Forgive and forget..., Should I? |
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 Sep 4 2004, 02:40 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter!  Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436  |
I was friends with this girl and she really pissed me off. Basicly we haven't talked in forever, and our "group" of friends split.
Recently she IMed me on ICQ and said she was sorry. I haven't answered her. I just don't know what to say. I'm not necessarily mad at her but I just don't like her. I don't think she's someone I'd want to hang out with anymore. Should I forgive and forget and be friends with her since she appologised? Should I forgive her but still not talk to her? Should I just ignore her? HELP! |
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Sep 4 2004, 03:03 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hm.
Maybe just talk to her and be nice. You don't necessarily have to be all buddy-buddy with her if you don't want to be. |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Sep 4 2004, 03:20 PM
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you can forgive her... not nessecarily gonna be easy to forget it ;]
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| *krnxswat* |
Sep 4 2004, 03:28 PM
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Just forgive her; doesn't mean you have to be friends with her.
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Sep 4 2004, 03:38 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
u should forgive her but if u dont wanna hang out with her anymore then tell her that
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Sep 4 2004, 03:42 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
u should forgive her but that doesn't mean u have to forget
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Sep 4 2004, 06:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Forgive, but still be friends with her. She apologized for a reason...
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Sep 4 2004, 06:51 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
forgive but never forget ,
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Sep 5 2004, 02:18 PM
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Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Sep 4 2004, 6:48 PM) Forgive, but still be friends with her. She apologized for a reason... I'm not sure if the reason she appologised for is the right one, though. I'm thinking she only appologised cause she's noticed her friends are starting to leave... Me and another friend. THen one girl just starting hanging out with another circle of people... then yet another girl sat with the first girl and me at lunch the other day. Follow that? It might be a little confusing.... |
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Sep 5 2004, 02:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
it depends on what she did to piss you off, if it was something small like taking yer mascara or something then forgive her cuz friends are really important in high school or whever u are, but i think u should forgive her
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Sep 5 2004, 02:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
it's no good to be friends with someone you don't like.
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Sep 5 2004, 02:47 PM
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Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
QUOTE(DavidxN @ Sep 5 2004, 2:24 PM) it depends on what she did to piss you off, if it was something small like taking yer mascara or something then forgive her cuz friends are really important in high school or whever u are, but i think u should forgive her ok, basicly she tried to convince my friends to ditch me.... and some kind of did... it's complicated... |
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Sep 5 2004, 02:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
it can be a benefit tho, im friends with a bunch of jerks and uglies and enemies so ill be homecoming king my senior year
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Sep 5 2004, 02:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Sep 5 2004, 2:47 PM) ok, basicly she tried to convince my friends to ditch me.... and some kind of did... it's complicated... yeah thats pretty bad, unless if yer in elementary school, that happens alllll the time, i got ditched bad one time so i just hung out in the office for bit but it was good cuz the 3 guys that ditched me were in the principles office. but yeah that does kinda suck |
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Sep 5 2004, 03:13 PM
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 I like it better when it hurts Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,730 |
wow she tried to get them to ditch you...thats not cool. If it was me I wouldnt...but if you dont want a lot of tension then you should talk to her and work it out.
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Sep 5 2004, 06:33 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
forgive AND forget, shes not worth ur time to think of what she did to u, the past is the past it happened already just look forward into making new true friends who wont ditch u for anything or anyone
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Sep 7 2004, 05:07 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i have been in that situation be4.. i think that you should try ur best to forgive her as much as you can.. if it wasnt a completely horrible thing that she did to you.. and she said sorry.. things wont be the same.. so do whatever you can.. and dont force yourself.. no one can and will force you to do nething.. if u feel you can forgive her and be friends wit her again.. then do it.. but from my personal experience.. it's really hard and it will take some time... and it still feels ackward hanging out with them again.. and talking to them.. things just become different..
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Sep 7 2004, 05:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
jus forgive her. but then do not forget this.
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Sep 7 2004, 05:41 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Sep 4 2004, 4:28 PM) Just forgive her; doesn't mean you have to be friends with her. yeah, i agree. you can forgive her, but that doesn't mean you should be friends with her. |
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Sep 7 2004, 08:05 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
just talk to her and be nice...she doesnt have to know that you dont consider her a friend.
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Sep 7 2004, 08:24 PM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
forgive and forget..
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