out of a serious relationship.., into a new one so soon??? |
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out of a serious relationship.., into a new one so soon??? |
Sep 23 2004, 09:19 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
i just got out of a serious relationship..yah, yall probably heard. err it went 5 months and yah i thought it was serious then he broke up wit me >_< (we friends
then one of my good friends, the guy i gave my first kiss to, wants me to be his girl...me and my ex just broke up like 2-3 weeks ago. now tht first kiss was in 8th grade and im in 10th grade now yaaah he wants me now..dunno wht to say. like half of me want to but half dont cause like..i still miss my ex but my friend is so sweet and everything.. hmm..NE advice? (ps: reason why i havent been in CB for a while is cause of the poop happenin in my life such as this in the past few weeks: 1.moving 2.dogs were givin away 3.bf broke up with me 4. friend died 5. good friend has a terminal illness yahh...sry folks, ill try to come to CB as much as i can) |
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Sep 23 2004, 10:24 PM
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![]() Want fries with that? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
I'm really sorry to hear that....but i'm not sure if you should go out so soon. You should wait a couple more weeks...if this guy really wanted to be with you...he'd wait. So...i think you should date him again for a while before you actually get too serious with this guy.
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Sep 23 2004, 10:29 PM
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![]() The Bone Collector ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
If you still like him, you shoul really wait. Cause if you go out with him and still like your ex, the relationship won't go as smooth. and im sorry that all the poop happened to you.
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Sep 23 2004, 10:31 PM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Awwww, I'm really sorry. =[
I think you should go for it. =] Yeah, I was wondering where you were! |
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Sep 23 2004, 10:50 PM
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![]() WUT THA DUCK? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
im sorry... well it all depends if you like him and you are ready to move on. if not, then dont go for it.
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Sep 23 2004, 10:56 PM
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SOS Brigade!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
im sorry to hear... yeah live your life and hope you feel better!!
go for it if your ready like ^ she said |
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| *stephinika* |
Sep 23 2004, 11:09 PM
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oh wow sorry about all thats been happening...but yeah i'd wait a little longer and yeah if he likes you he'll wait for ya. good luck!
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Sep 23 2004, 11:32 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 226 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,382 |
im really sorry to hear about all that...
but what i would do.. is probably date around.. date that guy maybe w hos interested in you.. whenever i was coming out of a relationship that would help me out too. whos to say.. maybe you and your ex wil get back together some day |
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Sep 23 2004, 11:40 PM
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
aw im so sorry to hear all those things =/ ... all i cna say is follow ur heart
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Sep 23 2004, 11:44 PM
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![]() We are the cure. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Love sucks in general. It f*cks you up in the end.
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Sep 24 2004, 12:57 AM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE Love sucks in general. It fucks you up in the end. ^ True that. -_- |
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Sep 24 2004, 04:43 AM
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![]() Ah, mon Dieu ! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
sorry to hear things have been tough... ^ ^;;
im sure everything will work out ok, though... if you are ready for another relationship and you really feel ready, then i'd say go for it... but if you still have mixed feelings, then wait a while... |
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Sep 24 2004, 01:28 PM
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![]() doot doot doot ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
aiya... brighten up. in the darkest moments, one can learn a lot and soon find the light out.. but if u thought ur previous relationship was serious then u shouldnt go out wit the other guy cuz its jus gonna be a rebound, and it'll end before u knoe it. Feel better tho
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Sep 24 2004, 01:31 PM
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I say forget about your ex and try to move on... It's for the best. I was in a serious relationship, and I was still hung up on my ex for the longest time... trust me, it's no good. Just try and move on and go out with your friend
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Sep 24 2004, 02:53 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE Love sucks in general. It f*cks you up in the end. lol thts so tru. yah..i think i should just move on..my ex said the harshes things to me which made me give up hope on going back with him.. ex: understand this, i love you only as a friend and ONLY a friend..nothing more.. yaaah... |
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Sep 24 2004, 03:22 PM
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![]() I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
even though its really hard.. try to move on.... but just make sure that ur strong enough to get over ur ex.... u should try it with the other guy... see what happens....
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Sep 25 2004, 02:19 PM
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What a d*ck
I'm sorry, but guys are assh0les |
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Sep 25 2004, 03:28 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,702 |
Steph..move on...You cant dwell on the same person for a long time and if you wanna get over your ex, the better way is to get up and be active..
And I'm sorry about the deaths and stuff.... - somechinkgirl |
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Sep 25 2004, 05:02 PM
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stephanie .. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
sorry to hear about all of that =[ i think you should just give the kid a chance and if you don't like him then dump him
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Sep 25 2004, 05:05 PM
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You guys are dumb. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
It is called a rebounder... Go get him tiger!
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Sep 25 2004, 05:19 PM
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![]() to be loved by someone you love is.. everything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
tell him that you need more time..and maybe it'll be better if he came back at the right time, when you're not so down from the past relationship
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Sep 25 2004, 05:23 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE It is called a rebounder... Go get him tiger! lol naw..when me and my ex broke up, he would always try to make me laugh and happy ya know? he'd call me like 3 times a day and stuff and thts sweet.. yah imma give him a chance. forget my ex |
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