Help!, Saving The Relationship |
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Help!, Saving The Relationship |
Sep 16 2004, 10:37 PM
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Hey people, I need some serious help here. Okay, here goes, well, my girlfriend and I just had this huge fight because, I admit it, I screwed up and lied to her about so many things...now she doesn't trust me anymore. I'm trying to change my ways, I know I can do it, I just need some way for her to find out that I'm a different guy now, and that I won't lie to her anymore. For some information, I go to the same school as her, but don't see her much, I can't really call her, because that would just be dumb as I've already apologized so many times and you can only get so many things done on the phone...Help!
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Sep 16 2004, 11:29 PM
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
stop being a panzy and go face to face . ok now heres what you do.
Try to talk to her at school. You wanna show her that you have changed? You gotta prove it, u cant just tell her, words mean nothing when ur considered a liar. You say you can only apologize so many times... Wrong , u gotta keep saying it until they believe u, and u gotta mean it. And yea Honestly your chances of getting back with her are slim since you have lost her trust, and if ur wondering how you can show her that you have changed, is simple. Be honest and be Persistant, and after a while and things are still where they are, "you gotta let it burn" |
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Sep 16 2004, 11:42 PM
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![]() doot doot doot ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Sep 16 2004, 11:29 PM) stop being a panzy and go face to face . ok now heres what you do. Try to talk to her at school. You wanna show her that you have changed? You gotta prove it, u cant just tell her, words mean nothing when ur considered a liar. You say you can only apologize so many times... Wrong , u gotta keep saying it until they believe u, and u gotta mean it. And yea Honestly your chances of getting back with her are slim since you have lost her trust, and if ur wondering how you can show her that you have changed, is simple. Be honest and be Persistant, and after a while and things are still where they are, "you gotta let it burn" wow.. lol totally agree with u, but except the part where keep apologizing and stuff.. like yeah keep apologizing but not 24/7, dont let her get annoyed of u lol yeah go talk to her! face to face too, it shows that u got guts to face ur wrongs and it also proves a lot of other things |
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Sep 17 2004, 01:30 AM
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Stalking Createblog... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Hm. Confess everything to her.
But never ever stalk her. Personal experiences. |
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Sep 17 2004, 07:13 AM
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![]() Wife of Legolas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,290 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,190 |
puh-leaze don't apologize 24/7 it's prolly worse than stalking (ok maybe not)
BUT STILL.. it'll reduce marks.. and.. i'm guessing you already lost a lot from before.. make a deal with her. like.. "oh give me two months time i'll change." whatever.. just state that you really do cherish her as a being, and would like to change for the sake of the relationship. .... |
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Sep 17 2004, 02:21 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Yeah, make a deal with her. Like Tag_yours_it said. Some people just need a second chance and hopefully she'll be the one to give you one.
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Sep 17 2004, 06:07 PM
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,425 |
Okay people, there's an update and you all need some new information to actually help me, even though those other replies helped, I've already done them...and no go. She broke up with me yesterday...she said she loves me and she probably always will...but she said that she didn't want to be in a relationship that lacks trust...I just...don't know. She's been avoiding me, so it's hard to talk to her...and she's mad at me...which makes it even worse...I'm trying to change...really really hard...I mean, I love her...and I feel like she's the one...please...someone...please help me.
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Sep 17 2004, 08:34 PM
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It really sounds like you need a break....dont worry about it anymore or you will feel even more "down". Be yourself, thats all that you can do really, until she sees that you have changed dont worry about it.
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Sep 18 2004, 03:51 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,809 |
Hmm... I say do exactly what DreamGuy2k1 said. I agree 110%
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Sep 18 2004, 06:30 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,383 |
buy her some chocoalte or somethiasdasdasdasdasdasdasdng
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