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 Aug 24 2004, 03:16 PM
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ugh...life sucks...last year in june, when i saw a pretty girl i thought to myself "damn she's pretty fine" or "holy crap"...and all along i never really thought about if i really felt for the girl or not...get it? it alll changed when school started i started to feel for this girl not for how "fine" she was, but it was just something about her i cant explain..and i know that there cant ever be a "we" because of multiple reasons... (racial diffference, she probably likes someone else,we're friends...not too tight though,im shy..
 and w/e else there may be )...i know im a nice guy and ive been told alot of timez but i probably just wouldnt cut it for her...she'd see me in a whole different perspective if i told her...girls usually do that..and i think ive realllly fallen for her....but its tough knowing you cant be with someone no matter how hard you try or want...god...the pain and thinking i went through makes me sick...if you read this thaanks i just needed to get it out to someone...if you've ever been in my shoes props to you no matter how u handled it...fcuk this sappy shitt that i dont know how to handle...and uhh props if u read this shizzle... |
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Aug 24 2004, 03:23 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I know exactly wut your going with. I had the hugest crush on a guy the first year in college and it was hard cuz he was sooo out of my leauge..I even went so far out as to get him a Crush "soda" that was sent to his dorm..and we talked for a little bit but he just didn't seem interested in me and it really broke my heart. I saw him a couple times after that and I guess the best way to get over it is just keep yourself busy and think that there will always be someone out there that is meant for you. However; I think you should juss take a risk like I did and juss tell her honestly wut's been in your heart..and if she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn't..life won't be so bad..i PROMISE..and now I found a GUY whom I LOVE..and it's great..juss be PATIENT!!
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Aug 24 2004, 03:25 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
Well, you should still talk to her. You won't really know if you could ever be together if you never try to talk to her. Don't think that you're not good enough because you probably are. Stop thinking about in a "I'm-degrading-myself-because-I-don't-think-I'm-good-enough" kind of way and just talk to her. xD..
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Aug 24 2004, 03:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,314 |
the thing is if i cant have her than i would at least like to keep our friendship...if its the most i can get ... and btw if u didnt ead she probably likes someone else...
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Aug 24 2004, 03:48 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
well i have done things out of my way for a guy and it's just hurtful when you know that they arent interested i wish i could do something about it but...it's just because i get emotionally attached easily...but trust me i'm not the physco ones...
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Aug 24 2004, 04:01 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
hey man, exactly the same thing happened to me bro, all ya gotta do is just suck it up for now, and keep on looking, there is always someone for ya.
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Aug 24 2004, 04:09 PM
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i'm hotT n sexaii Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,397 |
QUOTE(XGhostReconX @ Aug 24 2004, 3:44 PM) the thing is if i cant have her than i would at least like to keep our friendship...if its the most i can get ... and btw if u didnt ead she probably likes someone else... jus lyke yoo said, she PROBABLY likes someone else..heyy, i've been in that spot before, i know how you feel, just tell her, racial difference isn't that big of a thing. i dated some mixed quy and everyone was fine with it. if she does look at you from a different perspective, then its her fault for losing you. here's an easier way, ask her if she likes you, if she ever did, if she says yes then go out with her. if she says no then say that someone dared you. it can't be too hard. the more pressure you put on yourself the harder it is to ask the question. |
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Aug 24 2004, 07:42 PM
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God, just go ask her out dammit. Race doesn't have to be a problem if you really like her. Yea, i know what you mean by it changing how she thinks about you but, say 10 years from now. are you going to regert not asking her out? are you going to say i should've/ would've done this or that if i had the chance. When you have a chance take it. It usually doesn't come around twice
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Aug 24 2004, 08:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
just ask her out, most ppl dont get together if they're best buds....think of it as a game, shes the boss and u try to get her, if u dont, u lose the level but its not game over, just continue to the next level (next chick)
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Aug 24 2004, 09:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,314 |
i wus thinkin and ehh i guess u guys are rite....thanks for the advice...i think im gonna wait just a bit and ask her out...gonna try and take it easy...the patient approach...
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Aug 25 2004, 12:13 AM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
dude i made that mistake a lil while back... i wuz trippin for dis one grl... i didnt act til the last minute. i lost her foreva cuz dis wuz on a cruise... neva got her # or sn or netin. damn i wish i cuda been less shy... but hell the me now wud sure as hell walk up to her n get somtin goin... gather up ur confidence n do it... the worse that cud happen is she gets wit sum1 else
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