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| *wind&fire* |
 Aug 27 2004, 10:02 PM
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like i kno alot of ppl out there have internet relalonships but how can you maintain it... like you guys are so far apart...and the person u might be talking to could be a perverted old fat man in front of a computer with a hard on??????
  and like my friend had one and it didnt work out cos he cheated on her....what do you guys do??? cos ryt now im im like... huh????? |
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Aug 27 2004, 10:08 PM
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 This bitch better work!  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i totally agree with you. i don't think internet relationships are very good. that is how some people get raped or killed because they thought that the person was someone that it wasn't. i totally agree with.
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Aug 27 2004, 10:22 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i have no idea how they work and i dont know how ppl are able to maintain it =x personally i think internet relationships is more like a flirt or a fling
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| *wind&fire* |
Aug 27 2004, 10:33 PM
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yeh....is there anyone out there that knows how it works?!?!?!?!
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Aug 27 2004, 10:37 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
It has to do with an abnormal amount and inhumane amount of trust. Yes duck girl. You have an inhumane amount of trust.
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Aug 27 2004, 10:42 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
they suck. terribly. dont do it. u never see them, and if u do, itll b realy ackward, and just bleh. it sucks
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| *evdxgirl* |
Aug 27 2004, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 27 2004, 11:37 PM) It has to do with an abnormal amount and inhumane amount of trust. Yes duck girl. You have an inhumane amount of trust. hahahah. are you referring to..uh...linhy pooh? i'm not too keen on internet relationships. they seem to fake for me, anyways. |
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Aug 27 2004, 10:50 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Yeh, I guess thats her screename.
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Aug 27 2004, 11:33 PM
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just call me bitch Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,176 |
r u talkin about those that u never see and u will never see that person in life time?? if that is the case...just keep on playin...dont worry about it...cus that just fake!!! i m sry to be curel but that just how life is...
if u sayin u gonna meet him up later on in life...then thats a different case cus u guys might realli developin a real relationship be smart !!! goodluck yo!! |
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Aug 27 2004, 11:44 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh i understand... i have one kinda like myself... all you need to know is if the person is fake or not... and having trust... if you dont have them.. then i doubt that one could work... you do have to be very careful.
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Aug 28 2004, 12:40 AM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
QUOTE(AzNbUbZ @ Aug 27 2004, 10:02 PM) like i kno alot of ppl out there have internet relalonships but how can you maintain it... u dont, thats y there r so many stupid ppl thinking their true love is somewhere in this world and theyre trying to find it on the internet, hilarious. |
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| *wind&fire* |
Aug 28 2004, 03:11 AM
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no like... do they just talk to each other on the internet every day?? or do they do somthing also...
im not being critical of them...just interested... |
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Aug 28 2004, 04:10 AM
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QUOTE(XxBeExOHxX @ Aug 28 2004, 12:40 AM) u dont, thats y there r so many stupid ppl thinking their true love is somewhere in this world and theyre trying to find it on the internet, hilarious. har, there are a lot of stupid people thinking thier true loves are the people they made out with in the movie theatres the other day. have you ever been in one? unless you've dated both on and offline (and you've managed to maintain a pretty lengthy relationship), you don't really have the right to compare or talk **** about internet relationships. QUOTE no like... do they just talk to each other on the internet every day?? or do they do somthing also... im not being critical of them...just interested... technology is wonderful, isn't it? ;o it brought us webcams, telephones, computer games, and movies downloadable online! whoa! there is no limit to what you can "do". the only thing lacking in an internet relationship is physical contact, which can easily be fixed when the couple decide to meet up. sometimes it's even better that way so you get to know the person through their thoughts/writing rather than fall "in love" with their drop dead gorgeous looks ;x |
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Aug 28 2004, 05:00 AM
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 carmi Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,020 |
long distance relationships r hard, full stop.
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Aug 28 2004, 11:06 AM
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WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 27 2004, 10:37 PM) It has to do with an abnormal amount and inhumane amount of trust. Yes duck girl. You have an inhumane amount of trust. hmm... not really, but yehh i have proof that my boyfriend is real... not like i go around trusting every stranger i meet. but whatever you wanna call it. |
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| *x____duckii* |
Aug 28 2004, 11:41 AM
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In my opinion, internet relationships are just dumb. What if it's some old dumb perverted man? You never know...
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Aug 28 2004, 11:46 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
in my opinion, internet relationships are bull.
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Aug 28 2004, 12:34 PM
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Yes, internet relationships are bull. I mean first off, it's long distance and since you guys never met at all, it'll be like umm you won't even know whats going on if they cheat on you. Even if they do "cheat" on you, I wouldn't consider it cheating because ..I mean..it's ONLINE.
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Aug 28 2004, 02:51 PM
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all i know is it takes a lot of patience and will. all my best friend`s relationship have BEEN online relationships. She finds it more comfortable talking to people online cause she`s self-conscious .. but through her experience that`s what i know. But ya also gotta keep in mind that this person may not be seeing you only or may not be exactly who you think they are .. so you gotta watch what you say and what you do, making sure not to be tOo open and committed to this person.
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Aug 28 2004, 03:14 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
to me, internet relationship r stupid..
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Aug 28 2004, 03:16 PM
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opinion without reason is ignorance ;o opinion without experience is nothing but speculation
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Aug 28 2004, 03:29 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
it works when 1 person is very bored and loney and the other is old and perverted
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Aug 28 2004, 06:22 PM
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 I'm 2 people's favourite CBer. Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,514 |
QUOTE(synkro @ Aug 28 2004, 3:10 AM) har, there are a lot of stupid people thinking thier true loves are the people they made out with in the movie theatres the other day. have you ever been in one? unless you've dated both on and offline (and you've managed to maintain a pretty lengthy relationship), you don't really have the right to compare or talk **** about internet relationships. technology is wonderful, isn't it? ;o it brought us webcams, telephones, computer games, and movies downloadable online! whoa! there is no limit to what you can "do". the only thing lacking in an internet relationship is physical contact, which can easily be fixed when the couple decide to meet up. sometimes it's even better that way so you get to know the person through their thoughts/writing rather than fall "in love" with their drop dead gorgeous looks ;x Sometimes, it doesn't matter. I mean, you love who you love. Usually, I'm not into the whole internet dating thing, but sometimes... I've been hurt in relationships before, gave up on ever finding someone to love because I was made to believe I wasn't good enough. I've come to realise that most American males are chauvanistic... I've yet to meet one who isn't, even subconsciously. Then I met someone online. We were friends for a while, flirting innocently... Until we admited that we liked the other. My longest relationship offline: 7 months - full of pain My online relationship: Almost a year and full of love. It takes a lot of trust. It takes a lot of patience. I'm planning on moving to be with him at the end of this school year. It just... Depends on the person. Good luck in whatever anyone does. Judge-free's the way to be. |
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Aug 28 2004, 06:30 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE opinion without reason is ignorance ;o opinion without experience is nothing but speculation ok well here is my reason why i think internet relationships are stupid. -u can never be sure if your *internet* partner is being faithful (they can cheat on u and you would never know about it) -its in a way, immature and someone to desprete -they could be some fat old 40 yr old guy/girl and you would never know it -if ur gunna meet them somehow, they might rape you or kill you. and i havent experienced a internet relationship because im not tht kinda person and i just aint gunna go down tht path cause its just ridiculous. |
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Aug 28 2004, 06:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,167 |
Not every one you meet online is a old and perverted man/woman, though. Of course you have to be careful and all. You don't have to be desperate to get into an online relationship though. Online relationships can work out and all. I'll have proof..one day...
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