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 Sep 14 2004, 08:18 PM
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SO>.. ya its me...Alice..*sigh*...
so..i liked this guy since the first time i walked into my grade 7 class...n now im in grade 9...lets call him..um.."justin" haha soo not his real name though...n e wayz..at first...( since he was a firty guy)..he talked to the new girl--> ME...but stupid idiotic me often said"ohh..'justin' get a LIFE"..n i onli said it cuz i didn't know how to handle him talking to me..cuz i was nervouse n all..(n btw at that time he had a girlfriend who in my opnion was the prettiest girl in our grade..but there were onli 30 ppl n e wayz)..n eventually he stopped talking to me.. then when we went into grade 8, i wanted to go to this good skewl..with high acidemical scores..but i stayed at a sucky one..for HIM...i know its stupid...but n e ways, during grade 8 i didn't have n e classes with him and never said a word..(he n his girlfriend broke up at the beggining of the year..n he got another gf..but then broke up during the next summer) n NOW we're in grade 9 and i found out that i had social studies with him n i was soo happi...once when in socials, i was walking back to the classroom from getting my pencil crayons..when i saw him walk out from it and said"your late"..i wanted to say smthn but i jus cudn't...its like i froze..( n im a pretty loud person...talk alot)...n today in socials class he came in late n sat beside me, a walkway away...cuz his friends were nearbye..n he borrowed some stuff from me like outliners n whiteout...n im actually suprised he KNOES my NAME...but it wasn;t like he asked me first or n e thing.. he asked alot of ppl before he came to me, even tho i was right next to him... im pretty sure he knoes i like him..since i wrote him love letter emails before...n said who i was on the last one...but..still..i dont think he likes me... so is this hopeless? if it is then i jus wanna be friends..n how do i do that??cuz its soo akward between us.... ohh god i cant take this   
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Sep 14 2004, 10:51 PM
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wow that was a great story by the way. I think you need to make sure he knows. Once you get it out, it feels better I promise. I liked a guy for three years once (one-sided) and once i told, i was rejected but I felt refreshed. Also if you can't say anything and he talks to you, just smile. Everyone finds smiles more attractive. I know you've been waiting so long, but if you can, give it a try to get to know him. And talk about stuff he likes. Sorry that I can't help much but good luck!
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Sep 14 2004, 10:54 PM
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i would think it out.. me i stay up like nights after nights thinking about those kind of stuffs
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Sep 15 2004, 01:22 AM
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QUOTE(rainnydaiis @ Sep 14 2004, 10:54 PM) i would think it out.. me i stay up like nights after nights thinking about those kind of stuffs uh-huh...but did i tell u im a nerd??*nerd pride** ...i WANNA focus on my work but he keeps poppin into my mind.... and i HAVE thought abt it alot..since i had a whole 2 years...but now..im used to NOT talking to the ppl i like n suffering from lonelyness.... ..... and i realize..that no matter how much i like him.. he;s still jus another human being , like everyone else..so i shudn't be freaking out(althought easier said than done)..but when ppl like sm1..in their minds the person are like GODS..which is kinda weird..im mean... THINK abt it...we're ONLY HUMAN... 
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Sep 15 2004, 12:58 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think u should get over him and concentrate on school work, u did it once for givin up a good school for him, dont giv up school for another guy anymore especially the SAmE guy -_-' jus move on and stop thinkin about it.. i knoe easier said than done, but once ur mind and heart decided on one thing, move on from there. for instance, i decided that i wanna become a doctor or something, then u'll wanna take courses that involve medicals.
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Sep 16 2004, 08:38 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
mayb u should try talking to him and become friends and see wat happens from then on
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