my best friend and i have feelings for each other, i need ur advice! |
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 Sep 5 2004, 05:22 PM
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my best friend chris and i have known each other since 1st grade. we've laughed together, cried together, everything. hes like my brother, but i think we're starting to develop feelings for each other. we kissed once, but it just felt weird.. it just felt like kissing my brother. but we do like each other and he just broke up with his girlfriend.. should i give our love life a second chance?
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Sep 5 2004, 05:32 PM
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Sep 5 2004, 05:33 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
QUOTE(xbaybee @ Sep 5 2004, 5:32 PM) Don't spam..aha..  err..woah...Chris is a boy and ur a girl? |
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Sep 5 2004, 05:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,943 |
Boy! lol.. i'm no lesbo!
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Sep 5 2004, 05:35 PM
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APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
QUOTE(jazzydancer9 @ Sep 5 2004, 5:34 PM) Boy! lol.. i'm no lesbo! Chris-Boy You-Girl right? |
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Sep 5 2004, 05:36 PM
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wow, maybe you should give your love life a chance. take a chace, it won`t hurt anything.
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Sep 5 2004, 06:50 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
yeah take the chance lol as long as u guys knoe that u'll still be friends in case it wont work out then yea take it!
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Sep 5 2004, 07:05 PM
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 ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
*cough* wrong forum.
but i don't think its a good idea, i mean if you kissed once but it felt weird then no. i'd be better if you two stayed friends |
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Sep 5 2004, 07:10 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Yes, you should, but then again, make surehe doesn't still ahve feelings for his ex. But then again, if he really doesn't like-like you, you both can destroy a wonderful friendship-relationship.
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Sep 5 2004, 07:28 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE Please don't spam, kthnxbi. Err. Ask him what you want to do about this.. It could ruin your friendship, I hope you know that.. but it could also be a positive experience. =D |
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Sep 5 2004, 07:39 PM
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long lasting relationships usually develop from friendships... it just strengthens the bond between you... that is, if you guys are ready for the next step.
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Sep 5 2004, 07:41 PM
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maybe you both should just stay very close friends, becuase if you both start a love life then maybe the friendship bond will unravel.
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Sep 5 2004, 08:36 PM
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 dudeee! Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
take a chance.. you wont know anything until you take a chance right?
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Sep 5 2004, 09:17 PM
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i would say not to go for it because it gets really awkward around close close buddies. ive already been there.
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Sep 5 2004, 09:28 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, if you both like each other, then go for it.
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Sep 5 2004, 09:37 PM
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go for it. me and my ex were best friends for a while before we started going out. it was great while it lasted but then we broke up, but it wasnt because it was akward. he just started having feelings for other girls..we're still friends but just not near as close as we used to be.
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Sep 5 2004, 10:08 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
i think you should go for it!
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Sep 5 2004, 10:10 PM
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how do u have a second chance if u didnt have a first? go out with him or her... its not like u guys are getting married, just enjoy it while it last
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Sep 5 2004, 10:40 PM
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=T i went out with my best friend. we had super strong feelings for each other that we couldn't hide or fight. we ended up breaking up after 6 months..it was really hard
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Sep 5 2004, 10:55 PM
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YES TAKE HIM. thats like the perfect person you'd want to be with. your best friend
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Sep 6 2004, 12:47 AM
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YES! of course...take a chance
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Sep 6 2004, 01:19 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Don't take a chance. There is too much at stake. What if you fudge up and he leaves you forever.
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Sep 6 2004, 12:55 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
take the chance u dont want to regret anything
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Sep 6 2004, 11:18 PM
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go for it duh
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Sep 7 2004, 01:02 AM
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how did it end the first time?
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