my best friend and my boyfriend, a three way arguement |
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 Sep 6 2004, 08:19 PM
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 Jrock Princesss ^_^  Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,818  |
okay so me and my BEST friend like this guy and she really like him and i do too but he likes me not her and so we are going out and she is totally mad but i cant help it and he wants me to get rid of her cuz shes getting anoying i and i really dont want her to stay mad at me but i like my boyfriend but she totally flirts with him at school what should i do
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Sep 6 2004, 08:22 PM
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Jrock Princesss ^_^ Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,818 |
plz answer
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Sep 6 2004, 08:23 PM
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 BANNED Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
^^ No need for "double posting" there.
Choose one. The guy or your friend. I'd ditch the friend personally, just because she should understand how you feel about this guy. If she was truly a good friend she would not flirt with your boyfriend. |
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Sep 6 2004, 08:46 PM
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Jrock Princesss ^_^ Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,818 |
thx
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Sep 6 2004, 11:19 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
if shes ur BEST friend, she should understand i mean. not ur fault he lkes u... and if she flirts with ur bf.. then its ur bfs responsibility and act to flirt bak wit her. if he does then hes not bein loyal..
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Sep 6 2004, 11:47 PM
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pr3cious Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,761 |
ok first of all i know from experience that a guy isnt worth losing your "best friend" over...also, u cant stop her from liking him and if the flirting really gets to you then tell her....tell her that she has no reason to be mad and that this boy isnt really worth losing each other..hopefully everything works out for the best..good luck!
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Sep 7 2004, 12:29 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
talk to her. tell her that its not ur fault he likes you and that if shes realli ur fren she should be happi for you. she also shouldn b flirting with him like that
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Sep 7 2004, 12:54 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
some friend. a true best friend would understand.
ditch her. |
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Sep 7 2004, 01:40 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
QUOTE(F1R3B4T @ Sep 7 2004, 12:54 AM) some friend. a true best friend would understand. ditch her. i agree. shes not worth it cuz shes not acting like a friend should. and if your bf flirts back when your friend flirts with him then hes not worth it too. thats not loyal. |
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Sep 7 2004, 02:33 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
thats not a good situation. i've been in that situation before but on the other side and i didnt get mad and i dont understand why she should be mad. love or liking a someone cannot be forced so there should be nothin to get mad or be mad about. i think you should try to tell her or talk to her about what is happening and how you feel about it. i personally think that best friend is more important than boyfriend but your best friend should not prevent you from being with the person you truly want to be with. she should be happy that you are happy.
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Sep 8 2004, 01:27 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,545 |
if she doesnt understand that you two really like each other and want to be together, dump her. get rid of her. but if you two are really really good friends, then hmm.. i dont know.
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Sep 8 2004, 02:28 PM
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 You be my sun & I'll moon you Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,527 |
Tough descision...
I don't know. If she IS your friend, I don't think she would start flirting with your guy. It may be also be flirting unconsciously, but, it still makes you mad right? I wouldn't suggest getting rid of her but talk to her about, well, atleast try. She prolly won't bite...that much. 
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Sep 8 2004, 06:42 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
i agree very tough indeed
i would keep both u should talk to ur friend and tell her that ur bf thinks shes annoying and to stop flirting with him. whether or not u can say that to ur friends face depends on how strong ur friend ship is. with my friends i can say it to them and it'll be all good. and u should tell ur bf that he shouldget used to it cause shes ur best friend. ya thats just what I would do though |
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