i need ur help on this one.., i made a big mistake! |
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 Aug 29 2004, 10:36 AM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
okay so this summer one of my friends has been coming over my house like everyday.. and would never invite me to her house .. so it was getting to the point where i didnt want to invite her over..so evertime i asked to go over her house she would make some excuse why i cant..when her mom was always saying kelli never has u guys over here...so i kinda pushed her a lil to invite me over..which i didnt realize i did .. now shes mad at me so she told her mom and her mom is pissed at me for being pushy when i didnt mean any of it.. so now her mom wants her to take a break from me..i try to talk to her and she just makes up an excuse that shes got to go..so what should i do? shes my best friend.. HELP!
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Aug 29 2004, 10:53 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
well, it isn't your fault.
talk to her about it and just don't invite her over anymore. |
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Aug 29 2004, 11:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,214 |
its not ur fault. i have a friend er kinda like that. (well she used to be) i would have her over at my house like all the time and it would annoy me that'd she never invited me over. but they were just busy and stuff. but now she invites me over
 it just took a while. maybe you should have a talk with your friend to get the facts straight.
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Aug 29 2004, 12:11 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
It is your fault. Stop clouding it you shitbags. She was the one who pushed Kelli too far. She was the one who forced Kelli to invite her over. Give her some ding dong room to think. Dont screw up again.
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Aug 29 2004, 01:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
It's not your fault. Just talk to her next time before you start all this drama.
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Aug 29 2004, 01:28 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
Moved to Relationship
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Aug 29 2004, 01:30 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Aug 29 2004, 1:25 PM) It's not your fault. Just talk to her next time before you start all this drama. ......Its not your fault. I mean YOU just started the drama. |
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Aug 29 2004, 01:39 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
um...u should just try to explain why u wanted to go over her house, her mom got mad at u cause u wanted to go over? maybe theres some family issues
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Aug 29 2004, 02:11 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I don't think it's your fault.
I mean.. it sounds like she's over there virtually everyday, and you are never there, correct? Hm. I don't see how that is your fault. Just leave her alone for a little bit, then talk to her about it. |
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Aug 29 2004, 02:15 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, it doesn't sound like its your fault. just talk to her about it.
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Aug 29 2004, 05:11 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
QUOTE(Deppism @ Aug 29 2004, 11:21 AM) its not ur fault. i have a friend er kinda like that. (well she used to be) i would have her over at my house like all the time and it would annoy me that'd she never invited me over. but they were just busy and stuff. but now she invites me over it just took a while. maybe you should have a talk with your friend to get the facts straight.i had the same prob |
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Aug 30 2004, 11:30 AM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
first of all, it shouldn't matter WHERE you are when you are hanging with your friends, as long as you get to spend time with them, and second, i don't think she is looking for people to say "oh no..it isn't your fault!" or "it's your fault !" i think she's looking for ADVICE..so here is what you should do. tell her that you need to talk to her, make her listen, apologize for getting her upset, tell her how you were feeling, tell her her mom sucks..wait no don't...and last but not least, tell her that you don't want to loose her as a friend, and that she is VERY important to you.
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Aug 30 2004, 01:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
just talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about the whole situation, maybe then it'll lighten up a little bit and her mom won't be a all bitchy about it
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Aug 30 2004, 02:25 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Honestly, go get a new friend and stop talking to your friend Kelli or whatever.
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Aug 30 2004, 02:47 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
QUOTE(xoxspanky569 @ Aug 30 2004, 11:30 AM) first of all, it shouldn't matter WHERE you are when you are hanging with your friends, as long as you get to spend time with them, and second, i don't think she is looking for people to say "oh no..it isn't your fault!" or "it's your fault !" i think she's looking for ADVICE..so here is what you should do. tell her that you need to talk to her, make her listen, apologize for getting her upset, tell her how you were feeling, tell her her mom sucks..wait no don't...and last but not least, tell her that you don't want to loose her as a friend, and that she is VERY important to you. Nicely put  ^^^ Just like that ^^^
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Aug 30 2004, 04:31 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
yeah man...thats not your fault... My advice is to sit back and relax a bit... Things always have a way of claming down if you allow them to. Just let it pass for a few days and call her back
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