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 Sep 30 2004, 03:59 PM
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just a girl  Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,392  |
Alright, my bf and I have been together for 5 months now, and we've been through a lot.. and it hasnt even been that long. Well, he has two jobs and then he also owns his own business... and on top of that he also has classes that he takes for being a paramedic (its some refresher course)... anyway, we used to spend all the time together... but now its like we dont see each other at all. Well, he had gotten upset when i said that i wanted to get a second to do something more ya know? and i said tht i would work as much as i can to get the extra money.. and he got really upset... but the odd thing is that he works ANY chance he can get. Anyway, so, i'm getting really frustrated and i dunno why! Anytime i talk to him its almost like i dont want to?! i mean, i really care about him, but i dunno what to do. Its weird. i've been really stressed out.. do u think that could be why?
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Sep 30 2004, 04:07 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
yea u r stressed... calem down and really think it over.... ask ur self y is he doing this...
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Sep 30 2004, 05:03 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
QUOTE yea u r stressed... calem down and really think it over.... ask ur self y is he doing this... what she said ^   Steph
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Sep 30 2004, 05:20 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Both of you are probably just stressed out from work.
Relax. =] |
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Sep 30 2004, 05:34 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
break up, whats the point being together when u don't get the time to spend with each other... n when u seem to even have problem talking... n thats a lot f jobs is he that poor that he has to work so much? or does he just love working soooo much? if thats the case seems like he likes spending time with work then you...
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Sep 30 2004, 05:36 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Let me get this straight. It has been 5 months and you love him?
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Sep 30 2004, 06:45 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
just have a serious convo with him, ask him if everything is alright, give it time, dont keep pressuring him erm... both are probally stressed, hes busy yknow, he probally doesnt like the fact hes getting naged out for not being around as much when hes working his ass off.
as him if things have changed,ask him if anything is up,if if no, just relax and take it slow -edit- u know, im not sure i understand the problem . AH! |
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Sep 30 2004, 06:58 PM
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relaxing sounds good about now
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Sep 30 2004, 08:37 PM
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*Influential Guitarist & Inspiring Writer* Group: Official Member Posts: 1,217 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,134 |
well by the looks of it hes much more into work than well life it self i read this in a bok and it seems fairly similar it seems like he has no social life anymore and no time for fun u gotta make him realize what a job monster he became and theres more to life than work yea its stressing him but he gotta hang loose or it'll completely destroy your relationship
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| *wind&fire* |
Sep 30 2004, 10:27 PM
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i think itll settle down...
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Sep 30 2004, 11:40 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I think you should break up with him ... I mean, what's the point anymore? You guys can never spend time with each other. He cares too much about his work and too less for you. -shrugs- If you don't agree, then well. Do whatever you want.
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Oct 1 2004, 02:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,299 |
The best advice anyone can give anyone: "GO WITH THE FLOW! DONT FORCE THINGS!"
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Oct 1 2004, 01:59 PM
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just a girl Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,392 |
yeah thanks you guys for all your help. Actually i decided that its because i'm so stressed... i tend to blow things out of proportion when i'm stressed... well, freak out about things. We really do have a wonderful relationship.. we're older than teenagers but not old ya know? But anyway, last night he came over before he went to work just to tell me that he cared about me and not to worry that no matter what happens he will always try :o) hehe so thank you for all your help.. it really helped me think about things! :o)
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Oct 1 2004, 08:05 PM
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 jn Group: Member Posts: 713 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,769 |
its ok. you just do ur stuff and when hes ready to hav fun w/ you then iono!
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Oct 3 2004, 11:32 PM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
does he want to work? seems like he works for a purpose?
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| *wind&fire* |
Oct 4 2004, 03:20 AM
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^^u kno phonetically ur name sez asain unic and a unic is a guy without a ..... ahem.... u know the guys "appendage"..... so yee-aah ....aite...
anyway ... just plan times to see each other.... |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Oct 4 2004, 03:33 PM
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You're upset because you guys aren't spending as much time as you'd like. I suggest you tak things over with him, tell him how you feel, try and make him understand what you're going through
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