am i wrong, jealousy |
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 Sep 17 2004, 02:52 AM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,532  |
hi everyone... i'll try to keep this short. i recently chatted on AIM to my ex from 3 years ago, i wouldn't say chat... but i said hi and see how he was doing. he told me he's fine and he has a gf. (btw i'm now 17 and he's 21.) he gave me her sn and we chatted. she's nice and everything but the more we talked i couldn't help but feel jealous. then i told her that sometime i still think *he* is the only one for me and i want him back and wish i could have him back. i kno it's crzy since i live in maryland and he lives in cali. im so hurt by what things she told me about *him* and how he said he didn't love me he only liked me. he was my first love and i think he's the only one for me. i can't help but be jealous of her and hate her. am i a bad person for hopin they break up so i can have another chance with him?
so confused... nething, ne advice??? |
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Sep 17 2004, 02:56 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
your 17, there will be more lovers ahead. u guys are on the other side of each other's country ... just let go, find a new lover . actually, just try to have fun with the person ur with and see where it leads, never go into a relationship assuming it will last forever, because ur just gonna be in a world of heart break.....
well human nature includes jelousy ... so it doenst make u a bad person, just makes u human.... i doubt things will work out even if they do break up ... so yeah sorry? |
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Sep 17 2004, 10:20 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
to feel jealous is normal, if u dont feel it ur not human lol but i think u should get over it.. cuz its in the past already... and its gonna be long distant. its gonna be hard to keep up wit and maintain the feelings.. and he doesnt feel it anymore.... i think if they're happy together u should wish them luck and go hunt for a new fish =]
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Sep 17 2004, 10:30 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
its ok to feel like that.. u're human and humans are selfish... its natural instinct to feel jealous and stuff.. and hope for something bad
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Sep 17 2004, 02:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Nothing lasts forever. Lmao.
It's okay. I know how you feel. I sorta felt that way towards me ex, but then I eventually got over it. There's other people and you're still 17. He's 21 and no matter how much you wish that they'll break up, it's not going to happen until a long time since she is with him. All you can do right now is just move on. Or you can just sit there and dwell on the past, thinking of how much you hate her. Wow, that's a great life isn't it? [/ends sarcasm] |
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Sep 17 2004, 08:49 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
its normal to feel that way. i guess the only thing u can do is just try to get over him cuz i dont noe wat else you can do
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Sep 17 2004, 08:52 PM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
haha....I get jealous too...if I see someone that I like or is mine in otherwords ......talking about another girl...I get pissed off..... but the person is not exactly my bf.....lol...just someone I like.....haha god I'm just rambling....lol
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Sep 17 2004, 08:56 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
its ok 2 b jealous...any girl would b if u talked 2 ur ex's new g/f....
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Sep 18 2004, 07:38 PM
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 Just In This For Fun Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,946 |
OMG... is this who I think it is? Wow... U hate me??? I understand... so gyeah... ummm everyone is right... it's natural to be jealous... well I hope you get to read this... Enjoy ur life and please stop waiting for something that may never happen... I know there are plenty of guys there just waiting to ask you out... sooo please... open ur eyes... there is someone ou there for you...
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