going to your mom and saying you like someone might have have been embarassing to me, but i guess you guys are really close. Well i say keep trying, if he JUST wont give you a chance give up on him and try someone new, if you cant do that either than just let your feelings guide you...
 
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post Mar 26 2004, 02:38 PM
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love is unconditional
 
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post Mar 26 2004, 10:22 PM
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well the way i think of it is that don't go out with him just because you love him and he doesn't love you back......if you think about it...it's kinda like using him...ya know? but that's only one way
 
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post Mar 26 2004, 10:43 PM
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true, you can`t help who you love. i`ve gone through that. just wait, let time pass by `n let your feelin`z settle in. or if you don`t wanna wait, have a good friendship with him, like be bess friends. bess friends of the opposite sex most of the time fall for each other _smile.gif
 
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post Mar 27 2004, 01:28 AM
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LOL I didn't really go up to my mom and tell her. I just asked, Would u like somebody if they dont like u? And when she asks, Do u like a boy? I said ... ermm ... EWWWWW!! haha biggrin.gif .. i can never let her know!!
 
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post Mar 28 2004, 05:41 AM
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it's okay to love someone even if they don't like you back.. as long as it's true love =) and people's feelings can change.. so you never know ;)
 
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