Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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 Mar 16 2004, 09:13 PM
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 and so it is  Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085  |
QUOTE(xxaloha_oexx @ Mar 16 2004, 8:58 PM) isn't that kinda early to be having sex?  whelp. i don't think you shood have it till after marraige, cuz then if you get pregnant or something...EEK!Yea, i think it's even illegal if u have sex w/ somebody under the age of 18 and ur over 18 years old....? Some people are blaming this on the school's teachings though. Lots of kids don't use protection when they have sex because the school teaches kids abstidence and don't teach them bout STDs and stuffz. Apparently 50% of people 15-20 have STD or sumthing like that. *gulps* That's scary...! |
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| *NatiMarie* |
Mar 16 2004, 10:13 PM
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I don't really think it's the school's fault...I mostly think it's the parent's fault. Most parents dont' really what their kids do and don't teach them the right ways. Like me, my mom has taught me stuff like that...well not really but she has taught me to have good morals and I have derived those morals from her teachings. It sucks how the blame goes to the school but then once again, it's the parent's fault. Hehe...but that's my opinion. I've been brought up to respect my body and not do stupid things so yeah, props to my parents
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Mar 16 2004, 10:46 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
if you have strong feelings for someone and decide to have sexual intercourse before marriage i think it's perfectly fine. it's a beautiful thing when shared with someone you love very much. sometimes watiing for marriage has it's consequences.. to be blunt .. what if the person you marry absolutely sucks in bed? there'd be one very unhappy camper..agreed? lol ;]
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| *krnxswat* |
Mar 16 2004, 10:54 PM
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QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ Mar 16 2004, 10:46 PM) what if the person you marry absolutely sucks in bed? there'd be one very unhappy camper..agreed? lol ;] You don't marry someone because they are good in bed. I know that's not what you are saying, but as for myself, I wouldn't really mind if my partner "sucked" in bed. Frankly, I'd prefer if it was her first time, too. But that's just me.. 
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| *NatiMarie* |
Mar 16 2004, 11:01 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 16 2004, 7:54 PM) You don't marry someone because they are good in bed. I know that's not what you are saying, but as for myself, I wouldn't really mind if my partner "sucked" in bed. Frankly, I'd prefer if it was her first time, too. But that's just me.. Ahh..that's so sweet. That's how all guys should think , in my opinion.
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Mar 17 2004, 12:15 AM
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he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 16 2004, 10:54 PM) You don't marry someone because they are good in bed. I know that's not what you are saying, but as for myself, I wouldn't really mind if my partner "sucked" in bed. Frankly, I'd prefer if it was her first time, too. But that's just me.. awww hehe i think that's very sweet .. and true, if anything it can be worked upon after marriage .. and yes it would be much more meaningful if you know you were their first and ONE AND ONLY =] .. |
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Mar 17 2004, 12:23 AM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
i voted that it's okay but that's really a personal thing. i lost my virginity when i was 14. i COMPLETELY respect those who wait till they're married. if i had to do it over that's what i'd do. all sex brings is complications. lol.
those who practice abstinence are very strong-willed people that i look up to. i don't look down on those who aren't virgins. and i don't look down on those who are. i'm really kind of neutral on this...
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Mar 17 2004, 04:12 PM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
QUOTE(arimalka_star @ Mar 17 2004, 4:07 PM) 14..wow..thats young.. ur tellin me...   my older brother died when i was 14 and i was really upset and kind of went a little...well...---> and i had sex cuz i thought it'd make me feel better. if i had to do it over i wouldn't have done it but...you shouldn't dwell on the past.
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Mar 17 2004, 04:55 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Mar 8 2004, 10:49 AM) I had been having sex since I was 16 and I've recently decided to become a born again virgin because the bible says that that is God's intention. Sex is God's gift and it is not meant to be used until you find that perfect partner and after you are married. So I say, no, premarital sex is not ok. And I think two people can be even more intimate and more trusting of each other if they hold off on sex. Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong. how the heck do you become a born again virgin? not to flame you or anything cause I would never do things like that, but I just wanna know.
