i saw something, that broke my heart |
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 Sep 3 2004, 09:37 PM
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hi there
ok there is this guy and hes a few years older than me but i really like him but i can never like get up the nerve to say anything but hey and smile. today me and some friends were outside of one of our classrooms and he and this gurl was in front of us and the next thing i knew, he bent over and kissed her. it really made me depressed. sould i be or is it stupid to feel that way over something someone did that i don't even know.  
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Sep 3 2004, 09:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Why didn't you make yourself have the courage to go up to him and tell him you like him? You should've made a move...
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Sep 3 2004, 09:39 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I don't agree with the person above. Cry in your corner still.
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Sep 3 2004, 09:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,753 |
well.. then.. wut made u like him so much if u say u dont kno him?
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Sep 3 2004, 09:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 3 2004, 9:39 PM) Cry in your corner still. Okay, fine. Or you can do that. You shouldd've just made a move towards him because he doesn't know what you're feeling... |
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Sep 3 2004, 09:55 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,291 |
ok a) hes really older than me and i figured he would think i was stupid and plus... i can't just go up and be like "hey dude! i think your so cute and i would really like to got to know you" you know what i mean? plus A LOT of gurls like him. so how do i get the courage to talk to him? and b) what makes me think i like him so much if i say i dont know him? like i said before.....hes hott and hes one of those guys you want to get to know and that you see him and you just get a crush on......... help?
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Sep 3 2004, 10:06 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lol its jus a simple crush i guess, like u said hes jus one of those hott guys that every girl likes... cant u be abnormal and not be like everyone else?
i think u should just move on, u missed ur chance already. learn from ur mistake |
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Sep 3 2004, 10:10 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
I've seen stuff similar to that happen when I've liked a guy before. It's partly your fault (and it was my fault, too) for not doing anything about it.. |
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Sep 3 2004, 10:24 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,291 |
so would you say its too late to do something about it? i mean if i learn their going out or something then all the power to them but is it definately too late?
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Sep 3 2004, 10:26 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Definately too late. Now keep sobbing.
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Sep 3 2004, 10:35 PM
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doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
its too late and plus u dont like him for who he is do u?? do u even knoe him? just move on, hes not the only guy alive
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Sep 3 2004, 10:40 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
So um.. wait, how long HAS this been going on? I mean, how long haveu known him? Aww, well there's plenty of fish int he sea. You should try to get to know him better when u first said hi to him, so maybe he could've gotten to know u better and you wouldn't have been so shy around him. And it's worse because now you have to suffer with seeing him kiss that other girl everyday. I think you should move on because he probably didn't have feelings for you. Don't dwell on something that never happened...
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Sep 3 2004, 10:52 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
you should have done something before though, but just get over him, there are other guys.
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Sep 4 2004, 08:59 AM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
sounds to me like its just a crush. I dont think you really liked him, you just liked looking at him. my best advice is either get over it, or try to get to know him, even if he does have a girlfriend. most relationships in high school dont last anyway.
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Sep 4 2004, 09:29 AM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
its too late now...u should have made a move...sry hun!
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Sep 4 2004, 09:42 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
she got to him first. oh well. life goes on.
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Sep 4 2004, 03:51 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
boo hoo. ur going to let one crush bring u down? if so, wow, ur going to be crippled for the rest of ur life.
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Sep 4 2004, 04:31 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,291 |
ok, thanks you guys. i know ur right that its my fault for not getting to know him and that it shouldn't bring me down. time to move on!!!! thanx!!!!
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Sep 4 2004, 10:42 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
aww i'm really sorry! i don't think it's stupid for you to feel bad..just don't get too worked up about it because it could've been worse & he didn't exactly know that you liked him
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Sep 4 2004, 10:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 382 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,943 |
your not stupid for feeling this way! Whether its just a crush or if you really like this guy! I agree you should of made a move earlier, but it still hurts. Some people are more shy then others. If he just kissed her, that doesn't mean there going out. You can still let him know how you feel! But do it soon! Hope everything goes well! :)
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Sep 5 2004, 05:40 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
awww poor babi!! well its okai to feel heart broken cuz i would rilly fel that way i think u should jus forget about that as* hole haha
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Sep 7 2004, 11:00 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i think you should have did something earlier.. but its ok that u didnt.. since it already passed.. not helpful to dwell on the past.. only makes the present unhappier.. i dink you shouldnt be getting depressed over him.. its ok to feel like that at first.. but get over it.. it would be much better .. "there are many more trees in the forest..."
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Sep 7 2004, 11:20 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 3 2004, 7:39 PM) I don't agree with the person above. Cry in your corner still. hahaha your so right If you, song girl person, would have made a move, things would have been different you shouldnt really be depressed or "broken hearted" because a. its just a guy. and b.hes not YOUR guy |
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