two of my friends hate eachother, this poses itself as a problem.. |
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 Sep 18 2004, 10:43 AM
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 FUNKosaur-robot-ninja-pirate  Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,320  |
ok, i have two good friends. i like 'Kim' loads better then 'Tara' but i still hang out with 'Tara'. so im planning a little shin dig at this roller skating rink and all of my friends are their friends. i would rather just invite 'Kim' but since 'Tara' is friends with my friends word is bound to get around that she is not invited. I cant invite the both of them either, because they simply hate eachother. any advice? suggestions? maybe i just shouldnt invite either one of them...
 im sorry if this topic makes me seem like a silly little girl
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Sep 18 2004, 10:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
get them to meet with each other and talk things out. see why they hate each other and work it out and you can all go skating!
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Sep 18 2004, 10:48 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
i agree with jnukes, just get them to meet each other (maybe BEFORE the shindig at the rollerrink) and get them to work their problems out
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Sep 18 2004, 01:15 PM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
Moved to Relationship
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Sep 19 2004, 05:22 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
i say invite `em both and let the fights begin!! lol no but seriously, you should get them two to talk
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Sep 19 2004, 05:37 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
*shrug*
Just invite them both. You shouldn't have to accomadate them just because they don't like each other. If they're grown-up enough, they'll either ignore each other or tolerate each other. If they don't, then they need to grow up. >_> It wouldn't hurt to talk to both of them before you have this little party thingy.. and basically just tell them to tolerate each other for the night. If they're really your friends, they'll do it for you. |
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Sep 20 2004, 06:27 PM
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 hey hott pants. Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,069 |
i had a very similar thing happen to me!..were the girls friends before?..bc mine were, and then they got into a fight where they literally hated each other, and i wanted to invite them both to a friends surprise birthday..but i was worried they'd go at it! lol but..anyways.
what i did wasi told them if they were going to go, to just ignore the other girl and just have a good time and hang out w/ other people. if they can both do that it will work out fine..or they could talk it out before the party.. that'd be great! but it's your party, they are going to see you, that's what matters. if they don't want to go bc of another girl, just let her sit at home, bc it's not your problem.. well, i wish you the best of luck! 
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Sep 20 2004, 06:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,453 |
yea I do agree wit Jnukes....you should make them talk it out....but soon it'll have to work out...my friends always get into fights...what I do is talk to my bestest friend and tell her to apologize or whoeva started it....:)
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