would u date someone who lived far away?, neeeed help. |
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 Sep 9 2004, 04:22 PM
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 i take advantage of cute boys  Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,128  |
ohkay:
I'm kinda new to Createblog as a member and I've never posted a topic..but I recently met this nice boy @ Brown Summer Program and we hooked up. We talked for weeks and he just came to visit me last Friday. The thing is, he lives in Cape Cod, MA and I live in Philly, PA. We both are reeeallly into eachother. We also want to take our relationship further (bf/gf thing) but we are worried about the distance. A little fact..he lives about 8 hours driving distance from me. Is it worth it? I really like this kid and I'm sure he feels the same way! Advice please! thanks, guys! 
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Sep 9 2004, 04:23 PM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
If you feel your ready then go for it!
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Sep 9 2004, 04:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
its up to you if you want to go with the ldr (long distance relationship), some things to take in mind when youre making your desicion.
-do you really trust this person? -have you ever met this person like face to face? ( never know if he could be lying to you) |
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Sep 9 2004, 07:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,133 |
i have no problem with online dating... its just like regular dating. just make sure u exchange pix so u know ur not going out with some ugly guy or girl
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Sep 9 2004, 07:34 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
just go with your intentions.
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Sep 9 2004, 07:35 PM
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i take advantage of cute boys Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,128 |
hahah..nah guys...
It's not online dating. I met the guy. We met @ Brown University's Summer Program. He was a soccer player there and I was studying psychology. We hooked up there and now we talk all time @ Home. i saw him this past friday cause he flew down to see me. No online dating for me right now.
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Sep 9 2004, 08:56 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
well if u have trust,patience, and the hots for him and he likes u back, i dont see why not... 8 hour drive is a long way, and another 8 hour back is a pain haha, if u guys have some kind of plan on how to work it, i say go for it ;]
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Sep 9 2004, 09:07 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Sep 9 2004, 8:56 PM) well if u have trust,patience, and the hots for him and he likes u back, i dont see why not... 8 hour drive is a long way, and another 8 hour back is a pain haha, if u guys have some kind of plan on how to work it, i say go for it ;] yup, it all depends on how both of u look at it and how u feel |
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Sep 9 2004, 10:49 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, if you trust him, i suggest you go for it.
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Sep 9 2004, 11:13 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I agree, it all depends on TRUST. And most of all, if you and the person you like really want to be together, you both would try hard to stay true to each other and wouldn't let distance come between yo two. Maybe like every summer, visit each other or something
And plus, you two aren't even that far! OMG there are people who date others who live like far across the nation. So don't fret 
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Sep 10 2004, 12:10 AM
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 mmm hmmm Group: Member Posts: 1,591 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,325 |
omgoodness, long distance relationships can be really rewarding. Maybe not as rewarding physically (can hold hands and what not) but it can definitely take you to a new level of emotional bliss. I would definitely go for it!!!
follow your heart |
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Sep 10 2004, 02:36 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
no offense but LONG DISTANCED RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK. ever. never. and wont. you and him should stay friends, keep in touch but dont date him not while you two both live far away. it's not the same as if he lived closer. i'm telling you because i dont want you to get hurt if he doesnt call you and stuff, but i think you should stay friends, maybe friends with benefits but beware of that too...the best thing i want to tell you is that if you had long distance relationships it wont fulfill the relationship of ya'lls needs. but just do what you think is right.
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Sep 10 2004, 03:17 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i think you have to ask urself do u trust him and do you trust yourself.. like with the long distance.. consider if you two would get tempted or anything.. also you dont want to be like the ones that end up like worrying and suspecting each other for cheating and stuff... personally i dink that long distance relationships dont usually work..
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Sep 10 2004, 03:52 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
MMm yeah.. I believe in LONG DISTANCE relationships.
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