im reeli jealous of mai bes friend!, plz read! Options

[ldybella]

meeh and dis girl hav bin best frendz fo two years ... and dis year .. in one of her klasses she meetz this other girl named wendy .. and i dont kno, im jealous becuz i dink she likez wendy betta dan me .. she hangz out wif wendy a lot and i kant reeli do anythin bout it becuz i dont hav any klasses wif her so i dont reeli see my frend throughout the day ... i mean, i dont want wendi to take my place as her bes frend .. rai now nothin is reeli seriouz yet but im afraid as tha year goEz on and they get to kno each oThuR beTter .. THEYLL Becumz bff and ill be ALL lefT OUt on everythin ....
wat shood i do?!

<3Anabella

EDIT

sorri, ill try to type normally now.

well i get what u all mean by tryin to become the "3 amigos" and stuff. since i met wendy ive been tryin to be SUPA NICE and everything, but i keep dinkin wendy doeznt realli like me or something. soo .. itz also hard to become the 3 amigoz becaz we dont hav any klasses together .. and dey dooh, so it'll be like, my friend and wendy are best frendz and im all alone all tha same. i talked tooh her about it tho, and shez like we're still best frendz but itz not like she kan control it afterwards wen she gets to kno wendy better and they become closer. u kno what i mean?

This post has been edited by ldybella: Sep 19 2004, 08:27 PM

[silver-rain]

uh, i dink yooh should try an be frens wif wendi. or make some new frens.
wow. that took a while to write. anyways, from what i gather, try to talk to your friend about how you feel.

[xo b0o b0o]

Well...I hear ya. What I WOULD DO...
>> Tell her exactly what you wrote in here and that you're afraid of loosing what y'll have built for two years. And that all the memories and fun times y'll had can't juss be more important then this one girl. Hopefully she'll understand. If not...then sorry sweetie but you'll have to let her go and be happy in whatever that makes her happy...and see if you can find yourself another best friend. I promise...it'll work out it always does.

[ gosh i never thought i'd say that ]

[conster]

talk to ur best friend about it.. but i dont blame her tho.. i mean they probably have classes together and homework assignments that bind them together.. sometimes ppl click right away

[*stephinika*]

talk to ur best friend about it.. but i dont blame her tho.. i mean they probably have classes together and homework assignments that bind them together.. sometimes ppl click right away

i agree, and i also agree with xo boo boo. just talk to her. i don't think she means to be "separating" from you. things like that just happen. just relax, and talk to her.

hope that helps!




one other note...please type properly. =p it'd make it so much easier to read...

[Blank-OuT]

dont worry about it, usually when people make new friends they're just excited about a new friendship. they can never throw away their old friends. but either way, u could let her know how ur feelin.

[jennifish]

ahhh. i've been in one of these before. just befriend wendy. you guys can be the tres amigos (or whatever you call it)

[scleex88]

be friends with both of them.
become family.

[sunissed14127]

puhleeze dun talk lyke dis. anyways,i think u should talk 2 ur best friendand tell her how u feel. tell her u feel like shes trying to let wendy take ur place and that u dont feel included in their friendship

[rainnydaiis]

I think its because shes like NEW... once you tell her your feelings .. yeah its gonna be better

[racegirl24A]

please, type like you actually know at least a little bit of proper grammar makes it a lot easier for people to read

anyway, just make some new friends. or try to be friends with both of them.

[*x____duckii*]

pls dun ryte lyk dis.

Hang out w.your friend. Talk to her and explain whgat wrong and see if she understands. If things don't work out, find a new friend instead.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Hmm...Let's try it.

Thr3e iS A CrOwD Nd oF cOuRsE, YoU'lL F3eL l3ft 0ut. Rai NoW, Jux T3lL YoUr BeSt FwEnD WhAt YoOh BasiCally ToLd Us aNd LeT'S SeE wuT hApPeNs FRUm ThEre, okiez? Kekeke.

Okay, that took longer than I thought.

[whywasisostupid]

i realy dont understand ur typing but okay ill try..

get to know wendy. yall can all be best friends. end of story.

[xSiLLyMex]

im kinda goin through dat..my best fren nd i had EVERY CLASS together last year..nd this year were not in any of each others classes..and we dont even hang out at break or lunch..sumtimes i only say "hi" to her through out the whole day..and its werd cuz on some days i feel lyk were difting apart but it all gets better wen we talk to each other on the fone for lyk an hr.
but neways back to u..i suggest u make some new frens and if it dont work out..then it doesnt, u cant really do any thing about it..das how i think about it

[Just_Dream]

You know, that's the trouble with having best friends.. you can't always spend time with them always. I remember that happened to me. I was best friends with my friend in middle school from 6 to 8th grade and yea i got jealous cause she always hung out with another girl and would ditch me alot.. so it's better to not have best friends, but close friends instead. because wby incling that your friend is a best friend, it's like you're supposed to always hang out with each other.

I know how you feel, and i got angry because of that. But I mean, I got over it and stopped having a best friend... okay well okay maybe my boyfriend is my best friend =P

[nyctophiliac]

^ lots of good adice from everyone ^ i say just talk to her