Age Difference, Does it matter? |
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 Aug 23 2004, 02:35 AM
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 Authentic  Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,904  |
Age difference. Does it matter? Well i know it matters if the person is 18+ but what I mean is, does it matter when its like a 4 year difference? [ ex. 13 yr. dating a 16 yr old. ]. I'm a freshwoman in highschool and my bf is in 8th grade. I feel a bit awkward about it because the boyfriends i had was atleast 2 years older than me. He's only 4 months younger than me. Is what im feeling a bit ridiculous?
And for all the ladies, have you dated a guy younger than you? |
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Aug 23 2004, 03:17 AM
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 David desrosiers rox* Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,312 |
age difference is definately not a problem for me....
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Aug 23 2004, 03:28 AM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
i dont see anything wrong with age difference ... in most situations. ive gone out with a couple guys younger than me. when i was a freshmen my boyfriend was an 8th grader >.<
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Aug 23 2004, 03:45 AM
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 scl_illmatics Group: Member Posts: 223 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,339 |
i date a 75 year old women
i dont see whats wrong with that.. juss kidding, it matters about connection i guess if the two love each other, i dont see whats wrong with it |
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Aug 23 2004, 09:22 AM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
I wouldnt go over 10 years in age difference..cause thats gettin kinda creepy-ish, but even up to 9 or 10 years difference really shouldnt matter once their both over 18. As long as theres that connection, I dont see why age should matter.
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Aug 23 2004, 09:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
it don't really matter unless it was like a really big age difference like 40 years and your just dating that person for what he/she got. money. house. car. etc...
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Aug 23 2004, 11:27 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
My mom is about 4 years younger than my dad. So?
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Aug 23 2004, 12:31 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
age shouldnt matter. as long as u love them. My bf is a yr older then me. so what..
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Aug 23 2004, 12:51 PM
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 ::Purrr:: Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,825 |
age only matters depending how old u r..for example...if ur 20 n ur bf is 25..totally exceptable..but if ur 15 n ur bf is 20..parents dont like dat one dat much..lol..but yeah..a 4 month diff is nuthin
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Aug 23 2004, 12:52 PM
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 dudeee! Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
age difference shouldnt stop anything..
i mean.. my parents are 5 years apart.. who cares? |
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Aug 23 2004, 02:47 PM
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 ...Hm? Group: Member Posts: 250 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 910 |
My friend's grandparents are 10 years part. Or that's what she said.
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Aug 23 2004, 05:00 PM
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Authentic Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,904 |
hhmm
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Aug 23 2004, 05:15 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It shouldn't matter.
To some, it does, but I don't think it should.. Unless you're 12 and the other is 24.. that's just.. weird.. 
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Aug 23 2004, 05:24 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
pssh nahh juss 4 months? thats really nothing! anyways me and my boyfriend are 4 years apart... and i dont see nothing wrong with it... but yehh i always date older guys.
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Aug 23 2004, 05:26 PM
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Authentic Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,904 |
I prefer older guys. Well now that I think of it. MOst of my boyfriends I had were atleast 3 or 4 years difference. This is just my first time dating someone thats younger than me.
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Aug 23 2004, 08:01 PM
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 michellee<33 Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,302 |
well.. this is just how i see it:
i dont think the girl should really be older than the guy. but if you're in like middle school and your just one grade older, then that's okay. but im pretty sure things'll get akward when u get into hi skool and he's jsut graduating in the year to come. age doesnt really matter though. my mother is 3 years senior to my dad. and i always thought that was weird-- especially cause my mom sometimes refers to him as being "immature" which sometimes, he is, and its pretty odd.  it doesnt matter tho.  "its about the love really"x3 dont sweat it. 4 months-- heh. my cousin likes a dude one grade her junior, and technically, hes like 2 years younger than her. |
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Aug 23 2004, 08:53 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
its ok to feel like that but jus remember that age is just a number
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Aug 23 2004, 09:01 PM
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 cheeky Group: Member Posts: 537 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,686 |
my parents are 10 years apart and my uncle & aunt are 15 years apart and they're both happy. but then again, since this is only our teen years... i dont think it matters. just as long as you're happy =)
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Aug 24 2004, 03:19 AM
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Authentic Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,904 |
Thanks for the replys!
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Aug 24 2004, 07:10 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I never truly understand why people say its acceptable to be 26 and have a 21 year old bf/gf but not acceptable to be 21 and have a 16 year old bf/gf. Its the same age span...and if you guys say that age doesn't matter then it shouldn't matter in any case may it be a 26 and a 21 year old or a 21 and a 16 year old.
You shouldn't feel ashamed because most of the girls I have dated are older than me and they didn't feel ashame...or at least thats what they tell me...haha lmao... |
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Aug 24 2004, 03:10 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
I don't see anything wrong unless it's like a 10 year or more difference. Then, I would get a tad uncomfy.
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Aug 24 2004, 03:24 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I've never dated someone younger than me...but I liked someone a year younger than me..so it's all good. If he's only 4 months younger..don't worry about you..u guys like each other..dat's all that matters!!
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Aug 24 2004, 04:19 PM
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 PARTY NAKED Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,032 |
doesnt matter at all. evn wit a small difference like that i mean 4 months.. wuts that. thats nothing. my friends parents are 10 years apart. wow
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Aug 24 2004, 08:19 PM
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Authentic Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,904 |
It's just my first time having a bf thats younger than me. I know it only 4 months but it feels more than that. And you guys, WE ARE NOT IN LOVE. WE JUST HAPPEN TO LIKE EACH OTHER ALOT
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Aug 24 2004, 11:35 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
girls one year younger than me always like me.. i hate it but i trying to find a girl around my age... 16 and yeah.
its okay to date someone younger than you, it all depends on the person maturity and stuff.. |
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