how would u react (pregnant) Under Age, if u were a boy / girl Options

[*RiC3xBoy*]

be a man and take responsibilty.....

[angel-roh]

i would highly recommend that i tell my parents rather than not telling them cause then in the future later, something worse will appear into your lives and you will not like it...dun dun dun

[someflipguy]

Learning from my past experiences, I would probably be in denile first! Then face up to the reality that I have to be a good dad and take care of my child! If she didn't want the child I would support her also! It doesn't matter to me...I have matured and now I know how to deal with some problems without taking the easy way out.

[Angelos]

man that almost happened to me once and i freak it was like i saw my dreams crumble in front of my eyes... i never wanted to kill myself but i did not wanna take responsiblity..but i decided that i would have to own up to what happened and face it like a man...but she told me that like it came up false and me and my girlfriend went to the doctor to make sure and it was cool so i learned from that experience

[JasonAkAWolf]

I agree with RiC3xBoy you should just be a man..

[PerFectLie_YouNe...]

my friend dealt w/ a pregnancy, but she was young and her body wuznt ready 4 a baby n she lost it. n if i ever found out i wuz pregnant, i would probably cry and then say it'll be alright becuz thatz all u can do.. what happens happens n u cant change it. n i only believe in abortions if; you got raped and it ruined your life, and the baby is like a sign of that.. i dont know this is a hard subject

[jUz_cAnDy]

i think i'd probably tell my parents and hope that they wont kick me out of the house or worse.. kill me

[SteveObscure]

Old enough to have sex, old enough to take care of the child. Simple as that!

[whywasisostupid]

i would cry my eyes out but then tuff it out and handle it.

[ohBrian]

man theyre a hoe..

[x0143637x0]

ill take the responsibilty. but im gonna search for some help first and support. suicide is just stupid

[Looow]

I'd cry & cry and cry. If i couldn't raise it or had the money I would put it for adoption and still visit it. I would never ever have an abortion.

[mouse_3k]

This isnt on the list but I would throw myself down the stairs -_-

[x_hiccupy_x]

This isnt on the list but I would throw myself down the stairs -_-

that reminds me "riding in cars with boys" starring drew barrymore.

i`d have the baby, and give it up for open adoption and hopefully still be able to see the baby whenever i can and be there for him or her even though legally, im not the mother anymore.

[Jayden84]

i'd support my gf and help her in anyway i can.. i'd take responsiblity and do my best to provide a good life for her and the baby

[sweetdreamsx3]

I would tell my parents... and wait... actually, if this were back when I was with my bf, and "in love" i would probably tell them, and then like move in with him...

Now, I would just get an abortion... [and i don't care what you pro-life people have to say]

Eh, it's the truth. Most people would probably give it up for adoption or keep it. For me, I don't know yet. Haven't thought that deeply into it. At least you're truthful instead of some people that might lie like keeping it.

I'll probably keep it in secret for a while and then eventually have to fess up.

[LittleLulu]

ok even thought im gona save myself for marriage.. ..IF that ever happened..i'd have to be with mah future boyfriend..n..honestly i wud jus go to the doc to get rid of it..n of course i wud tell my parents..cuz im NOT gona have a baby ruin my life..**NERD PRIDE**...n i doubt smthn like that in gona happen n e wayz..i HAVE SELF CONTROLL..n it can over powere the horomones

[*thesweetescape*]

This is a hard subject but I guess I would probably keep it because we all make mistakes and learn from them but we also have to take care of our responsiblities. I definatley wouldn't get an abortion but I would either keep it or give it up for adoption.

[ichiban]

Eh. I'd kill myself. -_-

[whtevergoaway]

if that happened..
1) if i told my parents..dey'd probobly litterally..yes i mean LITERALLY kill me
2) if i ran away..i have NO money whatsoever...i'd end up dieing of starvation

so i'd end up killing myself eitehr way

[177emories]

How come all the guys are negative.. if i found out i would live up to my responsabilaty

yeah why is it all so negative, maybe people have they baby cause they wnate dto. and whats underage? whats considered an age to ahve babies? anyways i'd have it and take care of it, what else?.. ehhh don't need to think about these kinda stuff!

[vivieeeen]

i would smile and wait patiently for 9 frigg'n months







then worry

no.. honestly! if you're old enough to have sex with people without birth controls... you're definately ready for an infant (excluding rape cases)

[inlonelinessidie]

Old enough to have sex, old enough to take care of the child. Simple as that!

Exactly.

If it happened to me, I would tell my parents and keep the baby. It's my fault I fell in love and did it. Can't blame the child for that. Now if my father doesn't kill me or kick me out, I'd still have a place to sleep. Either way I know my mom wouldn't let my dad kick me out; now that I think about it . . . don't think he would do such a thing. He'd just yell A LOT. As for school, I am blessed to go to a school that allows you to take your kids there. So if it happened to me, it would be a joyous occasion after all.


Sad to see how many people would want to kill themselves or abort in such drastic matters. Also no offense or anything, and yes I am pro-choice, but I think it is very cowardly for a guy to tell his girl to get an abortion. That should be that girl’s decision and I think she should bring it up. You had sex and now you have a baby. Well too bad, so sad live up to your responsibilities. You could've prevented this but you chose not to.

[*mSz_dOrk_anGeL*]

I think I'm the only one who said kill themselves. Or maybe I would run. Anywhoo, you can't keep it a secrect for long. Read 'Girls in Trouble' by Caroline Leavitt. Great book.

And what do you mean if your old enough to have sex your old enough to raise a child? What if you were raped. Huh? Have you ever been there?! I don't think so.. and besides when is old enough?

Okay I think I should stop before I freak out ..

[jihae526]

a girl at my school is pregnant right now, and shes fine. shes accepted the fact that shes going to have the baby and her parents are now okay with it. shes now 4 months pregnant and the idiot who knocked her up won't take the baby. but i'm glad shes happy about it.