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shy boyfriend, wut to do?
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post Aug 28 2004, 09:46 PM
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im 13 and i just got mi first REAL boyfriend. i know he likes me because online he is the sweetest person. but at skool hes really shy. he hardly talks to me and i get kinna worried. i know he likes me and hes shy, but im not sure wut to do.. all my friends are telling him to hug me and talk to me and stuff and he wants to and all but hes just too nervous..

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post Aug 28 2004, 09:49 PM
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Go shoot your boyfriend for being a creep. BTW, how can a little middle schooler have a REAL bf?
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 09:50 PM
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dont worry about it. ur probably gonna hafta make the moves though if hes realli shy though. but yea in time he'll get used to it and not b shy around u
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(PuRrFeCt GhErRl o4 @ Aug 28 2004, 9:49 PM)
Go shoot your boyfriend for being a creep. BTW, how can a little middle schooler have a REAL bf?

hes not a creep, sheesh. hes shy. learn some manners, dude
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 09:53 PM
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Ehh, just hang out with him a little bit more. Get to know him and vice versa for him. If the guy (esp. someone in middle school) likes you, then they tend to be really quiet and shy..That's just SOME boys though. It's not all, but yeah, give it time. He'll be unshy soon..haha unshy.
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 09:55 PM
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QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Aug 28 2004, 9:53 PM)
Ehh, just hang out with him a little bit more. Get to know him and vice versa for him. If the guy (esp. someone in middle school) likes you, then they tend to be really quiet and shy..That's just SOME boys though. It's not all, but yeah, give it time. He'll be unshy soon..haha unshy.

its funny because my step dad is the same way, so my mom relates to me. he hardly ever talks to her in public but in private or online their so sweet and stuff
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:01 PM
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Hm.
I'm sort of in the same situation.
Just make it a point to say hi to him in school.
Talk to him more and most likely he'll talk to you more.
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:02 PM
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try opening up for him.. introduce him to alot of ppl ..like ur friends
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:04 PM
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what's the difference between a REAL boyfriend and ... just boyfriend?


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post Aug 28 2004, 10:14 PM
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QUOTE(Guarneri @ Aug 28 2004, 10:04 PM)
what's the difference between a REAL boyfriend and ... just boyfriend?


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hmm.. wel a boyfirend is sumone who either dosent liek you, is a player, or is goin out with you for pity.. yah know? a real boyfriend is someone who really likes you and isnt hooked up wit like 3 girls and stuff.. wink.gif
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:17 PM
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im 13 and i just got mi first REAL boyfriend. i know he likes me because online he is the sweetest person. but at skool hes really shy. he hardly talks to me and i get kinna worried. i know he likes me and hes shy, but im not sure wut to do.. all my friends are telling him to hug me and talk to me and stuff and he wants to and all but hes just too nervous..

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thts why i think kids at tht age shouldnt have bf's/gf's cause they are to shy to talk to them which is really immature -_-. besides, if u guys were gf & bf, you wouldnt have these problems cause remember, bf/gf are like best friends too SO, if he was ur best friend would he be shy to act himself around u?

my sister had tht kinda relationship and when he broke up with her, she cried. i was like "wtf u crying about?? not like u guys talked NE wayz". mean but it was true..

i say wait till u get at around the age of 15-16 and get a bf
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:17 PM
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QUOTE(BlOnDiEcHiCk @ Aug 28 2004, 11:14 PM)
hmm.. wel a boyfirend is sumone who either dosent liek you, is a player, or is goin out with you for pity.. yah know? a real boyfriend is someone who really likes you and isnt hooked up wit like 3 girls and stuff..  wink.gif

Then I guess I should start calling my "boyfriend" my "real boyfriend."


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i say wait till u get at around the age of 15-16 and get a bf

I agree.
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:25 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Aug 28 2004, 10:17 PM)
thts why i think kids at tht age shouldnt have bf's/gf's cause they are to shy to talk to them which is really immature -_-. besides, if u guys were gf & bf, you wouldnt have these problems cause remember, bf/gf are like best friends too SO, if he was ur best friend would he be shy to act himself around u?

my sister had tht kinda relationship and when he broke up with her, she cried. i was like "wtf u crying about?? not like u guys talked NE wayz". mean but it was true..

i say wait till u get at around the age of 15-16 and get a bf

eh i disagree.. my friend has this boyfriend in 6th grade and they talked all the time.. and like i sed earlier, my step dad hardly talks to mi mom in public but they talk a whole lot in private and online.. and their in their thirtys!! wink.gif
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:34 PM
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well rather than waiting so long for him to make the moves why dont you start the actioning?
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:39 PM
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well rather than waiting so long for him to make the moves why dont you start the actioning?

yeh im gonna try doin that on monday. haha by the way i likeyur icon *smile* okey im not real curious anymore sumone can close this now! biggrin.gif
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 10:59 PM
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yeah, you should make the first move.
 
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post Aug 28 2004, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Aug 28 2004, 10:59 PM)
yeah, you should make the first move.

yehh really! nothing big, juss start off small! i had a boyfriend kinda like that too.. was too scared to even hug me! but maybe he'll get out of this stage.. who knows?
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 12:21 AM
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how long have you two actually gone out or known each other. to tell you the truth i was nervous in my first relationship but everythings cool now, maybe thats why?
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 01:12 AM
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I've been going out with my gf for about a month now and I'm still shy when it comes to hugging, kissing, holding hands, etc.
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 01:16 AM
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toughen him up by cheating on him, he will then see how evil girls are and therefore there will be no reason to be shy like a pussy.

ur reply on real boyfriends and normal boyfriends is quite stupid

u have just a boyfriend because hes shy and he only talks to u online, real boyfriend my ass. real boyfriends wouldnt be shy to their girl friends.
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 01:22 AM
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well, i did the SAME EXACT THING when i was in middle school. We talked a lot online, but never in real life. The only diff. is, he was my best friend's cousin. It really didn't work out because all relationships require Communication. IF he was waiting for me to make the move, well I did, just not what he wanted. I can't stand going out with people before I get to know them. They treat is like such a game.

If he really was a man, ask him why he does't have half a ball to talk to you. Show him your sassy side. And girl, MOVE ON.

p.s. Unless there are really imaginary boyfrinds, all boyfriends are real. They have real feelings, just like you. Don't call em "just boyfriends" if you dont want to be "just a girlfriend"
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 01:30 AM
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QUOTE(BlOnDiEcHiCk @ Aug 28 2004, 10:39 PM)
yeh im gonna try doin that on monday. haha by the way i likeyur icon *smile* okey im not real curious anymore sumone can close this now!  biggrin.gif

thank you but the avatar isnt by me though the credits go to -- xXRagxXxDollXx and good luck by the way _smile.gif
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 01:35 AM
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im 13 and i just got mi first REAL boyfriend. i know he likes me because online he is the sweetest person. but at skool hes really shy. he hardly talks to me and i get kinna worried. i know he likes me and hes shy, but im not sure wut to do.. all my friends are telling him to hug me and talk to me and stuff and he wants to and all but hes just too nervous..

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EXACT same thing happened to a girl I talked to once online. Her bofriend was to shy to touch her, and they talked for hours online, but much less in person. He was shy though lol. Yeah go up to him randomly, hug him, and see what he does. wink.gif If he wants to why not? lol
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 01:43 AM
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ur friend dated in 6th grade huh? i dun think love is in even in a 6th graders dictionary
 
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post Aug 29 2004, 11:10 AM
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sounds familiar.

why don't you just take him somewhere quiet and just talk to him about it
 
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