wut do i do?, im so frustrated.. |
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 Aug 25 2004, 11:29 PM
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ok.. the last school year.. i had science with this dude and we had a lot in common.. but then they change my schedule.. and i dont see him for a long time.. i always stay for a bit in my science teacher's room with my cousin.. and wait until he goes home so we can go home bcuz we hav absolutely nothing to do.. and he met up with me everyday after school and gave me a hug without asking me if i wanted one.. and then he just stopped coming.. and stopped talking to me.. i heard he went out with this chick.. and then auditions for cabaret night were goin and he sat next to me.. and then some chick comes over and tells me to scooch.. and i did.. assuming she wanted to sit next to him ya kno? and then he mnoves next to me and he touches my leg with his bcuz the chick next to him is like.. touching him.. and then cabaret night comes up.. and he is with me all day.. and he gave me hugs everytime he saw me.. and then he asked me to go with him to find his bro.. but when i went with him he was talking to some chick.. but i didnt hear bcuz i was waiting for him outside the auditorium.. and then he asks me to go walk with him.. but i didnt go bcuz my friend told me to stay with her.. and then i was backstage for awhile and then i come out and my other friend tells me that he's looking for me.. and i said y? and she said she didnt kno.. so i found him and i asked him y he was looking for me ya kno? and everyone was around so i guess he just said that he was just worried about me.. and then we had a field trip as the end of the year thingin.. and he gave my friend a note to giv to me and it read something like this:
sorry i havent talked to u in a long time.. im really sorry.. its just that i had problems at home and i didnt wanna talk to anybody.. if i did.. i knew i would go off and yell at them.. i didnt want u to get hurt by me.. anywaise.. w/b love, josh i wrote back: aww.. u kno wuts funny? we both had problems at home.. but if u need to talk about it.. im here.. im all ears.. then he stopped writing to me for awhile.. so i wrote to him: u dont hav to talk to me.. i kno u dont want to.. just say it.. he wrote: no its not that.. call me and mayb we can talk about it.. and i got his number.. but when i called.. he thought i was some chick named chelsey or something.. and i was like.. no this is melissa.. and he was like o.. and i never called him back ever since.. i just need some advice.. should i call him to try to find out the truth by calling him or asking a friend to find out? or wut? i just REALLY need some advice rite now.. and if u want my sn.. hm0nggur1.. its a zero and a one.. if u want my email.. its joelpunx@yahoo.com.. LUV YAZ!! |
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Aug 26 2004, 12:36 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I'll tell you what I'm doing now. I'm about to laugh my frocking ass off. Loose him, he doesnt even konw your name.
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Aug 26 2004, 12:47 AM
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 ㅋㅋㅋ Group: Member Posts: 924 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,283 |
i read over your entry twice, and im still wondering...are you in love with the guy or not? If you are...call him and find out the truth....if you ask your friend, it'd only mix up the already confusing dilemma you're in. From my perspective, he doesn't sound too trustworthy....
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Aug 26 2004, 02:54 PM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
Ok, i think you should first try to talk to him ONE MORE TIME. Be really direct and to the point, don't tip-toe around things and try to drop hints...it just makes things more confusing..
In your post you didn't say anything about liking this guy (as in more than a friend)...i don't think you did anyways but he is giving you mixed signals which is messed up. So ask him how he feels about you, does he just want to be friends, does he want a romantic relationship, etc. Get the straight answer if you can, and if he wont give you a direct answer, then he isn't worth your time and i would try to forget about him. Unless you like him <b>alot</b>...then i guess keep trying. Either way i don't think he is sure about how he feels with alot of things. Tell him that if he wants to be friends with you, then he should be able to tell you anything, and he isn't really doing that. Basically i'm saying that you need to talk to him, and i would suggest doing this in person. |
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Aug 26 2004, 09:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,753 |
thanx for all the replies.. sry if it confusing and long.. but yea.. thanx for ur advice evry1.. LUV YAZ!!
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Aug 26 2004, 09:18 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
How much do you like him..?
How much does he like you..? |
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Aug 26 2004, 09:20 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Obviously he doesnt like her very much if he didnt know her name.
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Aug 26 2004, 10:06 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
My first intake in your story was... maybe, he's gay.
