the best friend?, best friend or the long lost friend |
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 Aug 30 2004, 08:04 PM
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 The One The Only Queen Larry  Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,670  |
A long lost friend of mine comes back into my life after leaving it for 2 years. We dated in the past and had our issues and broke up. It was bad 2 years we didn't talk! We were really close and hitting the best friend line when we decided to start dating. All of a sudden 2 months ago he starts talking to me again and now I dont know what to do because my best friend "loves" me. We have also dated in the past and it wasnt bad we always said we were going to be friends no matter what happened and so far we have stayed true to that but I dont know how long it will last with this other guy back in my life.
obviously I know you pick the one you have more feelings for but how do you chose between the 2 best friends you ever had? |
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Aug 30 2004, 08:09 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Do you like him? The guy that you broke up with..
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Aug 30 2004, 08:34 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Uhm.
Tough. Maybe neither so you don't have to choose.. How much do you like both of them? |
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Aug 31 2004, 01:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,520 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 200 |
why did you two break up in the first place? I suggest neither
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Aug 31 2004, 01:57 PM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
Well, do you have REALLY REALLY strong feelings for one? because then pick that one...if you sort of kind of like one...then it's not worth it, because the relationship probably wont last. find someone completely new.
xox spanky |
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Aug 31 2004, 02:04 PM
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The One The Only Queen Larry Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,670 |
The first one I broke up with originally because we just had a problem with not seeing each other and we had a friend or somebody we thought was a friend who lied and made up alot of lies and told us all this stuff. One of those people... you know? And the other one we broke up because the other guy came back in my life.
was messier then that really but I really tried to make it short. I really do like them both and they were/are my best friends and I dont think it would be easy to lose either of them!!! IM GOING TO H**L (are we aloud to say bad words on here?) FOR THIS ONE! 
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Aug 31 2004, 02:45 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
QUOTE(Octobersfall @ Aug 31 2004, 2:04 PM) IM GOING TO H**L (are we aloud to say bad words on here?) FOR THIS ONE! Advice: Don't be such a paranoid little girl. |
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Aug 31 2004, 08:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Just be friends with both. If you want to keep both of your best friends (since they both like you too right?), don't go out with neither. If you choose to go out with your ex, your best friend would get jealous. If you chose to go out with your best friend, your ex would get jealous. Does that make sense to you?
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