What the hell is wrong with him?, =[ Options

[ichiban]

[/B]Okay there's this guy ... we'll call him Joe. I met him in March ... and since then we've been like, superr close friends. We found out we both liked each other, but we weren't BF/GF or anything. And then I ended up liking someone else and I became his girlfriend. And things between me and JOE were sorta .. shaky after that. Because Joe really liked me and I hurt him :[ Me and that guy broke up after a month tho

So anyways, in June, then I started REALLLLLLY liking someone else. And I mean, really Yeah ... so I told Joe about this guy. Let's call this guy Bob. I told Joe tht I liked this guy (bob) .. i told joe i practically loved this Bob guy. and Joe told me, "you know, you're annoying me with this" and that really annoyed me. Because dude, you're like one of my best friends and you tell me yer annoyed by me just fo tellin you about BOB?! i mean, wtf. well i sorta ignored him a bit after that but after a few days we weren't mad at each other anymore and we were friends again, like nothing happened.

Summer came ... Joe went on vacation so I couldn't talk to him until the beginning of August. And ... well apparently Joe forgot about this Bob guy I told him about anyways, so then i js talked to Joe about Bob .. like .. js what Bob's been saying to me ... and well, jsut about Bob. I never told him "bob's" real name though, but anywayz. then joe said, "you know, i really don't give a damn" ... oh wow, i was really annoyed @ him now .. wtf was wrong with him ... everytime i'm talking about BOB he gets all ... cranky and ****. and i was so pissed off because i remember before, joe had some problems with this girl and his best friend and i listened to every single rant ... i listened to all tha problems he had and gave him advice. and all he can say to me is, I DONT GIVE A DAMN"

Yeah, and then I started ignoring him a while .. but then I saw him one day at .. the grocery store i think. and well, i wasnt mad @ him anymore and i didn wanna be .. so i just smiled and said hey. he later on IMed me while i was away and just showed that .. smiley face thingy. So i thought everything was okay. I told a coupla my friends bout what joe said about BOB .. and said that joe was just jealous. i don't believe thats true ....

And now school starts. Joe's like, IGNORING me or something! we used to always talkkk and everything ... after school me & my friend went to talk to Joe and his friend. So I talked to them and stuff and it looked like JOE was barely LISTENING. it's like he doesnt want to be my friend anymore or something. i mean, it ws sooo different then what it was like before ... it js sorta hurt. because joe's like, the one person i can't live without ... so me and my friend left and said BYE to them. uhhuh, they didnt say anythign bck to us .. so i just said BYE even louder and they were still ignoring me. Seriusly, this wasn't like before...

So ... yeah that was LONG but pls take the time to read it. If you want. So do you think Joe's MAD @ me, just doesnt wanna be my friend .. or .. jealous .. or something else?

Yeah. Thx

[casssy]

he likes you and your hurting him by talking about this bob character. stop talking to him about "bob"... he doesnt give a fcuk about him

[MeanBastard]

He likes you a lot and cares about you. Women like you piss me off. He likes you, seriously like syou. He cares about you more than he probably knows. And you hurt him everytime with bob. What the hell is wrong with you. Kill yourself, fast.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

He likes you a lot and cares about you. Women like you piss me off. He likes you, seriously like syou. He cares about you more than he probably knows. And you hurt him everytime with bob. What the hell is wrong with you. Kill yourself, fast.

i didnt read, but yea guys get crushed when the girl they like/love talk about or is with someone else ;/

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

guys hate givin advice to girls if they are in ur situation...my advice, dump bob and go out with joe for buddhas sake ^_^

[Saeglopur]

Make him feel bettererer. Who cares about bob, anyway?

[casssy]

Joe seems like the way to go.. he seems to really care about you.. stop hurting him kthx

[azndragon157]

mann..wtf is wrong with you..cant you see your hurting joe a hell lot by talkin about this bob dude...and he likes you a whole lot..just stop hurtin joe..i noe how he feels v.v

[casssy]

mann..wtf is wrong with you..cant you see your hurting joe a hell lot by talkin about this bob dude...and he likes you a whole lot..just stop hurtin joe..i noe how he feels v.v

are you "joe"!?!

haha that would be funny..

[*RiC3xBoy*]

yea, when a guy really likes u and u start talking about some other guy, it tends to PISS them off.....

[MeanBastard]

The real question is, what hte hell is wrong with you.

[casssy]

The real question is, what hte hell is wrong with you.

dude i love reading your posts... they make me laugh so much.. but hes right

[Too Asian To DIE]

man thats the soo lyk me and mai rival.

so yea he prolly does lyk u just quit talking bout the bob dude and just give the dude a chance. open ur heart a bit more. prolly in the end u will lyk him and he wont lyk u so open ur heart when there is still time be4 he loses interest in u.

[mouse_3k]

So anyways, in June, then I started REALLLLLLY liking someone else. And I mean, really  Yeah ... so I told Joe about this guy. Let's call this guy Bob. I told Joe tht I liked this guy (bob) .. i told joe i practically loved this Bob guy. and Joe told me, "you know, you're annoying me with this" and that really annoyed me. Because dude, you're like one of my best friends and you tell me yer annoyed by me just fo tellin you about BOB?! i mean, wtf. well i sorta ignored him a bit after that but after a few days we weren't mad at each other anymore and we were friends again, like nothing happened

ok lets stop there...

hes annoyed because he LIKES you and u continually tell him *omg this guy is so hot, omg i love this guy* (and no u dont love this bob guy since u arnt really going out with him and u dont really know him). now stop being mean to your joe friend. honestly, i just seem to be bragging to joe tht he aint good enough for you..stop being so mean to him...

