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[carmi96]

k this is completely random but i m sooo bored so i ll juss start a topic heh

welll ma parents r rlli protective of me. i cant stay out l8 like my friends can. they dun trust me wen i sleep ova @ my guy friends houses n call in alot. i cant hav a bf till im 16. im the baby in the family so they treat me liek 1.
sum times i feel like i want freedom n juss b a rebel 4 once. hah i havnt rlli dun nething bad...no drugs, i onli acutali bin 2 second base n yeaa

sooo duz ne1 hav uptight parents liek minee??? am i weird th@ i m feelin enclined 2 do bad sh!t....ne1 else feel liek this or am i crazy

[carmi96]

i juss turned 15 btw if ne1 wondrinnnn..

[mony0407]

your a girl right? and they let u sleep over at guys houses!? man your lucky!!

but yah im the baby too and my parents arent horribly strict b/c i'm the only "good kid" in the family.. so they trust me.

i think its part instinct for people to want to do what they arent sposed to. i mean what little kid didnt touch the flame when their parents said "don't touch that, its hot." ? but that doesnt mean you should go against your parents. it wont help at all! because if they catch you disobeying them they arent gonna ease up any.. they're just gonna get worse. i say flow with their rules and thn eventually they'll see that they have nothing to worry about and give you more slack.

just a thought.. and your NoT wierd! every teenager has these thoughts.. im about to turn 16 and i think about being rebelious all the time!!!! but when i think of the consequences of my actions.. i don't wanna risk it! just remember that!

[carmi96]

oo i c now haha so i gues it is ok 2 think bout this stuff... but yea no worries i will think b4 i acttt...lol n yea im alowed 2 sleepova @ guys houses but we gota b in diff. rooms but my guy friends r gay lol wel not technically but id never think bout doing anything with themm ewwww :P loll

[mony0407]

lolol yaah i know what u mean about guy friends bein gay.. but not GAY lol. thats cool tho my mom would freak if i even asked her if i could stay at a guys house.

[carmi96]

o believe me my mum did @ first lol but my dad wuz ok since he knoes ma guy friends.....

[yeseulx3]

i had ONE co-ed sleepover since this summer... 2 guys and 4 girls, lmao

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

haha well .. i dont think ur parents are being too strict on u, my parents wont even let me spend a night over my best friends and ive known him for 13 years now? ol i spent a night over only 2 times .. and u get to sleep over guy friends house... wooooooooo u got it good.

As for dating , eh i dont think its too bad u gotta wait till ur 16, cuz ur 15 now. Believe me dating when ur boyfriend or u dont have transportation sucks, so just relax........ My parents told me i couldnt date till i was 18? haha .. But i started to have "girlfriends" when iwas in the 5th grade...they eventually cought on when i was 13 and yea that rule doesnt apply to me anymore .. but yea now im holding back on the flirting cuz i dont want to start a relationship b4 i get a car,cuz then the relationship would be *gay* lol ...

Well...im a guy i guess the staying out late part doesnt really matter for me. as long as i get back b4 sunrise haha....

My sister rebels against my parents and yeah its not pretty , dont torture ur parents ;] just obey .. or do what i do, do it but never let ur parents ever ever find out. !!

[conster]

wow. ur parents let u have a bf wen ur 16? Thats pretty lenient. they said i cant have one till 18 or after college during college somewhere there, but who cares haha i went against that

but ur not the only one, im the eldest and im treated like that. its just that they care and tell ur parents that the more they care and tell u to do somethingm that u dont like to do, the more likely u wont listen

[*stephinika*]

okay you say you're even allowed to sleep at your guy friend's houses? lucky! i'm just about 16 and i'd never be allowed. trust me, mine are lot worse than yours in some ways, better in others (like i have a bf right now) but there's plenty of harsh rules. but yeah its normal. i'd go into detail but it would take too long.

[sweetdreamsx3]

You can't have a boyfriend until you're 16? Not too bad. I'm 16 already and my parents still won't let me have a boyfriend. *sneaks out*

Hahaha, and yeah, I'm the baby of the family too, but it don't matter. I can take care of myself most of the time. And you're allowed to sleep over at a guy friend's house? Dude, do you understand the meaning of protective? Because that's not a protective action.

[rainnydaiis]

sometimes parents know best +P
i think tahts about all i can say because my parents dont care if i stay out late and stuff

[Falon]

I don't really think that means that your parents are strict or over-protective... Don't you think that they just want the best for you? Truthfully, I probably WOULD have some issues if my son/daughter went to spend the night at a friend-of-the-opposite-gender's house... It's not that I wouldn't trust him/her, so much as I couldn't live with myself if something happened that I could have prevented by just saying no. I could understand if they were, like, 8, but once those hormones kick in... Wow. I'm a teen, and I know how it can get - sometimes trust just isn't the issue... It's more a worry of 2 teens in a bedroom together for the night, one of whom is my child..... >.<

[sweetdreamsx3]

sometimes parents know best +P
i think tahts about all i can say because my parents dont care if i stay out late and stuff

That's because you're a guy.....

[rainnydaiis]

Yeah guess you got a point....
my sister is same though...

[sweetdreamsx3]

Yeah guess you got a point....
my sister is same though...

That's only for some girls. My mom cares a loooott..

[LiNHy POO]

ha you're lucky you can sleep over a guy's house! i cant even go to sleep overs! my mom has a problem trusting people too. it gets sooo annoying, i always tell her to juss relax and not make big deals out of little things. but she does it anyway. my dad on the other hand is pretty cool. he knows i have kissed guys, and he didnt freak out. whew! he trusts me, but he doesnt trust others like my mom. but its not as big of a problem as with my mom.

[jihae526]

i can't understand when you wite liek diz

[melmigs]

i can't understand when you wite liek diz

Exactly what I was thinking.

[carmi96]

sorri guys lol im just* :P so used 2 typin liek this heheh

[sunissed14127]

ur parents let u sleep over at guys houses?!?!?! omg....ur so lucky! my parents wont let me go to football games by my self, there has 2 b a parent,if i go to the mall i HAVE TO have the phone with me,she wont let me stay untill 12:00 pm skating at the skating rink,i can have a b/f but i cant go on a date until im 16,she wont let me stay alone in the house late at night, and a whole buch of other stufff...