how do i tell my mom that im gay... Options

[mouse_3k]

hmm if i was gay, i would say this


"mom, u love me right? even if i had a birth defect or was gay or something like tht right? (((the mom should say yes by now))). well mom...im gay"

somethin like tht. wow, i probably didnt help u at all huh?

[literemix24]

i dink you should juss tell her..i mean shes ur mom 'nd she loves you. I'm pretty sure that she'll love you no matter wut..Oh 'nd like inlonelinessidie sed..becareful wif online dating..XP

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i have a problem...i have to tell my mom that im gay and that i've been havin an internet bf for the past three months and that in about two weeks he's comin here to see me and that he's also five years older than me... what do i do!!?? im reallly close to my mom and i really dont wanna lie to her... im afraid that if i do tell her she wont let me see him..i could always tell her just part of the story, that im meetin up with a "friend" and he's only stayin here for a short period of time....but then later on i'd have to tell her the truth and come out to her to what really happened, i dont want it to get to this point cuz then she might not trust me anymore...shes always tellin me her stuff, and she said that since she tells me alll her stuff i shouldnt be afraid to tell her all my stuff....im very confused!

god people....look at when this thread was posted......im pretty sure he dealt with his problem by now...

[ComradeRed]

i have a problem...i have to tell my mom that im gay and that i've been havin an internet bf for the past three months and that in about two weeks he's comin here to see me and that he's also five years older than me... what do i do!!?? im reallly close to my mom and i really dont wanna lie to her... im afraid that if i do tell her she wont let me see him..i could always tell her just part of the story, that im meetin up with a "friend" and he's only stayin here for a short period of time....but then later on  i'd have to tell her the truth and come out to her to what really happened, i dont want it to get to this point cuz then she might not trust me anymore...shes always tellin me her stuff, and she said that since she tells me alll her stuff i shouldnt be afraid to tell her all my stuff....im very confused!

Say you have Reverse Oedipus Complex and threatend to kill your mom.

[scandalous_chic]

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[Counting]

She'll probably just be surprised, but mom's love you no matter what the circumstances are.

[[i]LLMATiC]

she prollie wont b surprised. i mean shes ur mom. most moms knoe stuff like that. cuz if uv nevr had a gf or ne thing like that. then yea shell think somethings up.

[Devastation]

I know how you feel babe. This has happened in my family, so here's all you gotta do; tell her. It's that simple just bring it up. Be like "Mom have you noticed that I don't have a girlfriend?" I'm sure she'll understand and no matter what she'll always love you.
BTW: Careful with the whole online dating thing.

Take care and I'm sure it'll all work out.

great response

[sweetdreamsx3]

I know how you feel babe. This has happened in my family, so here's all you gotta do; tell her. It's that simple just bring it up. Be like "Mom have you noticed that I don't have a girlfriend?" I'm sure she'll understand and no matter what she'll always love you.
BTW: Careful with the whole online dating thing.

Take care and I'm sure it'll all work out.

Couldn't have said it any better...

[captured_serenit...]

talk to them about the situtation but talk to them about what they think about the subject and then you have to break it to them gently they will always love you no matter what so they should support you.

[xoxspanky569]

i think you should tell her, because if you don't and she finds out she's going to be mad that you hid it from her. I don't think she will be mad that you are gay, unless she is a very ignorant person. And if she is she's just going to have to accept who you are. Also, internet relationships can be a tad risky...it's extremely easy to lie about things on the internet, so please just be careful. I'm sure things will work out the way they are intended to. Good luck.

xox Spanky

[DavidxN]

break it to her slowly, first tell her u have a friend comin over, and let her get to know him and like him then u tell her later that you're gay and then tell her later that you're seein him then later tell her u guys met online

[luckyxi3]

i think you should just tell your mom straight up... she seems pretty cool so i`m pretty sure she`ll accept you for who you are... if you wait longer to tell her things then it might come to its worst...