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Mar 17 2004, 05:57 PM
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QUOTE(retro_balla @ Mar 17 2004, 9:55 PM) how the heck do you become a born again virgin? not to flame you or anything cause I would never do things like that, but I just wanna know. well, she's obviously gone through the consequences and decided that she doesn't want to have sex again before marriage. she didn't mean it literally |
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| *krnxswat* |
Mar 17 2004, 07:50 PM
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QUOTE(chelle @ Mar 17 2004, 4:12 PM) my older brother died when i was 14 and i was really upset and kind of went a little...well...---> and i had sex cuz i thought it'd make me feel better. if i had to do it over i wouldn't have done it but...you shouldn't dwell on the past.There were many other options as well.. but yeah, you shouldn't dwell on the past. |
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| *Kathleen* |
Mar 17 2004, 08:16 PM
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Hmm...I said yeah, but I feel that a person should really think about what their doing before they make their final decision on it. As for me, I'm still a virgin, and I'm just waiting for "the one" if there is such a person...and yeah...it really comes down to the person. A lot of people aren't mature until their actually married and are ready for it, but there are people that can handle this and know/understand the consequences they'd face in doing so. Like I said, it really depends on the person...I dunno that's my opinion, at least.
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Mar 17 2004, 08:45 PM
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I say it is wrong because a lot of time when premarital sex occurs without the proper protection something totally unexpected thing happens. something you may not want to happen. You may not be ready. When you are married you should know you are ready. You shouldn't be doing something that you know will cause something you would not know how to handle. So i say premarital sex is a no no.
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Mar 17 2004, 08:58 PM
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 ..Michelle Group: Member Posts: 1,002 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,282 |
I don't know.. I guess it depends on the person's situation. There are a ton of feelings that come along with having sex.. but I'm not sure if I'd be able to marry someone I have never been that close to.
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Mar 17 2004, 09:07 PM
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he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
it's easier said than done .. i have to admit when i was younger i'd constantly say i wanted to save it for the man i marry. however the temptation is very hard to overcome at times .. when you have strong feelings for someone you've been dating for a very long time it can just happen .. and i feel it's perfectly okay .. as long as you don't throw yourself around to everybody it isn't bad and it's a special and wonderful thing to share with someone you really care about ..
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| *NatiMarie* |
Mar 17 2004, 11:38 PM
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I know...it's hard to resist temptations but then I still want to be strong and resist them. Just trying to find that special guy is what I'm waiting for...
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Mar 17 2004, 11:46 PM
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i say no
if the person loves u enough, he/she would have the patience to wait until marriage... only then will you TRULY know he/she will wait the time for you and also cuz u dunno if they have any STDs or anything... just make the right choice of partner and be careful with your choices.... i mean, if anyone decides to do it.... |
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Mar 18 2004, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 16 2004, 9:54 PM) You don't marry someone because they are good in bed. I know that's not what you are saying, but as for myself, I wouldn't really mind if my partner "sucked" in bed. Frankly, I'd prefer if it was her first time, too. But that's just me.. aww i agree |
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Mar 18 2004, 05:21 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
im christion...but it still sorta depends to me.
you jjust gotta ask... is it love? I would do it if I was in love, before or after marrige. But dont forget guys, SAFE SEX ;] |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Mar 18 2004, 05:32 PM
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What age do you think it's too young to have sex? (and don't say until the age you're married=\)
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Mar 18 2004, 05:37 PM
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rookie Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,291 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Mar 18 2004, 10:32 PM) What age do you think it's too young to have sex? (and don't say until the age you're married=\) age of sexual consent in england is 16. In the States, it varies from about 16 to about 18 depending on the state. that's the law, so I guess you stick with it unless you want to break it |
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Mar 18 2004, 07:03 PM
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and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
QUOTE(NaTiMaRiE @ Mar 17 2004, 11:38 PM) I know...it's hard to resist temptations but then I still want to be strong and resist them. Just trying to find that special guy is what I'm waiting for... exactly how i feel... |
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Mar 18 2004, 11:09 PM
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 *wow* Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,173 |
well people really shouldent.. but since people still are gunna. and u cant help it, i guess people think it is ok to do it.. but rilly it aint. and then ur stuck wiff a kid when ur onlee 15 or 17... now how are u gunna pay for dat ?
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Mar 19 2004, 02:17 AM
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QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Mar 18 2004, 2:32 PM) What age do you think it's too young to have sex? (and don't say until the age you're married=\) probably when your old enough to face the possible consequences.... |
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Mar 21 2004, 07:18 PM
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 Spaz Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,376 |
wow what a hot hot hot topic. lol. neways. i think that its a personal decision, and some ppl rush into it. it should not be taken lighty, but i dun think that waiting till mariaage is always the best idea
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