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 Sep 8 2004, 06:58 PM
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I won't make this long like the other post, I promise!
Keith (my ex-boyfriend) and I are talking again. We broke up in early July. He broke up with me because he thought I was cheating on him. Yes, I was hanging out with my male friend, but he was giving me a ride to work and such when my truck was in the shop. Keith still hadn't fixed his car so he couldn't help me out. He's the one guy I think I was truly falling for and I think I still am. I have so many feelings for him, it's unbelievable. We started talking a few weeks ago, just as friends. But from the way things are going in his life, it seems like maybe he regrets breaking up with me. He hasn't dated or even talked to another girl since we broke up. All he does is work five days a week and on his days off he's with his friends (Cory or Joe) or he's at his mom's house. He drinks occasionally, but that's gone down ever since we started dating. Before we went out, he went out and partied at least three-four times a week. Now he's lucky if he gets out once a week. When we were together, he usually chose to hang out with me or talk to me over his friends. We're friends NOW and he's still doing it. I just feel like maybe we can work things out. I know everyone says don't go out with your ex's again, it's only trouble. But I think it might be different this time. I just wanted some outside opinions on this. I'll check back tomorrow before I go to work. Thanks! <3 Alanna |
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Sep 8 2004, 07:07 PM
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QUOTE(lilanglbaby418 @ Sep 8 2004, 7:58 PM) or even talked to another girl since we broke up. he's lying um yeah things don't "usually" work out the second time, so just move on and try not to think about it. you two could still be friends and all but its up to you |
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Sep 8 2004, 07:33 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
go for it
you wont know unless you do it. |
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Sep 8 2004, 08:12 PM
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Well if you really like him then go for him... The last thing you want on your mind is a bunch of "what if" questions... So go for it. IF you want big rewards, you gotta take big risks
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Sep 8 2004, 08:32 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Well.
If he likes you enough still, and you like him enough still.. why not. I say go for it. |
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Sep 8 2004, 08:35 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
if u both still feel somtin for each other then yea u should start dating again
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Sep 8 2004, 08:54 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i agree- go for it.
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Sep 8 2004, 09:40 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
QUOTE(aznriceboi @ Sep 8 2004, 7:07 PM) he's lying um yeah things don't "usually" work out the second time, so just move on and try not to think about it. you two could still be friends and all but its up to you hes rite... but also it wont hurt to try |
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Sep 8 2004, 10:10 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
but i think... like the reason he broke up wit u was cuz he thought u were cheating on him rite? so he probably knos the truth now and regrets for blaming something on u that u didnt do... maybe he still feels the same way but couldnt take it wen he thinks ur cheating on him, i think its worth a try of the reason u broke up in the first place is being solved now.
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Sep 8 2004, 11:34 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe... Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234 |
i think u should try and give it another chance! it might be different this time! wen my ex broke up with me...i still liked him. and i could tell he still liked me! we talked all the time....and he asked me out a lot. i felt i should give him another chance....and we promised each other that we would try and make it work this time. so we're back 2gether! my frenz told me not 2 go back out with him....but i did anywayz. if they're ur true frenz the'll support u no matter wat. do watever ur heart tells u!!
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