First love situation, gimme some advice! |
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 Sep 16 2004, 10:17 PM
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Now Im not someone that believes in love but in junior high I dated this girl from a completely different town. It was awesome because when I saw her the times meant more but it sucked because I couldnt see her when I wanted. We would date, break up, date, break up, and so on. Finally we decide to give it a break but some of the words said I will never forget. We both know that we own pieces of the others heart. Now that I can drive, Ive asked her to join me going a few places, basically anything I can think of to be around her. The plan is working really well but she doesnt want to go through the long process of dating and breaking up over and over again. Anything I could do to show that I want it more? Ive done everything under the sun.
Ive been keeping it up off and on since the last time we broke up. Its so easy to see there is feelings between us but its really difficult to keep up since we dont see each other that often. Ive had it in my head to just let it go and let things happen as they should. Its hard to do that with your first kiss and love. Its the girl that I will never forget. Why be with anyone else? |
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Sep 16 2004, 11:10 PM
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QUOTE(inFamous06 @ Sep 16 2004, 10:17 PM) Now Im not someone that believes in love but in junior high I dated this girl from a completely different town. It was awesome because when I saw her the times meant more but it sucked because I couldnt see her when I wanted. We would date, break up, date, break up, and so on. Finally we decide to give it a break but some of the words said I will never forget. We both know that we own pieces of the others heart. Now that I can drive, Ive asked her to join me going a few places, basically anything I can think of to be around her. The plan is working really well but she doesnt want to go through the long process of dating and breaking up over and over again. Anything I could do to show that I want it more? Ive done everything under the sun. Ive been keeping it up off and on since the last time we broke up. Its so easy to see there is feelings between us but its really difficult to keep up since we dont see each other that often. Ive had it in my head to just let it go and let things happen as they should. Its hard to do that with your first kiss and love. Its the girl that I will never forget. Why be with anyone else? Heh, that made me cry abit. I know I'm a loser. But moving on, you should let things happen as they should. If she has feelings for you but not, I'm in love with you feelings then thats just how it goes. It's hard to let go of the first person you loved. The first person you wanted to be with forever. But she's not the only girl out there. If she doesn't want that whole 'long process of dating' then maybe she just isn't ready. You have to give her time. I know if I were her. Well, I would be diffrent. She maybe just a bit afraid. You can't always tell what someone is feeling. Give her time, and space, and keep showing her how you feel, and how deeply you care about her. Thats all it takes, and maybe just maybe, something good will come out of it. I'm sorry if what I just said was un-helpful and a waste to read .. but if it wasn't then I'm happy to help. Good Luck. |
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Sep 16 2004, 11:15 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
if your giving it your all, trying everything to make ur relationship fresh, and your girl is still unsatisfied with the relationship...... i dont think its gonna work when u 2 are at different stages of the relationship.
After a few break ups u should know wheter its meant to be or not.... i thought u said u got a car and crap so u can see her more often, but at the end u said u dont see her often? im confoosed |
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Sep 16 2004, 11:46 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
if u've done ur best and she doesnt buy it.. guess its not meant to be
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Sep 18 2004, 11:43 AM
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 Kids.Have.All.The.Fun Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,943 |
QUOTE Its hard to do that with your first kiss and love. Its the girl that I will never forget. Why be with anyone else? Let her know, and if you think she's scared about it not working reasure her that its worth it. remind her of the good times, subtly. and let her know that you will do anything to make it work.. because if you really care about her the way you say, you would. |
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Sep 18 2004, 12:48 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
just keep on trying and keep on talking to her....make her relize that ur willing to try for something better than b4
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Sep 18 2004, 01:44 PM
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My advice is if it didn't work out the first time, or a couple of times for you, most likely it won't work out again.
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