My b/f goes to a different skool., how wood i no if hes cheatin on me r not |
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 Sep 4 2004, 08:29 PM
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loni  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,012  |
My boyfriend goes to a different skool so i never get to see him not even on weekends. he usually calls but lately he hasnt. i expect he is cheating on me but then i dont want to assume things. what do i do. We are not having a good relationsup because he has lied to me once, so im not sure if he is lieing to me now or not
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Sep 4 2004, 08:52 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Always assume the worst.
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| *evdxgirl* |
Sep 4 2004, 09:00 PM
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If you don't trust him, break up with him. It's easier than worrying about him all the time.
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Sep 4 2004, 09:25 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, talk to him about it. but if you really don't trust him, the break up.
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Sep 4 2004, 09:26 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Call him.
Talk to him about it. IM him if you can. *shrug* You need to talk to him about it. |
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Sep 4 2004, 11:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
ask him.
if you don't trust him enough to ask him, you shouldn't be with him. if you ask him, and you think he could be lying, explain how pointless cheating is, and that if he is cheating, he might as well just break up with you. |
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Sep 5 2004, 02:02 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
one thing that should be in a realtionship : trust. and you already got no trust for him so theres no point in going on. unless you two can work something out that works for the both of you.
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Sep 5 2004, 09:39 AM
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 me now...me 4eva Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,710 |
if u also hav a frend in da skool dat ur bf goes 2...then u cud ask her/he to keep an eye ouwt 4 u...but u gotta trust him 2
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Sep 5 2004, 10:32 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
what u do is become friends with his friends and then u get more friends and then eventually they will they u all the truth and stuff.
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Sep 5 2004, 10:38 AM
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 ummm....BOO Group: Member Posts: 351 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,173 |
im a guy so if he is doing that he is either tired of u and dont wanna go out wiht u but doesnt wanna hurt your feelings by breakin up with u or he found a new chick
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Sep 5 2004, 10:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(evdxgirl @ Sep 4 2004, 9:00 PM) If you don't trust him, break up with him. It's easier than worrying about him all the time. i agree with her.....relationships are mostly about trust..and if you don't trust him, then break up? |
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Sep 5 2004, 01:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
if you knew that you want to be with him even if youre in different schools, youd know you wont see him much and if youre really worrying about his loyalty to you then thats not really trusting? erm talk to him about it
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Sep 5 2004, 01:04 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,767 |
you guys are hilarious, lol.
Haha, nah, out of all seriousness...If your'e having doubts now, it probably means that you don't trust him enough. If you have to ask, 'How do I know if...blah blah blah'...Then you definetly don't trust him enough. See, because if you trusted him, then you wouldn't have to ask 'How do I know if he's cheating on me or not'...Because you don't know, and you won't know, unless if you put a camera in his eyes to watch him 24/7. Simple. |
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Sep 5 2004, 06:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,858 |
umm if u dont trust him then break up with him,u'll start feeling better
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Sep 5 2004, 06:41 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(mistahph0 @ Sep 5 2004, 6:29 PM) umm if u dont trust him then break up with him,u'll start feeling better i agree lol, thers no point to it if u dont trust him, u jus gotta develop this trust for him.. but as a girl u should still remember that theres a possibility hes doing something behind u... its so hard being a girl  but then if u dont trust him enough about it.. then jus break it off, u'll jus get hurt from even THINKING about it
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Sep 5 2004, 09:18 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
QUOTE(x0143637x0 @ Sep 5 2004, 2:02 AM) one thing that should be in a realtionship : trust. and you already got no trust for him so theres no point in going on. unless you two can work something out that works for the both of you. I agree 100% |
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Sep 5 2004, 10:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,593 |
try to have faith in him. unless you know he has a history of being a cheater. BUT if you trust him, then you should have no reason to worry
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| *jeanna* |
Sep 5 2004, 10:54 PM
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if he is a hottie.. then im sure he is cheating.. he is a guy! there is no other answer.. lol
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Sep 6 2004, 01:34 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 4 2004, 8:52 PM) Always assume the worst. dont assume the worst because thats what causes people to go crazy...think rationally. |
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Sep 7 2004, 01:34 AM
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pr3cious Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,761 |
QUOTE(evdxgirl @ Sep 4 2004, 9:00 PM) If you don't trust him, break up with him. It's easier than worrying about him all the time. i agree..its much better than being paranoid.but hopefully he isnt and everything works out |
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Sep 7 2004, 02:37 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
if you two are good for each other and care about each other you two should try to find some time to see and talk to each other not just on the fone or online. differnet schools should not be a big problem.. if he lied to you once you should try to give him a chance. also, it depends on what he lied to you about. if he lied to you about a simple little thing like a white lie, i dont think it really matters but if its a lil more important you have to talk to him about it. assuming things n havin it build up wont end up good.. wen u find lil problems try to peacefully talk it out be4 it becomes serious..
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