any tips on how to get over someone?, ..oy its so hard |
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 Sep 10 2004, 12:06 AM
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 mmm hmmm  Group: Member Posts: 1,591 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,325  |
omgoodness, I honestly think that the best thing to do is to let him know EXACTLY how you feel... either by talking to him or in writing. I'm 20, been in a few relationships... been in love a couple time. Communication is always the freakin key. If he knows exactly how much you care about him and he still doesn't feel the same way... then it was never meant to be. But you can at least feel satisfied that you gave your all and told him how much you loved him. Find closure in that and FIND SOMEONE BETTER! hope this helps swty!
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Sep 11 2004, 06:55 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
wow i went thru that situation. except i went out with him twice and it was becuz we rarely saw each other and stuff.
i realy dont have a solution but all the other people that posted, they have a good idea wut im tryin to say |
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Sep 11 2004, 09:09 PM
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 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
"your eyes are placed in front of you so you can look ahead. not behind"
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Sep 13 2004, 12:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,225 |
wow....... funny....i was in this situation with 2 girls.... but i just took it as a thing of the past n went on with my life...
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Sep 13 2004, 01:36 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
yooh cant just get over someone just because you want to. it takes time. me nd my ex broke up 7 months ago but im still holding on cuz i just cant let go. so yea its hard to let go.....
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Sep 15 2004, 08:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,186 |
i guess just keep your self busy?
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Sep 24 2004, 07:07 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
hm same thing practically for me and er its like i still cant get over him and so i have no idea. but were like good friends and stuff and he still looks out for me but when im with a guy or something he gets all jealous. wacked out!
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Sep 26 2004, 08:53 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
stop thinking about him!!!! :D it seems like u still do
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Sep 26 2004, 08:59 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
find another guy?
err me and my ex of 5 months (we broke up about..a few weeks ago) and we are still friends. I occupy myself with other guys. Flirting with one specific guy and it keeps my mind off of my ex. I think something is gunna happen wit me and the guy but who knows.. At least me and my ex are friends. try to tlk with ur ex and get sum closure. Me and my ex are good friends and it sure did bring sum closure. time to move on |
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Sep 26 2004, 09:03 PM
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*Influential Guitarist & Inspiring Writer* Group: Official Member Posts: 1,217 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,134 |
hmm well getting over someone is hard im still trying to get over my ex even if i broke up with her...but all u gotta try and do is move on being with friends helps u get yur mind off of him works for me and my ex
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Sep 27 2004, 01:01 PM
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 no more tears will fall <33 Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,590 |
hah. find a new bf maybe? lol just playen uuh uuh srry i cant helpsz
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Sep 27 2004, 03:29 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
slit your wrists...then you won't have to worry about him anymore
 StephYAY MY 700TH POST! |
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Sep 27 2004, 03:36 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
QUOTE stop thinking about him!!!! :D it seems like u still do unfortuantely the reason that she posted this is that she cant stop thinking bout him....  i guess that u dont realize that breaking up with sumone u have been for a long time hurts really bad......QUOTE slit your wrists...then you won't have to worry about him anymore Steph what r u? nuts?   i think that doing things that u enjoy a lot lyk sports or sumthing that u know u wont be thinking bout him so much...... it takes time for the hurt to go away..... unless ur lyk mai crush..... 2 days later after his breakup with his gf of 1 and 1/2 yrs he is fine....... what a weirdo 
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Sep 29 2004, 01:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
go to a show
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Sep 29 2004, 02:24 AM
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you cant just get over someone like that..if you have feelings for someone then you have feelings for someone..it'll take time..
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Sep 29 2004, 03:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
Think about something else or think about unanswered questions.
Like, what did come first, the chicken or the egg? You know, things like that. |
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Sep 29 2004, 05:27 AM
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 jn Group: Member Posts: 713 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,769 |
do homework.
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Oct 2 2004, 12:28 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
i guess ... find someone better. there's always gonna be someone better out there, trust me.
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Oct 2 2004, 01:42 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
time will heal it. dunt worry :]
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Oct 2 2004, 01:48 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Dont get with your best friend, youre just forcing yourself to make him jelous, which is all for him, meaning you still have feelings for him. Try getting someone completely new, away from the past
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Oct 2 2004, 01:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,800 |
think about the negativeS?
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Oct 2 2004, 03:23 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
start to be open for other guys
im sure there r guys out ther want you and yes keep yourself busy stay with your friends alot and maybe checkin out other singles... i don think u can completely get over him cuz the pain will come bak again nd again nd again.. but try to... itz hard. good luck take care X |
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Oct 3 2004, 11:22 PM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
its a smart thing to do, just get it over............but since you know now that you both are cool with each other, that will get your getting over him thing faster and easier......just stay as freinds........
hang out with freids alot, family.......anything to take ur mind off of him....go watch some scary butt movies ahahah ......man that really helped. single is fun, you get to do wutever you want with your life........ |
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Oct 3 2004, 11:25 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
the thing i do is try to keep my mind off her.. kick it with friends or go to church or something.. just get her out of ur mind
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