The real question is, what hte hell is wrong with you.

i totally agree

i was so pissed off because i remember before, joe had some problems with this girl and his best friend and i listened to every single rant ... i listened to all tha problems he had and gave him advice. and all he can say to me is, I DONT GIVE A DAMN"

now seriously, you are really annoying ME. HE STILL LIKES U AND UR BRAGGING TO HIM ABOUT ANOTHER GUY U LIKE!! jeez, i would act the same way if i was him

because joe's like, the one person i can't live without ... so me and my friend left and said BYE to them. uhhuh, they didnt say anythign bck to us .. so i just said BYE even louder and they were still ignoring me. Seriusly, this wasn't like before...

if u *couldnt live without him* then why did u be so mean to him? i think u deserved wht you got..

[*x____duckii*]

He's hurt. He liked you, so obviously you've hurt him.

[TrannieL]

That "Jose" guy likes you. You shouldnt tell him about "Bob". It hurts him everytimes you talk about "Bob". I think you should make him feel better. Go out with him or do somehing together with him and plz dun tell him about "Bob"

- Tran -

[*CEP*]

That "Jose" guy likes you. You shouldnt tell him about "Bob". It hurts him everytimes you talk about "Bob". I think you should make him feel better. Go out with him or do somehing together with him and plz dun tell him about "Bob" 

- Tran -

What the sh*t? Leave me out of this, lady. I don't even know that girl.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Edit:\\
Topic starter, there's nothing wrong with him. He's reacting to things like normal people would. He likes you, yet he knows he cannot have you. And you continually torment him with all these other guys. What do you expect he would say after you talked about Bob? Put yourself in his shoes.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

What the sh*t? Leave me out of this, lady. I don't even know that girl.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Edit:\\
Topic starter, there's nothing wrong with him. He's reacting to things like normal people would. He likes you, yet he knows he cannot have you. And you continually torment him with all these other guys. What do you expect he would say after you talked about Bob? Put yourself in his shoes.

i think she meant joe, and accidently wrote ur name instead

[xoxspanky569]

the guy obviously likes you, if you can't figure that out yourself he deserves better and he DEFINATLY deserves a better friend, because you are being an extremely sucky self obsessed one.

[*CEP*]

i think she meant joe, and accidently wrote ur name instead

Yeah, I know. Thought I'd have some fun though.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[xXYuKnowItXx]

if someone likes u i think its rly rude to talk about who YOU like in front of him... thats my thought though

[anGeLgRL53]

i just think that tellin ur friends that joe was jealous wasnt a right thing to do bc wut if ur bestfriend called u jealous would u be happy bout tat? no obviously. but i do think hes got sum problem wit u mayb its too personal for him to tell you no matter how close u r to each other. if he really is ur bestfriend how can he not listen to ur problems and help u out? thats wut friends are there for . to help us out and be there for us wen ever we needed them. for me i think that joe is still hurt about wut u did b4. u no wen u said u guys really liked each other n than u went out wit sum1 else. i think tat lyk made an impression in his head n mayb tat is the thing behind this whole situation. so ask him if it realli bothered him tat u went out wit sum1 else n crap ya no. work it out if u realli want to save the friendship you built. goood luck

[MusicalAngel]

He likes you a lot and cares about you. Women like you piss me off. He likes you, seriously like syou. He cares about you more than he probably knows. And you hurt him everytime with bob. What the hell is wrong with you. Kill yourself, fast.

I totally agree with you. Joe likes you... wish my joe would like me

Errr... and minus the killing part btw. LOL. I would never agree on that part. LOL. Just go talk to Joe and let him know that you didn't mean to hurt him and try to patch things up with him. He loves you... he'll forgive you. I'm almost certain of it... Good Luck!

[expoised]

i didnt read, but yea guys get crushed when the girl they like/love talk about or is with someone else ;/

screw that, its the same with girls.

my advice: ignore him. all guys are jerks. get a vibrator. they give you the satisfaction you need without all the guy-b!tching.

[sweetdreamsx3]

and i was so pissed off because i remember before, joe had some problems with this girl and his best friend and i listened to every single rant ... i listened to all tha problems he had and gave him advice. and all he can say to me is, I DONT GIVE A DAMN"

If you get mad easily, don't read my comment.
First off, you obviously hurted Joe when you both liked each other and you decided to date someone else. I'm pretty sure. In fact, I know that he still likes you and with all this nonstop talking about "Bob", it's making him mad because he doesn't care at all. You can blab on and on and he still won't care.

And at that time when you listened to him, he didn't like you. It was until later, right? And since you're his friend, then you should listen to him unless he or you did something wrong.

Really, if you're going to date another guy when "Joe" liked you and you liked him too and you guys happen to be friends, why are you going to hurt him? You hurted him and yet you expect him to still be there for you, acting as if nothing happened.

To answer your question, yes, he is jealous. And just stop talking about "Bob". He won't ever care.