wen ur parents put a restiction on u and u do it.., u think they know?? |
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 Sep 10 2004, 08:56 PM
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 lke wen they say u kant haf a boyfriends until ur outof high school or someting...and u get 1 wen ur 12...u think they know???or wen they say u kant buy something and u do...do they know?? i mean y do they say stuff if they know your gonna do it... |
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Sep 10 2004, 09:03 PM
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 you are bizarre. Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,225 |
yeah when my parents do crap like that i'm like wow you guys are dumb because you just put the idea of something fun to do, and it's more fun, since now it's "dangerous" and plus woo hoo i get to piss you guys off if you catch me! parents are so out of it.
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Sep 10 2004, 09:20 PM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
I had a boyfriend when I was 12 and they didnt care. they knew I wasnt doing anything bad. I dont see why some parents get all cautious about letting their kids have bfs/gfs
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Sep 10 2004, 09:50 PM
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 Beautiful Disaster. Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,022 |
my parents are like that. and yea i dont get why they say stuff like that when they know ur gonna do it. haha its funny just to make em mad. but seriously my parents are way overprotective so i just do it even tho they say not to. cuz my parents dont even let me do the littlest things. its ridiculous.
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Sep 11 2004, 12:04 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
hmm, well, even though my parents said i couldn't have a boyfriend, i got one anyway. they found out about him when i would constantly talk about him and hang out with him.
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Sep 11 2004, 12:08 AM
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mm yeah i know what you mean. parents are weird. they have no sense i swear...=p
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Sep 11 2004, 08:01 PM
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 name is candice my. Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,904 |
well usually when they tell you not to do it they expect you not to..if they dont set a boundary then they think its okay for their kids to do it so they do..and its basically they're way of teaching you their beliefs on what not to do, and what to do, and they're consequences.
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Sep 16 2004, 09:23 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
lols yehh my parent's *my mom* sed tha i couldn't haf a b/f til' when i'm like 17..-______-" she knows tha i'ma do it neways..so why bother? lols =]
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Sep 16 2004, 09:33 AM
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yea im not allowed to date but ive been datin since i waz 12... mah 1st boifrien used to com by mah hosue a lot sho one night, they invited him to dinner >.< mah mom figured we lyked each other.... but she didnt kno we were datin haha. mah boifrien's parents might hav teh idea we're datin, we talk on teh phone for half teh day everyday... idk... mah parents are dense...
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Sep 16 2004, 09:43 AM
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i don't think my parents care, my mom sorta knos that i hav a bf right now
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Sep 16 2004, 09:44 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Technically, not until I'm 18.
But what they don't know can't hurt them, right? |
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Sep 16 2004, 12:14 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
yea i liked ur first example too,cuz i basically did that but younger age ~_~ . anyways i do alot of things that they never found out about...
rules of rebellion .. if ur gonna do something, never ever let ur parents catch u or find out. |
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Sep 16 2004, 01:03 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i guess parents are hoping we listen to them? my parents dont knoe i broke the restrictions until much later lols by then they cant do much about it, like i bought the clothes they didnt want me to buy already, i had a bf already. what can they do now? lols but i guess tehy just care
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Sep 19 2004, 08:16 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
my parents know hardly anything about me...i'm suprised they know my name
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Sep 19 2004, 08:21 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
My parents won't lemme have a boyfriend till colllege lol .. ihad like. one. already
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May 25 2007, 11:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,982 |
lmao my mom wont let me have a boyfriend til im 25 lmao
and she told me not to like anyone yet and stuff but im alredy crushing on someone =) hes a total hottieeeee<3 |
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May 25 2007, 01:04 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
My parents dont really care If I have a boyfriend because they know I dont get too serious with them.
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May 25 2007, 04:17 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
My parents dont really say I cant do anything becuase they know if they said no its going to make me want to do it. They just gave up. Although they have some restrictions but not many. Also they dont care if I have a boyfriend because they think I wont do anything like having sex with him
 Btw you type weird (kant wtf? why dont you just type cant) |
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May 25 2007, 06:06 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i'm not supposed to have a boyfriend because my parents don't really like me dating this early, but i have one anyways and i try to hint to my MOTHER that i have one, but i don't think neither one of my parents know. :x
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May 25 2007, 07:10 PM
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 november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
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May 25 2007, 07:40 PM
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Man my parent's threat to disown me if i wear my sisters clothes. They found me in the bathroom with a pair of panty hoes!
^Cheech & Chong for those who have the inability to detect sarcasm :D And man, a couple of those posts were hard to read due to the purpose misspelling of 50% of their words. But anyways to contribute to the post. Girls have it way worse than guys it would seem :D Also I've seen cases where the people who are more social/active get the restriction, while as the people who always are polite to their parents and do everything they say tend to not receive the restrictions. |
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May 25 2007, 08:11 PM
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Hah, oddly enough its kinda the other way around here.
My mum's still pretty young (34), & she's still doing the whole dating thing. So she understands what its like... in a way I think she almost wanted me to have a BF young, just so I know what its like and all. She knows I wont stuff up and go far... cause its the way she raised me. & in a way I think she just wants someone to reflect with :P Shes a social worker.. so yeah. Odd. I dont think I got my BF the way she intended though :) ahah. QUOTE Also I've seen cases where the people who are more social/active get the restriction, while as the people who always are polite to their parents and do everything they say tend to not receive the restrictions. I'd say thats usually very much the case 
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May 25 2007, 09:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
"parents just dont understand"
i was a horrible pre-teen.... i never really listened to my parents, and when i didnt i'd always get into arguments b/c they never trusted me [not even give me a chance]; i finally let into my mom [about having a boyfriend] when she never really wanted me to have one... she was fine, but my dad still doesnt know and doesnt want me to have one .. and im 16 ha 
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May 25 2007, 09:49 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
QUOTE(1azn_kutee @ Sep 10 2004, 08:56 PM)  lke wen they say u kant haf a boyfriends until ur outof high school or someting...and u get 1 wen ur 12...u think they know???or wen they say u kant buy something and u do...do they know?? i mean y do they say stuff if they know your gonna do it... your writing bothers me.... yeah. i have restrictions but ill be damned if i follow them... no, but really, my dad is okay with things now. |
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