he's always on my mind, i really like this guy |
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he's always on my mind, i really like this guy |
Sep 4 2004, 08:00 PM
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[FONT=Arial]There is this guy who lives right across the street from me.His name is Patrick.I moved to this street like in March and ever since the first time i laid eyes on him I started to develop this feeling that i never ever felt before.When i sleep its him and when i wake up its him all over again.I told him i liked him once and then one day he told me to come outside and chill with him.Somehow i acted real stuck up towards him and his friends.He told me that he was really pissed at me and told me to go home.I was so hurt of his reactions to what i've done i actually cried.Then i chatted to Patrick's friend online on aol instant messenger and he told me that he was really piss that i ignored him and stuff like that,but deep inside i knew that i was really shy...Things kinda changed a bit.Patrick came knocking on Monday and asked if i could come outside and chilled with him and his friends.That was a day for me to redeem myself and i think i did a great job showing him what im all about.Then i saw him one night coming from somewhere and he said hi to me and told me he would talk to me the next day but he never did.i really like him and his friend told me that he really liked me too.His friend said he had a girl but i cant tell if he has one.i really like him..what can i do im so confused.
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Sep 4 2004, 08:21 PM
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![]() Turning saints into the sea ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,933 |
Ask the boy if he has a girlfriend. If he doesn't, ask him on a date. Even though you're shy, get up the courage to do it. It'll all be worth it in the end.
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Sep 4 2004, 09:27 PM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
^ I agree.
It will be worth it if you just get brave enough for the time-being. =D |
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Sep 4 2004, 10:58 PM
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(ichidou @ Sep 4 2004, 9:21 PM) Ask the boy if he has a girlfriend. If he doesn't, ask him on a date. Even though you're shy, get up the courage to do it. It'll all be worth it in the end. i also agree. ask him if he has a girlfriend, and if he doesn't, ask him out. it will probably be worth it in the end |
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| *wind&fire* |
Sep 4 2004, 11:16 PM
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(dammit i just lost a giant chunk of what i was going to say!!!!)
mneh ill just give you the big point...tell him what you feel cos not knowing hurts much more than knowing that he doenst feel the same way.... |
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Sep 5 2004, 10:51 AM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(ichidou @ Sep 4 2004, 8:21 PM) Ask the boy if he has a girlfriend. If he doesn't, ask him on a date. Even though you're shy, get up the courage to do it. It'll all be worth it in the end. I completely agree. Just go up to him and ask him questions. :D |
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Sep 5 2004, 10:57 AM
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WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
wow..that's..confusing..
just ask him if he has a girlfriend. but do it casually, be like "so..i hear the school dances this year are gonna be really focused on couples..got a girlfriend or someone to go with?" |
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Sep 5 2004, 11:15 AM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
see if he has a gf. if not then make a move i guess?
just seem like sum big physical attraction to me.. |
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Sep 5 2004, 06:39 PM
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![]() doot doot doot ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
tell him u like him if u didnt already and then see if he has a gf, and work things out
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Sep 5 2004, 09:49 PM
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Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,923 |
like everyone else said, find out if he has a girlfriend, if he does, don't be too hurt. if he doesn't take a risk. but once more, don't be hurt if he rejects you. before you do ask him, know that he may say know so don't be too hurt. sorry if i seem too sound negative, but if you get your hopes up too high, there is still a small chance he will say no, and you will be extremely sad. just sayin from expierence.
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Sep 5 2004, 11:18 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
try to get to know him, just think about it, 5 years from now are you going to say "dammit i should've at least get to know him, but its too late now" or "i tried to get to know him but it didn't work out'?
get what im saying? |
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Sep 7 2004, 12:09 PM
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
ask him if he has a girl friend...since u told him u like him he should prolly understand y ur asking...and ask him if he has feelings for u becuz thats what his friend said.
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Sep 7 2004, 03:48 PM
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Aznsorpor ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
well dont feel too bad for that mistake that you made.. everyone makes mistakes... and wen you like someone things get even weirder.. if he actually likes you.. he will have to decide if he wants to make a further move.. like break up with his gf.. or whatever.. so talk to him if u can.. and dont trust completely everything that someone else tells you.. its better to get stuff like that from the actual person..
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Sep 8 2004, 01:23 PM
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Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,545 |
talk to him, be friends, get to know him.
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Sep 21 2004, 04:19 PM
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![]() I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
i agree what everyone else said
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Sep 21 2004, 06:29 PM
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yeah i agree with everyone else too, but its okay to make mistakes. everyone does. just find out if he has a girlfriend, and if he doesn't - go for it. its hard i know, but its worth it.
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Sep 21 2004, 06:34 PM
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SOS Brigade!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
i agree with every1 too just go for it.. if it doesn't have a gf...
its hard but all the pain and suffering usually has a great reward |
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Sep 22 2004, 03:50 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,622 |
thats easy, ask him if he has a GF. then i think u know what to do from there
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Sep 22 2004, 10:54 PM
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![]() The Bone Collector ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
yes, like others say, ask him. and if he does, he probably just wants to be friends with you.
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