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 Sep 7 2004, 09:26 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss  Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748  |
okie me n my b/f have be together for about 2 yr we meet in the same skool... frsheman yr in h.s we're now gonan be juniors n hes transfering =( to another skool so the relationship turned log distance... n he keeps tlkin bout how hes so glad to be goin to this other skool.. its liek wtf hes so glad to levein me... =( our skool suks ass but its like it didn kross his mind tat if he transfers hell be levein me.. i kno it probably did but i had the chance 2 transfer n i stayed jus 4 him n now he goes n leve me im jus relly hurt its like wtf... =(
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Sep 7 2004, 09:28 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Aww, its time to end it all.
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Sep 7 2004, 09:34 PM
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 Anime!! O.o Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,624 |
if hes like that.. then he really doesnt deserve your heart then.. heh. if it was me as the bf.. id be complaining like a *beep* and you wouldnt miss me one bit.. cause your gonna hear me cussing all the way to school every morning. but other than that. im sorry i have no advice. :(
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Sep 7 2004, 10:39 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
did u talk to him about it? sometimes guys are a lil inconsiderate about these dings.. so talk to him first .. mayb he honestly jus didnt really think it would matter.. tell him how u feel ... many guys dont noe until you tell them so .. tell...
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Sep 8 2004, 07:02 AM
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Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
how like wat shud i tell him
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Sep 8 2004, 07:40 AM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
i dont know what you should tell him but ask him what the real question is that you want to ask him...like "do you really want to leave me?" or some where around those borders...so that's cool...but i dont know...and i'm not sure what to tell you but that's something i might do...
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Sep 8 2004, 09:51 AM
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 I hate my username... Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,634 |
okay, you can always visit him after school? if you really want to see him. you can always call eachother? talk online? go through webcam to see? he has to do whats best for him.
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Sep 8 2004, 01:05 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,545 |
get over it. if things were meant to be it will work out. if not, move on.
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Sep 8 2004, 10:18 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
ok there are 2 ways to look at it.. 1 is that ur bf never thought about leaving u so the thought of leaving u behind in another school never came across cuz he thought u guys can last whether ur in diff schools or diff states. 2 is that he got over u. WHat do u tell him u ask? tell him what u told us thats the best
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Sep 9 2004, 07:22 AM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
What a jerk..
Kick him.. it will feel better, i promise =] |
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Sep 9 2004, 01:50 PM
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 Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
aww that sucks but you should really talk to him....tell him how you feel about this all....It might help out...
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Sep 9 2004, 02:42 PM
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 ohBrian Group: Member Posts: 556 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,625 |
that sucks.... but i could u one thing.... LIFE IS NOT PERFECT -.-
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Sep 9 2004, 05:08 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Err.
Talk to him about it, I guess.. or just end it. |
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Sep 9 2004, 07:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
talk to him about it, is he still able to not transfer? if so..will he?
 
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Sep 10 2004, 06:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
hey try not to worry about it, guys say a lot of things without thinking and he's probably not even aware he hurt you. guys aren't like girls, they don't really overthink about what they said or what a week ago or whatever. just let him know you were hurt and it'll all be good.
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Sep 10 2004, 07:59 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
damn that sucks, well either hes really happy, inconsiderate, or he believes ur relationship can handle it he doesnt even have to think about it ;]
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Sep 10 2004, 08:46 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
don't worry, long distance relationships aren't as bad as they come out to be. he's transferring to a school in the same town, right? that's really not as bad as it seems.
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Sep 11 2004, 12:02 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Yeah I know ... I sometimes feel like that (I mean, with different situations) ... Maybe you should talk to him about it .. like .. try saying, what're u gonna miss most? i dunno lol
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Sep 11 2004, 12:21 AM
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 Ruler of all monkeys. Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,022 |
u love him correct? and he loves u correct? then y are u hiding your concerns about your relationship? if he really, truly cares for you, he won't get angry when u bring it up. if the's the one for u, he'll try to console and show u that u do mean the world to him. simple as that.
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Sep 11 2004, 12:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(rushx @ Sep 11 2004, 12:21 AM) u love him correct? and he loves u correct? then y are u hiding your concerns about your relationship? if he really, truly cares for you, he won't get angry when u bring it up. if the's the one for u, he'll try to console and show u that u do mean the world to him. simple as that. Yeah, I agree to that. If you guys really love each other, you both shouldn't get angry or something for bringing this subject up. Communication is part of relationship. TALK! |
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