But really, that's just sad. He doesn't know your name!  I swear, like th5418, let him go! Find someone who actually knows your name. |
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Aug 26 2004, 10:23 PM
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well you can call him up. but just don't get hooked on someone you know you can't get. not worth trying.
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Aug 27 2004, 06:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,753 |
well.. he does kno my name.. thats the thing.. he always asks for me wherever i go.. but my friends are always around so idk.. mayb he doesnt want to say things in front of my friends..
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Aug 27 2004, 07:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 26 2004, 12:36 AM) I'll tell you what I'm doing now. I'm about to laugh my frocking ass off. Loose him, he doesnt even konw your name. Perfect way to put it. I mean, yeah, he doesn't even know your name, nor can he recognize your voice when he is calling you. >.< And he's always with another chick? That's just wrong...>.< You shouldn't even be tripping over this ****. I mean really, lose him. And if he knows your name from your recent post, umm why did he call you "Chelsea" then? |
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Aug 28 2004, 05:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,753 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Aug 27 2004, 7:05 PM) Perfect way to put it. I mean, yeah, he doesn't even know your name, nor can he recognize your voice when he is calling you. >.< And he's always with another chick? That's just wrong...>.< You shouldn't even be tripping over this ****. I mean really, lose him. And if he knows your name from your recent post, umm why did he call you "Chelsea" then? thats was his gf's name at that point.. idk y he called me that.. but i told him it was melissa.. and ya.. we kno e/o other really well.. dont get me wrong.. but i really really liked him.. but im still thinking about letting him go.. anywaise.. i didnt call him yet.. i lost his number.. lol 
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Aug 28 2004, 05:51 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
forget him lol u tried to be there for him and he wasnt there -_-" pssh
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Aug 28 2004, 06:12 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
give him up. he's a pimp.
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Aug 28 2004, 06:14 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
i would like to help u...but ur typing skills confuse me
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Aug 30 2004, 08:22 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,218 |
i dont really see how a girl can get that pissed if you say the wrong name like i have done it a few times and they didnt care they laughed but man if you know alot of girls then it happens it doesnt really mean your a pimp. You should call him back being mad after some thing that small shouldnt matter. but thats just my thought.
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Aug 30 2004, 08:59 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Sweet, it was his ex's name. More reason to get up with him! Uh huh.
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Sep 6 2004, 05:16 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(ineed2bluvd @ Aug 28 2004, 5:34 PM) thats was his gf's name at that point.. idk y he called me that.. He doesn't seem very commited. :/ Get over him. lyk n0w mega woah. |
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Sep 7 2004, 04:36 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
man.. the guy keep giving you on and off hints.. and stuff.. if i was y0u i wouldnt bother to.. if he really does like you or whatever.. he would try to talk to you first.. and if he wants to talk about his problems.. he would call you or try to find you.. dont always be the first to make the first move especially if he doesnt really seem like he appreciates it..
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Sep 7 2004, 05:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
obviously its more examples of stupidity in this world.
why the hell do u need our word to tell u to just forget about him? use ur common sense and ur own judgement. |
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Sep 7 2004, 09:54 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(masu_misairu @ Aug 26 2004, 12:47 AM) i read over your entry twice, and im still wondering...are you in love with the guy or not? If you are...call him and find out the truth....if you ask your friend, it'd only mix up the already confusing dilemma you're in. From my perspective, he doesn't sound too trustworthy.... You know what's funny? I thought the same exact thing, lol. Anyways, ineed2bluvd, whta you said is confusing. You're not admitting that you like-like him. And he is very confusing. One second he wants to be around you, then the next second he ignores you and goes to some other "chick." I mean, it looks like he's playing you. But maybe he's really having problems and isn't sure who he really is? I don't know... Just ask him, straight out, "do you like-like me?" and if he pauses then says yes, then he does. If no, then he just wanted you there as a friend. You know what It seems like, though? He used you to hang around with toa void other people but when he saw people he wanted to hang out with, he left you. Well, at least, that's what I think is going on. This guy is very confusing, indeed. |
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Sep 7 2004, 10:12 PM
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 Anime!! O.o Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,624 |
k.. i read it twice.. and i think.. just give up lol. just a normal guy. not like some guy your like in love with. i think. wel thats just me.
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