problem with my guyfriend, how can i make him happy? Options

[mellyshelly]

Ok. John is the name of my guyfriend. We've been friends since the beginning of last year, which is when I started liking him. Throughout all of last year, he considered us as good friends, so I did too. He would talk to me on the bus (he's in a grade higher than me), IM me as soon as I got on AIM, but all that changed this year.

This summer, he went back to his birthplace and got a girlfriend. He told us she was sooo cute, pretty, fun and the whole package. Then when he came back to America, he no longer IMed me, then a few days later, they broke up. I think he was pretty depressed for a while.

It was his birthday on the 31st. So I decided to buy him a present. I ended up spending twenty dollars, which is, alot in my opinion, since I am only in Middle School and have no jobs.
When i told him about the present, he said he was too embarrassed to receive any presents. I understood, because, well, he is a guy, and guys think strangely.. lol.

But then on the day of his birthday, I overheard that Helen, another one of his friends, gave him a teddy bear and he accepted it, this other girl, Jenny, gave him a book she made, and he accepted it too.
Well, of course, I got pretty mad when I heard about this; I was thinking, "Why did he accept their gifts and not mine?"

I IMed him on AIM, told him about what I found out, here's part of the actual convo I had with him.

Him:im rely sry
Me:its ok.. i mean.. jenny and helen is pretty.. it all works out kay?
as you can see.. I was pretty p*ssed here..
Him:no
Him:just tat i tink its kinda mean
Him:tat i didnt accept ur gift
Him:its lke i tink its not good enough for me
Him:i so sry
Me:i spent twenty bucks on a linkin park CD n a llinkin park poster
He is seriously obsessed with linkin park.. he loves it so much..
Him:omg
Him:[/b[im soooooooo sry
[b]Him:i cant belive
Him:tat
Him:omg
Him:im rely sory
Me:o well u thought my presnet wasnt good enuff so..
Him:no
Him:tat is wat i would tink if i was u
Him:but i didnt tink tat
Him:i was tinkin tat
Him:lke acceptin gifts was for family
uh.. you took it from jenny and helen..
Him:not frnds
Him:so im sry
Him:rely
Him:can u lke forgiv me?
Me:[/b}im over it
haha.. this is what ashlee simpson said when she was mad at ryan..lol im such a dork
[b]Him:im rely sry
Him:maybe u can come to lke linkin park
Me:no
Him:o
haha..'o'
Him:then im even more sry
Him:i cant blieve i did tis to u

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Do you think it was kind of mean of me to not forgive him? Usually, I'm a pretty nice person, I dont like making people feel bad.

The next day, after waiting for him to IM me for about two hours, I finally IMed him and he was being all grouchy like i don kar wat u think or ok..wtv or i will be in depression if i dun get out of this schoo or if ur confused.. then how do u think i feel?
I think it was maybe he showed more feelings than he wanted to at the previous convo I had with him.
I had a few words with him as he was getting off the bus, he didnt look at me when I talked.

This is really bugging me, comments? Ideas on how I can get him to be my friend again? I dont really care for the crush I have for him, I just want him to be happy, and he obviously is not right now.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I don't really know what to say to it...If he was really "sorry", wouldn't he like...want the gift again or something? *shrugs* Ack. I hate guys like that. I would go up to him and knee him. >.<

He might still be sad about his girlfriend and maybe he knows you're trying to move in??? *shrugs* I don't really know, but just give him some time. Until he doesnt get so much depressed and hopefully, things would work out...G'luck.

[Looow]

hmm

[MeanBastard]

Give him some handjobs and blowjobs to make him hapy.

[pikimoo]

Well.. did he know that you ahd already bought him something? Maybe he just didn't want you spending too much money on him.. I know I don't like to accept expensive gifts. It makes me feel bad because they spent so much money on me. But then again, it makes me feel good because they care. So I accept the gift anyways.

Or he's an @$$ who can't type worth 5H!7.

[conster]

tell him exactly what u jus told us right now, truth and honesty is the best

[inthemudhole]

Yeah. I agree with conster.
Tell him what you just told us. =D

[Jayembe]

You need to talk it out even if he ignores u or doesn't listen just tell him how u feel and wat u told us and he should understand if not then i don't no wat to say move on i guess but plz do 1 thing don't forgive him until he hears wat u r goin through and how u feel

[silver-rain]

yeah, i think you should tell him everyone you've told us. try to work through this.

[lilxroxy]

he`s a bastard....ignore him.......same case with me...buh after i ignored him, he came up to be and started to say apologies and even talked to me over the school mic [got him in detention agn...buh whatever..i had a good laugh, and we`re freinds again :] ]

[slurp]

tell him exactly what u jus told us right now, truth and honesty is the best

yeah i agree

[xox Qt LuVZ xox]

That sounded sorta mean of him... But I agree, tell him what you told us. Maybe it's just the right time to tell him you like him?

[DavidxN]

Give him some handjobs and blowjobs to make him hapy.

haha if u do that he'll be yours til like senior year in high school

[picaso_smile]

Give him some handjobs and blowjobs to make him hapy.

LOL! LMAO!

[betrayedbytheduc...]

calm him down i guess? if you really want your friendship with him back then apologize to him..(even though you're the one who deserves the apology).

[mellyshelly]

haha if u do that he'll be yours til like senior year in high school

LOL!! haha.. u really think so? ;) jk.. im not like that.

[aznsorpor]

try to talk to him.. again.. no matter how he gave u an attitude... like try one or two more times to talk to him.. tell him how u feel and what u felt .. cuz it seems like he didnt realli get the point of why u would be mad.. i would be mad too .. so dont feel bad.. its jus sometimes when u have a crush on someone.. and they treat u like that.. it makes u act irregularly.. talk to him again.. hope that he's understanding and will listen to what u have to say...

[sxygrl4u159]

talk to him, dont give him the gifts, return the gifts, and maybe be friends still who knows.. you're only in middle school so this shouldnt be such a big deal.

[Rice_on_my_shoe]

You're friend sounds bi-polar that can't spell for beans. i dunno maybe he's embrassed that you're still in Middle school. And his friends were probably laughing at him that he invited someone younger. Maybe that's why He didn't accept your gift afraid it was some baby gift (not that It is) If he's Jack arse Get another Guyfriend.