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 Sep 4 2004, 12:32 PM
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here's a quick question, how do you start up small talk? like there's this one girl i like but i can never talk to her when we're just one on one in a room or something. i can talk to her when we're in a group but not one on one. it pisses me off becuas a lotta people say i can get her but everytime when i'm with her i just choke and think my chances decrease.
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Sep 4 2004, 12:43 PM
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 hardcore procrastinator =] Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,340 |
just think of something you like and ask her abot it I guess
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Sep 4 2004, 01:15 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
Just start by saying hi and ask her a few "get to know you" kinda questions...Pay attention to her answers and when you find something interesting, ask her more about it... For example be like, Do you have a job, and if she says yes, ask what she does...That sort of thing
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Sep 4 2004, 05:05 PM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Just talk with her like you'd talk with any other person in that situation. you're just overthinking it...and so what if you make a fool of yourself? Girls think it's cute sometimes...I think. Shows how much you really like them.
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Sep 4 2004, 05:06 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
Talk with them about stuff that you both would enjoy. |
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Sep 4 2004, 05:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,943 |
ok well... if you wanna start up a conversation with her, simply ask her things you think she would be interested in.. not anything too boylish like monster truck shows or wrestling.. but cool stuff.. if you tell her she smells good she will immediatly warm up to you. good luck with this girl. y'all sound cute together!
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Sep 4 2004, 06:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
"So....how's the weather today?"
LOl jp don't do that...hmm i wouldn't know. I'm a girl myself. They come up to me. :D |
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Sep 4 2004, 06:50 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
"i like ur shirt" "oh really????????i got it at blah blah" and it goes on...
lol and crap like that... its small talk...so w/e will work... |
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Sep 4 2004, 10:36 PM
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i dunnoo.....i say like get practise with randomn ppl on the street...just walk up to them and start talking!!
or when ur talking to her get a friend in the background to hold up promts on stuff to talk bout yeh????....hehehe |
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Sep 4 2004, 10:53 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, just start by complimenting her or something. then just talk to her. eh, i know that it's hard though.
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Sep 4 2004, 10:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
"hello."
if you know her name, or if you think you know her name, you could try something more along the lines of "it's (insert name here), right?" and if you're wrong, they'll correct you, if you're not they'll say yes and either they'll know your name, or you can tell them. from there, music makes a pretty good common topic. don't even think about politics. books if you like to read, internet, classes. whatever comes to mind. |
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Sep 7 2004, 11:22 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
well first dont be so nervous.. tell urself to chill out.. and then think.. there has to be things tat u ppl have in common since u ppl hang out in a group be4.. try to talk about things that interest her or you.. get to know each other.. u can like ask her what she likes and find out things about her and have her learn a thing or two about u..
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Sep 7 2004, 11:23 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
ask her what she likes to do for fun idk...anything...ask her about the homework or what she got on her test in bio....just anything that you can relate to
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Sep 7 2004, 11:29 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Talk about food. Can't go wrong with food! Unless she's on a diet or has a eating disorder. Or talk about school or something. School just started for me, and if it did for you, ask her what classes she's taking blah blah. Don't overdo it though because no one wants to talk all about school since many peopel loathe school lol.
You should ask her how her day was. IMO, since I'm a girl, often, girls love to talk about themselves and about their lives. Just ask her something simple. If you stop being shy around her, then she'll stop being shy around you =D |
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