WaNtIn To LeT Go, jus dont kno how...help..i need advice Options

[LeAnBaK]

ok well pplz...heres da thing...i was wit ma boo for goin on six months...we had fights and whut not but it was normal ya kno>..anyways i cheated on him and eva since then he hasnt been da same...so yesterday i was gettin tired of him and the $h!t he does so i said i think that it would be betta if we were friends...so today i called him up cuz i wasnt finished talkin to him so he was like "meet me at da park" so i went der and he was like der was no reason to end dis relationship..ur answer is a bull$h!t answer and..etc..well why we were seperated or w.e he kissed a gurl named steph..which by da way i HATE..cuz she is SMUT to me..but anyways..he talk about her jus to make me mad cuz he kno it pisses me off..but im not sure anymore...everybody is tellin me i deserve betta den him and now i found a guy that listens to me when i talk...and actually understands me...i jus dont wanna be used ya kno?..anywayss ppl be sayin"follow ya heart"..but dats da prob...im so confused and dont kno whut to do anymore ..i think im jus in this relationship b.c i dont wanna hurt him or b.c i feel bad....does anybody have any advice?....it would really help right now

[x0143637x0]

there realli is no point in keeping this relationship. even if it hurts him you gotta end this. it doesnt seem like its working at all. and doing things that yooh hate... i hate guys like that

[LeAnBaK]

me too...

[stinerz]

I know exactly how you feel. yea the typical response is the "follow your heart" and I've gotten that plenty of times. Problem with that is when you dont know what your heart is telling you. My advice...think about it. Is he really a guy you can picture yourself being with in the future? if not then why waste time and hang around the past. Move on and find a guy that's worth having you as a girlfriend. Yea it's easier said than done but moving on would probably be the best idea if you don't feel for him anymore. Keep your head up and smile =) i'm going through a stressful time right now as well but i've learned to deal with this stuff. hoep you will too =) GL!

[LeAnBaK]

thanx...i think ur def right..i jus have the prob on thinkin about how hes gonna feel and i feel like well"whut if i want him bak"...idk whut to do..but GL to too tho..thanx

[aznriceboi]

Option A: throw rocks at his window
Option B: theres no option b

its hard to read what people say when they write like this---> ex: dis/this, da/the, eva, ever. but yea sorry just had to get it out

at what you were saying, call it off, he cheated, you cheated. break it off and move on. and then do option A

[LeAnBaK]

lolz..thanx

[cutielilsuga]

like what everyone else say
move on
and find someone who will treat you butt right

[babyxtc626]

girl im right where u are..is hard moving on when ur with someone that n you love them. but wat i've learned is...you just have to see that ur not really missing anything when ur without him..he didnt treat u right...so why bring more pain to urself...everything takes time...n i hope one day u find that someone who'll love you for you n treat u like u should be

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i dink dat dou dould dump dim decause de deserves detter dan dou , dhy i day dat? decause dou TYPe LIKE THIS! god how hard is it to replace d with TH ...there right by each other....

anyways...if it aint working out end the freakin relationship doesnt take a genius to figure that out.. your friends says u deserve better? maybe because he isnt a good boyfriend, but he stills wants to be with u after u cheat on him? who really deserves better? just end things and quit screwing with each others life

[mouse_3k]

he kissed a gurl named steph..which by da way i HATE..cuz she is SMUT to m

i swear i didnt kiss him


NE who, since u two cheated on each other, then there is no reason to continue cause u two will continue to hurt each other... since you cheated too, i think u should take a break from boys for like..a few months or so.

but then again, hes a loser for cheating on you too so find someone better and when u do, dont cheat on him

[*mishyerr*]

...

to put it in a nice, blunt way.

this relationship is pathetic. both of you cheat on each other. what kind of relationship is this? i think both of yall are not ready for a real commitment.

and also. your boy is some piece of **** for trying to make you mad by smoochin up wid another girl. if there WAS a turning point to help this relationship. he should have forgave you, held no grudges, and not continue this pattern.


do you really want to let go? look inside yourself. i think that most of us just say we want to let go. but our hearts don't and we don't let it let go.. you're never gonna let go unless you decide that it's REALLLY what you want. (trust me i went through that) i wanted to let go of a guy for a year.. but i never did cus i guess inside i didnt want to.)