what do u do when...., i need help..guy trouble PLEASE!! |
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 Aug 31 2004, 03:59 PM
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ok..well i just got baq together with mi boyfriend...and long story short is...
we were together for 7 months then i broke up with hym to go out wit a guy in gr.11 (yeah i no pretty low...but how kan u say no..im onli in gr.9 and a gr.11 asked me out...kinda feeds your ego huh??) ne wayz..then after a week i broke up with him because i thought i still had feelings for my first boyfriend...but it was at the end of the school yea...so then during summer i got grounded...for the 2 months...and well i havnt talked to him for 2 months....  now the problem is...i dont know how he feels...we never comfirmed we were together or any thing...he just kissed me...but now...after 2 months im kinda iffy about the relationship...as my firend says *no chemistry*  and schools coming up and i dont know if i wanna try and make us a couple agian..like if i wanna try a lil harder to make us a couple..or just forget about it...pretend it didnt happen......lyke i dont ever wanna c him again..it just bring up feelings and its akward u no??  and it took so long for him to trust me again if i brake up with him ive probably lost his trust forever...but i dont even want to go up to him and tell him...i just wished it never happened!! you know... :yawn:and also..like his gurl friends...he was goin out with for 2 years iz coming to our school...nd well there still great friends almost best friends..nd yea that kinda makes me uncomfortable...yea yea i no *JELOUS female dog* loli dont no!! im so unsure of this relationship i dont no wut to do...i wanna b friends with him but i no for a fact it won't workout that way...itz like saying if i break it off ill lose him forever...  ok lol yea..im willing to acept that im 1 big whore lol but ...i no i made a mistake...and if i could go baq id change it ..but i kant now kan i??..i no that itz a really slutty/player...kind of thing to do...and ive regret it soo badly but now...i dont no..if i ver shoulve told him i still have feelings for him...it just made things worse didnt it?? so yea tha prolem is..the first day of school is coming up..and honestly i dont wanna c him...not cause i hate him but beacuse..itz so awkward to c him...but i have to him..his in my first class with me...and well i dont no what my reaction will be...should i just ignore him??(im sure he'll get tha message)..or should i go and like hug him and pretend everythings ok??
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Aug 31 2004, 04:24 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
maybe this should be moved to relationships
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Aug 31 2004, 04:53 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah. Relationships.
But anyway. Talk to him about it, obviously. Koff. Can you type a little differently in the future? |
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Aug 31 2004, 06:19 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
talk to him then see how he feels
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Aug 31 2004, 06:46 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I'm really confused.. so u got back together with your old boyfriend but you don't want to talk to your NOW-EX that u dated for a week? I'm very confused about what you're saying. You said i dont know if i wanna try and make us a couple agian..or brake it of... and then you say lyke i dont ever wanna c him again... You're not making any sense with this. DO YOU WANT to get back together with him?
And you're VERY SHALLOW for even breaking up with the boyfriend u had for 7 months JUST SO U CAN DATE an 11th grader. And it only lasted a week. No offense, but I don't feel sorry for you because it was very shallow for you to do that. And ego booster, huh?  MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS. |
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Aug 31 2004, 06:53 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I can say one thing. You are one big whore. Whore of babylon.
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Aug 31 2004, 06:54 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well.. i havta say it was kinda low to do dat. and if that guy is a great boy, he'll forgive you and mayb stil have feelings for you. so take ur chance :]
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Aug 31 2004, 08:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Aug 31 2004, 6:46 PM) I'm really confused.. so u got back together with your old boyfriend but you don't want to talk to your NOW-EX that u dated for a week? I'm very confused about what you're saying. You said i dont know if i wanna try and make us a couple agian..or brake it of... and then you say lyke i dont ever wanna c him again... You're not making any sense with this. DO YOU WANT to get back together with him? And you're VERY SHALLOW for even breaking up with the boyfriend u had for 7 months JUST SO U CAN DATE an 11th grader. And it only lasted a week. No offense, but I don't feel sorry for you because it was very shallow for you to do that. And ego booster, huh? MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS. I completely agree with her. I got lost somewhere after you were talking about the junior and then something about your first boyfriend...?? Whaa?? Make it a little bit clear because I have no idea what you're trying to get advice for. |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 31 2004, 08:43 PM
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wtf, u dumped ur boyfriend for a 11th grader just cause it fed ur ego......o my....
