Age, Does it really matter? |
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 Aug 28 2004, 04:45 PM
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 I'm 2 people's favourite CBer.  Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,514  |
My boyfriend and I aren't the same age... (I'm not going to tell the difference) And a lot of people seem to think that if you're more than 3 or 4 years appart, that you can't ever be truly happy.
What are your thoughts? Think it really matters? Or is age just a mindset? |
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| *hcosurfkid* |
Aug 28 2004, 05:18 PM
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Age Dont matter.. Im a guy who was born in October, but started school very early.. Everyone is basicly a year onlder then me oin my grade.. But i still get a lot of girls.. They dont seem to care that im younger..
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Aug 28 2004, 05:22 PM
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I'm 2 people's favourite CBer. Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,514 |
QUOTE(hcosurfkid @ Aug 28 2004, 4:18 PM) Age Dont matter.. Im a guy who was born in October, but started school very early.. Everyone is basicly a year onlder then me oin my grade.. But i still get a lot of girls.. They dont seem to care that im younger.. *laughs* Congrats. But uaually, a year doesn't make much difference... I meant more than a grade seperation... 
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Aug 28 2004, 05:22 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I personally don't think it matters too much.
Unless you're 15 and they're 20. Then yes.. it would matter a bit. It's better if you're 20 and they're 25.. It matters sometimes, but I don't think it should matter a lot.. unless the two are really far apart. |
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Aug 28 2004, 05:35 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
age doesn't really matter, unless it's something extreme, or illegal (like if you're underage and he's 18+)
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Aug 28 2004, 05:43 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i went out with a guy who was 16 when i was 13. i don't think it's that big of a deal, but like, 16 and 12 would be a bigger difference..it's not like the age is a problem, but 12 year olds should not be going out with 16 year olds, maturity wise.
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Aug 28 2004, 05:47 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
I agree.. i think it has more to do with maturity and where you are in your age that matters.
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Aug 28 2004, 05:55 PM
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its not necessarily true that you cant ever be happy
it depends how much you like the guy..you can always make things work i personally prefer not to date a guy more than 3 or 4 years older than me |
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Aug 28 2004, 06:01 PM
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 ummm....BOO Group: Member Posts: 351 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,173 |
Age doesnt really count,im 14 and i went out with a 21 year old for like a yaer and my friend misty is 14 and she still goes iwht a 19 yaer old and is pregnant*cough*slut*coughbut yah i dont think age really counts
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Aug 28 2004, 06:11 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
i dont think age matters....as long as its not like the ashton/demi thingy lol....i think thats going a lil over board
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Aug 28 2004, 08:43 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
well to me age doesn't matter
but i mean after you turn 18 it doesn't matter |
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Aug 28 2004, 08:49 PM
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age doesn't really matter unless if you were like 20 dating someone 60-up just for something they have. i think that as an adult age difference doesn't become a concern but when where young like around the teens its starts to become something we think about more
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Aug 28 2004, 09:43 PM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
I, personally, wouldn't go past two years of age difference.
Five years is too much.. *shudder* |
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Aug 28 2004, 10:06 PM
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Yeah, I agree five years is too much. >.< That's just plain creepy.
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Aug 28 2004, 10:10 PM
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as long as youre both feeling it why just let a number stop you?
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Aug 28 2004, 10:15 PM
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Cjkpop.net Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,362 |
Ages dont matter. If you guys love each others, it's not a big problem.
It is if the guy is like 40 and ur 16 o____O - Tran - |
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| *x____duckii* |
Aug 28 2004, 10:30 PM
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Okay...
Like, for example, if you're 9 and you're dating a 14 yr. old, it's a HUGE difference if you know what I mean. But if you're 2o and the guy is 25, it doesn't really seem to make that much of a difference. Anyways, I don't think that made sense 
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Aug 28 2004, 11:25 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
when you're young it does somewhat matter... but as you get older even a decade doesnt seem bad.
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Aug 28 2004, 11:40 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i realli dont think age matters unless it deals with some1 18 or older dating a minor... other than that i dont think it matters.
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Aug 29 2004, 01:27 AM
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I don`t think it matters
My dad is 70 `nd my mom is 36. [:. |
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Aug 29 2004, 02:31 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(maliitashun @ Aug 29 2004, 1:27 AM) I don`t think it matters My dad is 70 `nd my mom is 36. [:. How... ****! |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 29 2004, 02:34 AM
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QUOTE(maliitashun @ Aug 29 2004, 1:27 AM) I don`t think it matters My dad is 70 `nd my mom is 36. [:. whoa  anywho, no age doesnt matter it just doesnt work out cause people keep thinking that age does matter so which leads to them braking up |
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| *wind&fire* |
Aug 29 2004, 03:19 AM
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but i want him to be older than me tho...
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Aug 29 2004, 04:59 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Age shouldnt really matter.... i think the person should only be like at the maxi is 2-3 years older than the other... but yea i think that should only apply to kids lol... but i dont think it really matters.....my dad is like 5 ish years older than my mom
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Aug 29 2004, 01:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
course age matters, if yer in middle school and yer datin some girl in 11th grade, you'd be considered a pimp kinda but then ppl would make fun of her and you probably wouldn't like that and u can't do anything about it...same thing if u date a guy in 11th grade
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