y is LuV so hard??, *sigh* i feel heart-broken... |
 Mar 19 2004, 12:22 AM
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 its a hamster named Boo!!! ^^ hehe  Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,901  |
i like this guy.......my fren keeps tellin me to tell him i like him.....but i don't think i can handle him avoding me if he doesn't feel the same way.....*sniff sniff* i wish this was all easier...
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Mar 19 2004, 12:35 AM
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 woady woady Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,376 |
i think u should find out how he feels via his friends or something....or u can just tell him straight up, but the results could b good or the results may be bad
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Mar 19 2004, 12:43 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
It would be lots easier if the guy told you, instead of you telling him . . . just give him the impression you like him and see what happenz!
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Mar 19 2004, 01:10 AM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
ur title is y is love so hard? well how do you noe you love him? i mean, if you truly love that person, you should have courage!!
ask him, cmon the worst he could do is reject. i mean, ask him beofre you get too into him... that way you wont have to be heartbroken IF he says no. and if he sys yes, then YAY for you!! good luck dear!
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Mar 19 2004, 12:56 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
unfortunately things like that aren't easy .. the worst that could happen is he turns you down .. but you have so much more to gain if he feels the same way .. don't be shy .. go for it =]
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Mar 19 2004, 01:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,389 |
just tell him and see what happens the worst thing that could happen is say i dont like u back then u can move on and find a new guy. no big deal
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Mar 19 2004, 07:01 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
tell him =) support u all the way
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Mar 19 2004, 07:07 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
To answer your question (your title question thinger), love is hard because you fall in love. That's why it hurts...
 And if you give your heart to someone and they don't give it back, don't worry. There's other people who will give a piece of their heart back, you know?
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Mar 19 2004, 07:47 PM
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 heart broken x Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,259 |
i would see how he feels and den tell him how u feel
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Mar 22 2004, 04:44 PM
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its a hamster named Boo!!! ^^ hehe Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,901 |
  hehe thanks for all of ur guyz advice ^^ i'll try tellin him i guess...i was gonna neway....i think   i'm tired...
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Mar 25 2004, 07:57 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
dont tell him!!!
jus give him da *julia roberts* smile!!! dont like FLIRT wit him.. jus be all smiles...give yur best smile!!!  then if he smiles back...thats a very good thing! then get someone to ask him if he likes anyone.. lol or you can tell him if you feel comfortable.. love isnt that hard... as long as you know how you feel and are willing to give unconditional love..its all good. if there is doubt...theres no love.. but thats jus me.. 
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Mar 26 2004, 02:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,584 |
don't feel heart broken yet... u haven't even told him yet!
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Mar 28 2004, 05:13 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
for every feeling in a person, there's always a blogring to come from it :D haha sorry.. i'm in a heartbroken blogring. and yeah..i know how you feel =)
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Mar 28 2004, 08:38 PM
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its a hamster named Boo!!! ^^ hehe Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,901 |
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Mar 25 2004, 7:57 PM) dont tell him!!! jus give him da *julia roberts* smile!!! dont like FLIRT wit him.. jus be all smiles...give yur best smile!!! then if he smiles back...thats a very good thing! then get someone to ask him if he likes anyone.. lol or you can tell him if you feel comfortable.. love isnt that hard... as long as you know how you feel and are willing to give unconditional love..its all good. if there is doubt...theres no love.. but thats jus me.. i havn't told him yet....mainly because i havn't seen him in a while cause of spring break, but that smiling thing is a good idea
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Mar 30 2004, 05:47 PM
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 lovedme_lovesmenot...explain that! Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,423 |
a proven fact: LUV SUX
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Mar 30 2004, 08:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,609 |
just go and ask him...most of the time the guy will get flattered even if he right away dosent feel that way for you it could grow on him after he knows how you feel...
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Mar 30 2004, 09:49 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
(tomorrow_nvr_comes Posted on Mar 30 2004, 5:47 PM)
QUOTE a proven fact: LUV SUX omg!!!how depressing!!! that`s not really helping you know... be positive!!! and love does not "SUCK" love conquers ALL!!!haha.. like i said...unconditional love...got to give! |
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Mar 31 2004, 03:43 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u should tell hym. u neva noe cuz he mite lyke u too.
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Apr 4 2004, 01:05 AM
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its a hamster named Boo!!! ^^ hehe Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,901 |
QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Mar 30 2004, 8:42 PM) just go and ask him...most of the time the guy will get flattered even if he right away dosent feel that way for you it could grow on him after he knows how you feel... now that is interesting..  hehe
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Apr 4 2004, 01:06 AM
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its a hamster named Boo!!! ^^ hehe Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,901 |
QUOTE(dani41790 @ Mar 31 2004, 3:43 PM) i think u should tell hym. u neva noe cuz he mite lyke u too. thats a nice thought
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Apr 5 2004, 01:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,686 |
As a friend of mine said...finding love sucks but yeah ive been single like my whole life so yeah...
hit me up lol |
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Apr 5 2004, 01:24 PM
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 Coolerator Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,442 |
Right serious advise time
.Go to him and say to him that you like him and ask him to go out with you. You have NO clue how great you will feel.. even if he says no. Itll take alot off your mind and if he does say no jus say, o ok... and says can we still be friendz tho? course he'll say yes so just lighten up. If you give up this chance you will regret it forever. I mean You might have avoided rejection... but what if he was gonna say yes? 
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Apr 5 2004, 01:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,975 |
I told a guy once that I liked him and he explained that he didn't feel the same way.
I got over it pretty quickly, though. I think it was becuase he didn' try to avoid me and we went on as friends. But then there was this one time at prom where I went w/a guy that liked me and I didn't like him back. He asked if he could kiss me and I almost died! So...if you plan to let someone know...don't do it in that way because that is just humiliating. Just tell him what you feel about him. Don't ask him out, just tell him. Write him a note. And if you both are friends he will respect you enough to just tell you nicely if he doesn't like you, and then you can both go on with living your lives. But...what if he likes you back also? That is why you need to tell him. |
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Apr 5 2004, 01:32 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Yea, it's better to find out as soon as possible. Cause if you keep liking him without knowing, then later you'll start to possibly (not for sure tho) LOVE him, and then what if he says that he doesn't like you? Then you'll end up totally heartbroken. It's better to find out as soon as possible. Just tell him straight out. If he doesn't, move on. It's not the end of the world because you don't like him enough to love him yet or anything like that...
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Apr 7 2004, 03:09 AM
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its a hamster named Boo!!! ^^ hehe Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,901 |
QUOTE(galilea @ Apr 5 2004, 1:30 PM) I told a guy once that I liked him and he explained that he didn't feel the same way. I got over it pretty quickly, though. I think it was becuase he didn' try to avoid me and we went on as friends. But then there was this one time at prom where I went w/a guy that liked me and I didn't like him back. He asked if he could kiss me and I almost died! So...if you plan to let someone know...don't do it in that way because that is just humiliating. Just tell him what you feel about him. Don't ask him out, just tell him. Write him a note. And if you both are friends he will respect you enough to just tell you nicely if he doesn't like you, and then you can both go on with living your lives. But...what if he likes you back also? That is why you need to tell him. a note is good. especially for a shy gurl like me
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