shy boyfriend, wut to do? Options

[lilanglbaby418]

that's how my ex-boyfriend james was and it took me forever to get him not to be shy with me anymore. it just takes time. oh yeah--and it didn't work out b/c he never talked to me lol long story on that one!!

[mouse_3k]

eh i disagree.. my friend has this boyfriend in 6th grade and they talked all the time.. and like i sed earlier, my step dad hardly talks to mi mom in public but they talk a whole lot in private and online.. and their in their thirtys!!

well then it seems like ur bf isnt ready to be in a relationship if hes gunna be shy to u. relationships like these are annoying, if he doesnt open up, then its not worth it. if he really does like you, then he should show it. if he doesnt like u enough to show it, its not worth it. and u say ur step dad and mom talk alot in private, then take ur boi into like a private place, see if he opens up there.

just tell him tht him being shy is just being immature and just should open up.

if hes to shy to even talk to you then..thts just messed..

u have just a boyfriend because hes shy and he only talks to u online, real boyfriend my ass. real boyfriends wouldnt be shy to their girl friends.

thts kinda tru there..

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

just tell him to loosen up, haha or threaten him if he doesnt show any public display of affection ur gonna dump him!

[sunissed14127]

try talking to him,talk about stuff at skool that might break him out of his shell

[*lolita kitty*]

how long have you two actually gone out or known each other. to tell you the truth i was nervous in my first relationship but everythings cool now, maybe thats why?

umm weve knoen eachodder fur 2 yearz andd weve been goin out fur 3 weekz

[*lolita kitty*]

well then it seems like ur bf isnt ready to be in a relationship if hes gunna be shy to u. relationships like these are annoying, if he doesnt open up, then its not worth it. if he really does like you, then he should show it. if he doesnt like u enough to show it, its not worth it. and u say ur step dad and mom talk alot in private, then take ur boi into like a private place, see if he opens up there.

just tell him tht him being shy is just being immature and just should open up.

if hes to shy to even talk to you then..thts just messed..



thts kinda tru there..

okey okey chill out now.. its not online- its when were lone or not meny people arond or watchin yah know? like when were with mi friendz or his hes shy but alone hes so sweet ans stuff

[mouse_3k]

^ i guess thts fine? um if hes sweet alone and online and stuff, u should try to have him open up a bit in public but i mean i guess a hush hush relationship wont hurt

[bRiLi]

OMG you have no idea, I'm exactly the same, I'm 15 though and I just got my first boyfriend, he's really shy too... and on the internet he's awesome... ahh this is so confusing isn't it... haha... someone help us...

[XaZnX07]

thats why its good to be really comfortable with the person be4 you date them thats my theory well just chill with him for a while then when you think he is not shy ne more make your move and he will get the idea and start making the moves!










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[xIxLovexRamix]

Hi,
i went through the same problem. Me and my boyfriend were the cutest couple ever, but no one knew that because he was always too shy. We never talked at school or even on the bus ( which is the place we first met ) We would only talk online or on the phone. No one even knew we were going around. It made me really depressed. Until one day i left him a sincere and honest email telling him how i felt about him and our situation. Soon enough we started making progress. In no time he started sitting next to me on the bus, we started talking more, and everything. Compromise is really important and i really think you two should try it. It can really help and i hope i did.

[x0143637x0]

thats kinda like me and one of my ex. he was realli different online but when i see him in person hes shy. if hes shy then i say you make the move and make him feel comfortable then he would loosen up.

[azn_r4pf4n]

thts why i think kids at tht age shouldnt have bf's/gf's cause they are to shy to talk to them which is really immature -_-. besides, if u guys were gf & bf, you wouldnt have these problems cause remember, bf/gf are like best friends too SO, if he was ur best friend would he be shy to act himself around u?

my sister had tht kinda relationship and when he broke up with her, she cried. i was like "wtf u crying about?? not like u guys talked NE wayz". mean but it was true..

i say wait till u get at around the age of 15-16 and get a bf

i agree. but rlly if he's shy, get to know him better. hang out with him more and talk 2 him more, yu'll see the results =]

[pnoy_illuzion]

thats how i was to my currect gf, but as time went on i wasnt shy or anything in front of her friend, family, and strangers. just let time go by and have a talk or u can just do the first move.

[captured_serenit...]

i think he just doesnt want to feel cocky...

[captured_serenit...]

i think he just doesnt want to feel cocky...

[*lolita kitty*]

dear everyone,

wow.
i posted this topic a long-ass time ago
yeah i talked to him about it
and weve made much progress
thatx for teh help
sumone can close this now

[dreamerOi]

just make him feel more comfortable cause yea. haha

[squisheebananas]

hmm.. wel a boyfirend is sumone who either dosent liek you, is a player, or is goin out with you for pity.. yah know? a real boyfriend is someone who really likes you and isnt hooked up wit like 3 girls and stuff..

eh... well how can a guy that doesn't like you be your boyfriend????

[whywasisostupid]

eh... well how can a guy that doesn't like you be your boyfriend????

i agree with him. i mean wtf. was he forced to or sumthin? maybe thats why. u never know

and seriously the REAL boyfriend stuff. thats sick. middle school?

[*lolita kitty*]

dear everyone,

wow.
i posted this topic a long-ass time ago
yeah i talked to him about it
and weve made much progress
thatx for teh help
sumone can close this now

im just quoting mysekf from before
well.. now that teh problem's sol ved, someone can close this

[nyctophiliac]

don't worry he'll loosen
up in a couple days
Steph

[*lolita kitty*]

don't worry he'll loosen
up in a couple days
Steph

read teh post above you
mods, can someone close this..
i made it awhile ago, and yeah i dont need the advice no more
thanx

[LiLaZnGirL122]

i had a b/f hahaha last year he was hella shy and i broke up wit him like 5 days later haha i dun regret it cuz i dun like him but we hella good frds jus giv him time to get to noe u

[kbgirly]

talk talk talk talk talk to him
the more interesting, fun stuff you talk about the more he finds u attractive
and he wouldn't be that shy
he might find himself wanting to hug you