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Sep 1 2004, 04:16 AM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
just go with the flow and see what happens. that's the best thing i think. so nothing is messed up in this time
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Sep 1 2004, 09:44 AM
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 Im gonna eat you! Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,383 |
haha sorry to say it, but i think your screwed..
i mean if someone broke up with me to go out with someone else and then wanted me back, i dont think id be so nice.. but maybe try talking to him - at least maybe you could still be friends? |
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Sep 1 2004, 11:25 AM
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I don't think you should get back together with him.
Hell, I don't think you should be in anymore relationships. Meh. People like you make me sick. Like, th5418 said, you're a wh*re. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Sep 1 2004, 11:49 AM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Aug 31 2004, 8:43 PM) wtf, u dumped ur boyfriend for a 11th grader just cause it fed ur ego......o my.... i agree and you shouldnt have done that...that's wrong of you bad... |
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Sep 1 2004, 11:50 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
you are such a b!tch for leaving you boyfriend to go out with a 11th grader... because it fed your idiotic ego.
you don't deserve a boyfriend. |
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Sep 1 2004, 12:02 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
thats just stupid. u dont go dumping the bf that u had for 7 months just to boost ur ego 4 bout 1 week. thats just lyk showing off. dont eva do that. just hope that the first bf will forgive u. but seriously he shouldnt forgive u cause u hurted him badly. first u dump him and then u want him back. he will neva forgive u. but it depends if he still has feelings 4 u. if the feelings 4 strong still. he might forgive u, percentage out of 100, bout 1 %.
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Sep 1 2004, 12:36 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 31 2004, 6:53 PM) I can say one thing. You are one big whore. Whore of babylon.  dont get back together with him or Ill beat you with a stick...
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Sep 1 2004, 12:47 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
uh, i don't really understand what you wrote. but, if you don't have feelings for him, why go out with him?
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Sep 1 2004, 01:43 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
oh yeah... and to boost your ego just a little more...
the 11th grader probably only asked you out for the sex. upperclassmen guys always go for underclassmen for an easy catch. so soak that into your oversized ego. |
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Sep 1 2004, 02:47 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
uh.. if he doesnt make a move dont make a move i guess
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Sep 2 2004, 02:19 AM
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 Wife of Legolas Group: Member Posts: 1,290 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,190 |
QUOTE(love[x) melissa,Sep 1 2004, 11:43 AM] oh yeah... and to boost your ego just a little more... the 11th grader probably only asked you out for the sex. upperclassmen guys always go for underclassmen for an easy catch. so soak that into your oversized ego. EXACTLY what she said. It's like, the Law of Human Relationships |
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Sep 2 2004, 03:00 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 31 2004, 1:53 PM) I can say one thing. You are one big whore. Whore of babylon. haha sorry that made me laugh. but yea i think it was wrong to break up with ur boyfriend jus so you can go out with an 11th grader. thats just mean.
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Sep 2 2004, 10:25 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE (yeah i no pretty low...but how kan u say no..im onli in gr.9 and a gr.11 asked me out...kinda feeds your ego huh??) i was in 9th grade and a 11th grader asked me out...and then, me and my bf wernt even going out, we were just real good friends and i said no to the 11th grader cause i liked my bf and saved myself for him...so no, it doesnt feed my ego.  but u DID made the choice to dump him so now, u have to deal with the consiquences (hope i spelled tht right) QUOTE oh yeah... and to boost your ego just a little more... the 11th grader probably only asked you out for the sex. upperclassmen guys always go for underclassmen for an easy catch. so soak that into your oversized ego. lol and tht was my other reason why i said no ^^ |
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Sep 9 2004, 01:23 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i think that its ok.. dont blame yourself completely.. everyone makes mistakes and everyone deserves a second chance.. i think you should like talk to him about your feelings and the relationship.. friend or anything more.. you dont want to have this ackward thing go on forever.. try to resolve it..
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Sep 9 2004, 06:57 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
QUOTE(1azn_kutee @ Aug 31 2004, 3:59 PM) ok..well i just got baq together with mi boyfriend...and long story short is... you started the topic as "you got back together with your bf" and now you`re asking for help...does it make sense..?i`m confused |
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